My partner and I have discussed having children. I came off the pill in December last year, we don’t have intercourse that often but this month decided life is too short and we ended up having sex on one of my fertile days (according to Flo), this was my 13th day on my cycle and now on my 23rd and started some symptoms. I never get any before my period, my period being due in 7 days. I have feeling extremely nauseous, tender breasts, spotting that only started today, and I never spot before my period. Am I just being over sensitive, when can I take a test? My average cycle is around 31-32 days.