Hi everyone,
I’m 38 and going through a separation / divorce right now. My husband and I split recently after (badly) ttc for 2 years (he was VERY reluctant in retrospect). It’s always been a point of contention and I should have left him sooner as it’s clear now he never wanted kids. Anyway, I continued with fertility tests despite our split (he refused to get a sperm test which I’m so angry about as now I don’t know if the problem was me or him). I got tests on the NHS and privately but no one explained what they mean or if they’re good/bad for my age. I’ve done extensive googling but really wanted to chat to some real people who might have gone through the same experience then conceived / had IVF / had any insights into the practical reality of these numbers. these were the results (I had some tests about a year ago then very recently):
AMH (Oct 2020) - 11.9 pmol
AFC (Oct 2020) - 10 total (4 one side, 6 the other)
FSH (Aug 2020) - 7.4
LH (Aug 2020) - 4.7
Oestradiol (Aug 2020) - 255
Progesterone (Aug 2020) - 44
AMH (Dec 2019) - 11.8 pmol
FSH (Sept 2019) - 6.6
LH (Sept 2019) - 6.4
Oestradiol (Sept 2019) - 225
Progesterone (Sept 2019) - 46
I’m a bit worried about the AMH and AFC? 10 follicles seemed low? And AMH perhaps lower than average for my age (based on google search). Everything else seems relatively normal? Should I feel reassured that the AMH is the same level as last year? I didn’t have AFC test until this week so I don’t know what it would have been in the past.
I’m currently weighing options - freezing eggs (seems a bit late), going it alone (big decision obviously) or waiting a year or so to see if anything happens with anyone else (worried about leaving it too late).
If anyone can give any insights / advice / support I’d be so so grateful!
Thank you!!