Tits out, chin up and ❤️ yourself - TTC Bus 19

[Juno231]

Come join us on our TTC journeys - all you need is a sense of humour!

Bus history:
June - 24 BFPs
July - 11 BFPs
August - 18 BFPs
September - 4 BFPs

October BFPs so far:
@blackcurrantqueen - Oct 5th
@mrsbear1122 - Oct 12th
@savethechubbyunicorns - Oct 13th

Testing dates:
@adogisforlife - October 17th
@pebblesinthesand - October 17th
@mosherchick - October 18th
@Vil10 - October 21st
@ladybird345 - October 22nd
@lucyrp - October 22nd
@Franklydear - October 25th
@Kay00 - October 25th
@Juno231 - October 26th
@dsr87 - October 28th
@clairey844 - October 30th
@notyetamumbuttrying - October 31st
@katao - November 1st
@2020mission - November 2nd
@nestinginNL - November 18th
@Hopeful110 - November 22nd

Hi guys!! I’ve been creeping on here and every time I go to write in there’s so many more messages to catch up on. Sorry lots of us are having shitty times at the mo! But it’s lovely to have such support here.
I’m at the end of FW. But not feeling confident, we’ve DTD every day so not sure why I’m being negative about it, God help me in the TWW! Currently eating all the chocolate...

Just read the smear comments! This might give you a laugh... I had the worst experience with the smear instruments, it’s long story, but basically had drunken sex with a tampon in (it was a third date and I was at the end of my period but didn’t want any stains so put in a small tampon in just incase and totally forgot!) anyways it got Stuck up there!!! Tried everything to get it out, and after almost 2 days I ended up having to get it removed at a clinic (on Christmas Eve) and the only instruments that worked to access it was the smear instrument thing and this hooked thing to remove it! TRAUMATIC!!!

@SmileyT thank you. I'm gonna make a really nice snuggly lining for that last embryo. Bloody hell if this last AF after IVF is anything to go by it should have been THE SNUGGLIEST of houses for it!! 🤞🏻🤞🏻hope you are good sweetie ps please can you ok me your address please I hope you and your growing big are good hun xx xx

Thank you @Franklydear it is bittersweet 🌈

@Vil10 it's certainly what I like to think that heavy periods mean a thicker warmer home for smuggling beans surely??? Makes sense? Perfect home for little MN beans??? Ya??????

@Kirky658 awww yoUR OG sounds like a good in, sending hugs for the the bloody with XX

@Clapham4 that looks perfect for AF. Enjoy!! 🥰

@Franklydear hand held 💗 so so hoping you don't wake up to af.

@SmileyT hi lovely! Thank you x I have thought of you often too over the last couple of months and hope you and bub are travelling along well.

@Minster2012 aah darling, that's tough. I'm glad your friend was sensitive in her approach. I imagine having people who have experienced similar have a more empathetic and caring way of going about these things. Lots of love xx

Lots of finger crossing for those who are due af/testing today, and hugs to those for who it's arrived 💛

Surprised to hear all the stories of UK life in Covid times, quite different to here. Especially those going on holidays - our state border has been shut for 6 months now! No holidays for us except within the state. Thoughts with you all, must be really challenging.

9DPO here and same achey feeling going on down there as have had for about 4 days now. I should know what it means by now, but no clue.
Happy Thursdays xx

No AF for me yet despite being due yesterday and having major cramping and a temp dip. Temp shot back up again this morning. Really weird I’m trying not to get my hopes up. BFN on IC. I’ve been taking vitamin b6 for the last 8 days but surely that can’t have lengthened my LP already?!

I am going to post, then I'll catch up, af is here, I feel alright about it, just not overly happy, wine and chocolate for me tonight

@franklydear 😢 I deserve it huni x

U.... bloody phone lol

Your tippo made me chuckle @2alreadywantanother

🙈🙈 I was like ffs, took the goodness out if it. Glad it made u laugh tho. I'm a frigger for not proof reading lol. I hit send then cop and am like.... shit 😖

You definitely put a smile on my face @2alreadywantanother
Well, my cycles seem to be lengthening, the app puts an average of 27 days now

@Franklydear sorry that af is with you 🥺😔 sending hugs xx

@franklydear sorry AF arrived, sucks!!! I've started to get period pains again after one since my surgery in June.... Yay! Good to hear your cycles seem to be lengthening, mine are all over the place atm! X

@Franklydear aaaargh I'm so sorry she caught up with you! 😫 yes, drink allll the wine.

@Missgoldilocks thanks hun! It's not booked in yet. He needs to call up for an appointment when we get to November, I just hope he gets one same month. He won't call any earlier annoyingly!
@Clapham4 that chocolate haul looks fab! Think I recognise your name from another thread. Welcome! And omg that story 😱
@Franklydear sorry honey, glad you're alright about it though.

Sorry to hear about AF arriving @Franklydear sure I can’t be far behind you

@Franklydear so sorry af got you :( I think mine will be here at some point today. Its very unfair 😩 xx

@Franklydear I'm so sorry it showed but happy that your cycle length increased! Got any plans this weekend to take your mind off of it?

@Missgoldilocks fingers crossed it doesn't!

@Minster2012 I must have been really tough with the birth announcement, big hugs to you. I'm glad she's been sensitive about it though.

@Skip86 Re: the greyhound destroying everything - I'm hoping that's a dog by dog case and not a breed thing lol. Rescue dogs do have their difficulties... and lol about us being allowed to travel - that's exactly why we're still in the sh*t and you guys are not! I'm not sure what the long term solution for Aussie/NZ is though as surely you can't remain shut down forever?

@SmileyT We think about you often as well! I'm glad it's all going well and that you had a nice time in Greece. Does that mean the Bahamas never happened then? (ooh aren't they on the quarantine list nowadays?).

8 DPO here btw. Am dreading the arrival of AF next week already.

It's so hard not to symptom spot during tww, no matter now much I try to convince myself not to.....
Think I'm 7/8 dpo and having twinges. Similar to ovulation twinge if that makes sense. Would that be right for implantation? I'd cm this morning too but DTD last night so could be from that but looking back at my bfp chart I had the same then. Nervous now things this could actually happen again

@Minster2012 it sure does make sense, let's just go with that!!

@Franklydear sorry about af but I'm glad you don't feel too bad about it!! Enjoy your wine and choc tonight!!

@2alreadywantanother ignore it! smacks hand I've had that on multiple cycles, it's just our bodies being cruel

@Juno231 God I know that feeling! Every month its the same bullshit!! We all deserve a break 😩 can all of us just get pregnant please ?

@juno231 I know. It's hard not to get our Hope's up

Oh no @Franklydear 😭😢😖I'm so sorry AF has come shitter I was so thinking you had it in the bag this time 😡

Also sorry for my drunken messages last night. Wine was consumed. Lots. Feeling it now. Badly 😂 oops. So nearly just been sick. Contemplating if being sick would actually help??!!