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4dpo who's with me?!

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Jellytot91 · 03/10/2020 08:09

TTC for 1 month with 1st.
It's so tempting to do a test! I have heavy achy boobs and cramps. AF due in 11 days Grin

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Mommabear20 · 09/10/2020 08:56

@Jellytot91 there's still hope! For me it's just not testing till I'm at least a day late. I have caved this time round and feel awful as was a BFN but I always knew it'd be too early so I don't know why I did 🤦‍♀️

Am getting loads of symptoms too but I don't know if it's just because I'm looking for them 🤔

40PlusTTC · 09/10/2020 09:04

I too suddenly have symptoms: bloating, spots, cramps, tender boobs. But those are AF symptoms too, I just don’t normally notice them this much and can’t work out whether that’s due to looking out for them or because they are actually worse.

I’m about to cave and buy a FRER in case the internet cheapy was wrong. Stop me ladies. It’s a waste of money and energy and won’t get me what I want. Yet I know I will do it. Damn the fact that my local chemist is five mins walk away and next to my favourite coffee shop! I need it to move further away.

bez91 · 09/10/2020 09:42

@Mommabear20 I am the same, won't test until 14dpo, I personally don't see the point as you either are or aren't and testing early just adds more anxiety and stress to the process as well as costing a lot of money. Again, just personally I don't get any satisfaction in seeing 'progression' on tests - I want a straight yes or no answer 😂🙈

Mommabear20 · 09/10/2020 09:44

@bez91 haha same! I don't know what was wrong with me this morning! 🤦‍♀️ the anxiety this time around is unreal! 😂

Baileys123 · 09/10/2020 10:02

Good luck everyone. I'm 10dpo today and promised myself i won't cave Grin

DressingGownofDoom · 09/10/2020 13:06

Total BFN this morning (12dpo) and AF cramps so 99.9% certain I'm out! I'll hang around though to see who gets their bfps- good luck everyone!

Jellytot91 · 09/10/2020 13:30

Good lucky everyone, I'm not testing now until AF is late - too much upset. Boobs are killing and keep getting cramps which is making things worse! Keep reminding myself it's cycle 1 TTC and it should be fun! FX for everyone Xx

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Rococo90 · 09/10/2020 14:49

Just done another 2 tests (Asda) and both bfn, not been to the loo since 8am this morning. I'm 10/11 dpo and 9 days since we dtd. Still feel awful and have the same symptoms but never feel this bad when af is coming so I really don't know anymore :( not even a squint! Bottom one is Asda results 4 days before af.

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Jellytot91 · 09/10/2020 15:24

@Rococo90

Very similar to yourself - never feel this bad before. Just had some awful pulling cramps!
My AF is due in 5 day's

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Rococo90 · 09/10/2020 15:34

@Jellytot91 I have pulling too. Just looked at the reviews for the Asda early response and they're terrible! I have no luck lol I'll wait for af now

Rococo90 · 10/10/2020 13:25

Just done a FR and nothing there :( so rubbish having all these symptoms and beint disappointed. Guess I'm out this month. 12dpo

DressingGownofDoom · 10/10/2020 16:01

Aw sorry @Rococo90. I haven't even bothered testing today I'm so sick of looking at BFNs.

Mommabear20 · 10/10/2020 17:36

Anyone ever got a BFP 6dpo?? I really want to test on my wedding anniversary but don't know if it's way too soon?

Jellytot91 · 10/10/2020 18:14

Hello ladies!!

@Rococo90 you're not out yet, wait till AF comes xx

I'm 11DPO & BFN again
X

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Jellytot91 · 10/10/2020 18:15

Won't be testing now until next week as got a busy weekend x

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xoJellyBean · 10/10/2020 18:21

Sorry to all the bfns, it took my ages to stop testing early and now I don't rest at all unless I am convinced I am pregnant and am very late for af. Takes a lot of pressure off 🙈

xoJellyBean · 10/10/2020 18:22

@Mommabear20

Anyone ever got a BFP 6dpo?? I really want to test on my wedding anniversary but don't know if it's way too soon?
Way too early... implantation happens between 6 & 12 dpo x
Jellytot91 · 10/10/2020 19:00

FX for all of us this month ❤️

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40PlusTTC · 11/10/2020 08:08

Morning ladies,

Questions for you all. I did an internet cheapie this morn at 11 dpo. This is an internet cheapie at 11dpp.

I thought no line then the paper bit blew back and I can see a line that was hidden under it. It’s not the end of the test strip but it’s close. Does that count or is that a line caused by the paper having been there?

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Jellytot91 · 11/10/2020 09:41

Morning everyone!

12DPO and my boobs are still sore. AF due in 3 days.
How is everyone today?

@40PlusTTC
It looks positive to me, I can see the line. Have you taken another one to double check?

What's everyone's else thoughts?

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Jellytot91 · 11/10/2020 09:46

Also very emotional again, OH keeps saying he wants a baby with me, I'm really feeling the pressure because he doesn't know that I'm putting a lot of pressure on myself too. He thinks I'm chilled about it all but I am seriously not! Have to keep reminding myself to just enjoy it!

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xoJellyBean · 11/10/2020 10:00

@40PlusTTC this also happens with my tests but unfortunately in my case they were negative. Keep testing & fingers crossed for you x

DressingGownofDoom · 11/10/2020 10:09

@40PlusTTC sorry lovely no that wouldn't count. If it helps though I've never had a line that early with a strip test

DressingGownofDoom · 11/10/2020 10:12

@Jellytot91 the first couple of cycles are hard while you get to grips with all the feelings and hope and separating the hormones from the excitement and the symptom spotting etc. It's totally normal to feel like this.

14 dpo today so I'm on knicker watch but no sign of my period YET.

40PlusTTC · 11/10/2020 10:54

I’m out ladies. An hour after taking that test AF arrived. Nice spending the 2ww with you all and good luck to everyone else.

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