Tits out, chin up and ❤️ yourself - TTC Bus 19

[Juno231]

Come join us on our TTC journeys - all you need is a sense of humour!

Bus history:
June - 24 BFPs
July - 11 BFPs
August - 18 BFPs
September - 4 BFPs

October BFPs so far:
@blackcurrantqueen - Oct 5th
@mrsbear1122 - Oct 12th
@savethechubbyunicorns - Oct 13th

Testing dates:
@adogisforlife - October 17th
@pebblesinthesand - October 17th
@mosherchick - October 18th
@Vil10 - October 21st
@ladybird345 - October 22nd
@lucyrp - October 22nd
@Franklydear - October 25th
@Kay00 - October 25th
@Juno231 - October 26th
@dsr87 - October 28th
@clairey844 - October 30th
@notyetamumbuttrying - October 31st
@katao - November 1st
@2020mission - November 2nd
@nestinginNL - November 18th
@Hopeful110 - November 22nd

Oh @Minster2012 for the last 4/5 months my cycles have been 26-28 days instead of 22-23, so seem always late, also my periods have changed from merely a day, or even spotting, to at least 2 and a bit, and the last 2 I had to use multiple pads a day, instead of just liners or leaving a pad the whole day, I am hoping this means a linen is being shred every cycle and the dreaded pill is completely out of my system, took long enough

@Franklydear You all are! Bloody brilliantly and I’m so thankful for all the hand holding. I really needed it this time, I think I was ready to explode now that’s it my 24th cycle with zero success :(
I’m sorry to hear your cycles are changing but you’re right, this might mean the pill is done with you now so I’ll keep my fingers and toes crossed for you xxx

@AmesK thank you so much, you too are a lovely lady, the support is great, I don't know what I would do without you

Ladies! I think I know why I've had a swimming pool party in my underwear for the last week!
My temps still above coverline at 97.30f but I've been doing opks as usual, and.... the line on todays one is actually as dark as if not darker than the control line! And femometer has registered it as peak as its 95% and the 4th oct was 82%....the line is defo stronger! And I feel really horny today 🤦‍♀️🤣🤣 so could it be that I never actually ovulated?? Oh gosh I have no idea! Il post the pics and if anyone can actually understand my body that would be great 🤣🤣
Going to jump on the 🍆 tonight as OH is home after working away :) so maybe this is ovulation?

@Franklydear ah ok, i can see why if November was your deadline you are considering not ttc but I think calendar aside, ask yourself (and OH) what you want and go with that 😘

@Franklydear I agree that there isn't really a difference between 43 and 44 so I'd carry on indefinitely to be honest!

@vil10 ah that's a good door! Can't wait to be able to choose stuff like that for the house :) we've bought a big curved screen for the home office today and it feels so weird to think we'll be able to wfh properly from now on!

@Katao yes I read about that being the highest dose today 😬 hopefully 10 days won’t have harmed me too much and I read if you get tingling in arms legs etc that a sign but I’ve not had that! Defo going to just take folic acid now and maybe coq10 but nothing else. Bit scared to even take that! There is a chance it could all just be done to stress as I’ve never been as stressed at work as I have been the last 2 months so could be that. Time will tell I guess

Hi ladies! My first ever MN post was on here a week ago and I haven't managed to post again since - combination of a crappy week in work and an app that won't let me click in and out of my reply (so I have to try remember everyone to reply to, which obv does not work!)

In FW here and had a bit of a heart to heart with DH this morning about it all. Sex life has been suffering with TTC and the pressure (for both of us!) But we're back on the same page, I hope!

Have been keeping up with reading but not replying - supplement chat has been interesting. I'm taking folic acid and vit D but nothing else. I can't take any supplements with iron so that makes things tricky with a lot of the TTC supplements. Thinking I could do with something though as AF has been very light since coming off the pill in April. Regular though, which is good. DH has been taking Wellman conception the last while (@lucyrp think you asked about that) but haven't had any luck. Although he's not been the best for taking it consistently.

Anyway just hoping there's another couple of BFPs left in October! Sorry for the AF arrivals - hoping you're all enjoying some treats and your beverage of choice to ease the frustration!

@Franklydear I would give it a bit more time if you've been on contraception a while then it would take a while to get out of your system yes & your cycles seem much more "normal" now so why not keep going? And of course you can cope with the baby days. Pah. Can cope with anything 🙌🏻🥳

@AmesK we are all here for you, and need each other. And yes we all thought it would happen faster for us all, but you are gonna chase your GP right? Quoting NICE guidelines and throwing abnormal bleeding at them and cancer worries (I know it seems scary but do it) we can help.

Hi all.
Had mild cramping earlier and a tiny bit of spotting during the night, nothing since. Could be af on her way. Who knows. Just wish it would hurry up and get here so I can start the new cycle.

Just had another friend announce her pregnancy on facebook 😭 delighted for her all the same just gutted I'm not doing the same.

Seen some of you on about vitamins. I'm giving the proceive a go. Heard great things about them. Deffo doing great things for DH, hes full if energy all the time. So they are deffo doing the trick that way lol

@Hopeful110 omg that would explain it! what a random cycle though, would you ever have had one like that before?

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/4059722-Nov-Bus-20-CD1-can-suck-hairy-b-lls?watched=1

NEW THREAD TIME LADIES

@Florence13 oooo what you looking at??

@lucyrp your body might surprise you and af might come earlier!! At least your charts are adding up and are all saying the same ov day!

@Minster2012 that was literally me when I moved in with my OH!! I was and still obsessed with everything homely and cleaning😂

@Juno231 isn't house shopping so exciting!!

@Vil10 @Minster2012 i literally love so many different styles of interior design i have no idea how i'm going to chose what i want when we either renovate or build our own. oh already knows i'm gonna be a nightmare 🤣🤣

@lucyrp ohhh id love to fully renovate!! It's my dream but realistically wouldn't be able to do it, we're both so impatient, and I want things doing there and then, and we both have full on jobs so wouldn't be able to commit to the house properly!! So we're just wanting something that's perfect for us and doesn't need anything doing to it! Have you got plans to renovate soon??

New thread, need to fill this one up, everyone make an empty comment...

@Vil10 i'd really love it. we always said we wanted to build our own from scratch but now we're more going towards the renovation side. OH is a carpenter/builder so that would be handy. not anytime soon i don't think, we rent at the moment and have got debts to pay off but that should be done by next year so looking to buy in like 5 years but that would just be a buy as you see kind of thing and then the next step would be buying to renovate or build. our rent at the moment is extortionate and we could have such a nice house on a mortgage at half the price of what we're paying now it's just getting the money behind us first. nightmare !

@lucyrp it is ridiculous that banks don’t give mortgages for a lot less that you paying in rent because affordability, my ass

@Franklydear it's such a joke, that's why nobody hardly buys anymore!

@Missgoldilocks @Florence13 @BellsB1 @Minster2012 @Skip86 @Dsr87 any last words to fill the thread so we can move onto the next one?

@LaceyMermaid oh yes I'm sure a few days won't have done any harm , just wanted to warn you inccase you were planning on taking it long term.

@RecordPlayer sure pop in and out asyou please, we'll be here 😉 and as you mention the app i finally figured out why some of us have trouble and others seem to be able to do loads! There are 2 versions! One for android which is crap and does frig all and one from apple store which is all bells and whistles.....well thats my conclusion anyway after reading reviews

Of course

@Katao that must be why I find the app to be rubbish (Android)

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