So this is a long one girls and I really need some help. So I had been on the depo injection for 3 years. The last injection I had was September 2018. I never went back for anymore. The first year off the depo I still never had a period until October 2019. From December 2019 I was very irregular still. Me and my partner have been trying since for a baby. I have been using opks and temping. I know I ovulate as I do have positive opks. So my lady’s period was 8th sepetember 2020. I was on for 5 days. I ovulated on Wednesday 16th. Me and my partner dtd on Saturday,Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday and Friday that week. Since 3 dpo I suffered cramping on the the Saturday and Sunday night with red bleeding. Is this normal? I just don’t know what to think anymore. My cervix is still high and not hard. Really thought this month was our month to conceive. I have my first fertility appointment in October. We both have children already and never had to go through any of this before. My youngest is 7 now. Anybody in the same boat at all? Any help is greatly appreciated ❤️ Spotting has now stopped. Still have cramps with a pulling sensation