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Could this month be the month?!

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tash674 · 03/10/2020 15:10

So month 11 of TTC and I'm too nervous to take a pregnancy test- well too worried about it being a negative!
I have had spotting before period for the last 8 months from 9-12 dpo onwards. This month I haven't had any- I have stopped all bbt and ovulation tests due to stress.
I'm on cycle day 30 according to my apps, and the range of my cycles is 28-33 days! My husband says wait till day 32 has come! What would you do?

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LemonRizzle · 03/10/2020 16:01

If I was at least 11dpo I have to admit I'd test with a frer but I've not experienced a lengthy TTC like you. We all know waiting gives a more accurate test and the arrival of AF feels like a softer blow than a negative test. Do whatever you need to do that's right for you and your mentality. Good luck to you x

babyandI · 03/10/2020 16:02

Hoping this is your month Daffodil

tash674 · 03/10/2020 16:18

Thanks! So I would roughly be 12dpo-15dpo hence I can't decide!

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tash674 · 05/10/2020 11:40

I still haven't taken a pregnancy test, I'm now day 32, I have had cramps but no period still! I'm too nervous as I feel like this month could be the month but I'm scared to get a negative!

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Newmother321 · 05/10/2020 12:03

@tash674 fingers crossed for you!
I am 15 dpo, AF was due today for me and been cramping since yesterday, I assumed it was AF however got a positive test today!
I did a couple over the weekend and they were so faint I didn't believe they were positive until I got a clear one today.

Let us know how you get on! Sending lots of support!

Bbdm1984 · 05/10/2020 13:13

Oh @tash674 i have this dilemma aswell. I am on month 15 (got pg month 3 but ended in mc at 7wks). I was due af on saturday but no sign yet, i have af-like cramps every now and again and think tight this is it deffo here now but go to the loo and nothing. I have told DP that i am late and he wont let me test until i have missed af for 2 months!!!! I am dying to know not only hecause we are due to go away this weekend and obviously dont want to drink if i am pg. My dsis works in a&e so i have asked her to get me pg test but im too scared to test by myself.

tash674 · 05/10/2020 20:04

I can't work out If this has some colour or not! Help!

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OneStepOneStumble · 05/10/2020 20:11

@tash674 that looks how my cheapy one did when I got pregnant 😊 do you have any others to confirm

tash674 · 05/10/2020 20:14

No @OneStepOneStumble I haven't done anymore! It is indeed a cheaply one- really regretting buying a cheapy now, cause can't work out whether it's positive or not!

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OneStepOneStumble · 05/10/2020 20:20

I got an amazon prime delivery of clear blue digital when I used them cos the cheapy tests always come out super faint! Can you get out to a shop first thing tomorrow or order online? Did the line appear in the time?

OneStepOneStumble · 05/10/2020 20:20

For what it's worth though it looks positive to me!

PurBal · 05/10/2020 20:26

Looks positive to me OP. Congratulations.

Timetotry123 · 05/10/2020 22:08

Looks positive to me congratulations, I’m 13 months TTC you’ve gave me hope Smile

tash674 · 05/10/2020 22:13

I have gone and brought a clear blue one tonight! I was really worried about how faint the cheapy was but sounds like it's normal with them!

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tash674 · 06/10/2020 06:10

Help so did a clear blue it's very faint even with first urine of the day! Yes there is a line but a scared of how faint it is- it's either gonna be a chemical or I have ovulated really really late as my period is already 2 days late!

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tash674 · 06/10/2020 06:11

Another picture I took!

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LemonRizzle · 06/10/2020 06:26

@tash674 the second photo definitely looks positive to me, so pleased for you Flowers

MummyToPrince · 06/10/2020 08:08

That's positive, both tests are.. Congratulations x

tash674 · 06/10/2020 11:24

Thanks!

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Newmother321 · 06/10/2020 11:49

Definetly looks positive to me! Mine were really faint initially but I took one yesterday and it was much clearer (48 hours after the faint ones). Do another in a couple of days and I'm sure yours will be clearer too.

Newmother321 · 06/10/2020 11:50

My initial ones

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Newmother321 · 06/10/2020 11:51

Yesturdays

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tash674 · 08/10/2020 08:51

I think this is darker! It came up before the test line did!

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Newmother321 · 08/10/2020 08:52

@tash674 that definetly looks darker!
Congratulations 🎊

tash674 · 08/10/2020 08:56

Thanks at @Newmother321- I took a digital too- which I know are more sensitive! Pic below of both of them- I'm so excited- another June baby- my 2 year old is a June baby! x

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