October 2007 ~All about us ~ MC'ing or MC'ed or TTC of BFP after MC or just loves cakes!

[katendmom]

As we agreed - starting a fresh thread before our original shuts down. Will post this new link into the old thread so everybody can find us!

In the meantime ~ sprinkling it with pink and blue baby pixie dust

and splashing with baby glue so lo's stick around forever ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Rosybelle - I know you didnt deliberatly mean to scare me. Dont worry and thanks for your advice.

I have some ebay cheapies might use one of them on Tuesday and depending on what it says get a CBD for Wednesday.

how is everyone today?
ILTS, have you been testing?

Hi all~ {{{Kate waves at girls across the cyber space}}}

Rosy thanks for asking. DS is really enjoying his OT sessions. She?s doing sensory integration therapy with him but to him it just looks like lots of silly fun . She said yesterday that she could tell the difference. So we?re keeping our fingers crossed. Still no words but it seems that he is trying to communicate more. What helps him is that he is cute as a button so even if he just smiles ? people fall over for him LOL He gets it from his father How is your little one? Pleeease don?t feel like you have failed her! Siblings are good but not the end-all-be-all. I am the only child and trust me ? have made it O-K Think about all those people who are not close with their siblings! And hey! She has an awesome pup now. Do you know how many kids wish for it and their parents won?t get it for them?!?!? She made it just fine at the end if you ask me! (Yep, you got it, I was never allowed to have a dog as a child )

Oh Claire your cottage is to die for! I bet you?ll put it to a good use, huh?

Hi Lilypink and welcome. I see that girls have taken care of you already. I am in USA so I am always late with catching up I am terribly sorry for your loss but I have done a lot of research (girls here will tell you that I almost do research as a hobby these days) and 1 or even 2 mcs do not indicate a problem. It?s just a bad luck that happens to more people than we realize. I am also 31 (and just had an mc) but had to make my docs order tests, etc (I am a bit obsessive when it comes to diagnosing) since they didn?t see any ?obvious? issue to investigate. So my point is ? you?re about to get lucky (cuz your unlucky stream is running out!)

Gillypumpkin ? just sending your huge hugs? Take care of yourself and try to make the most of your trip? like shoe shopping experience maybe???

Hi to everybody who I?ve missed and remember ? this thread is for everybody. You should not leave when you get pg. We?re here for each other and for the company ? in whatever circumstances it is

WHOA? is this the longest post ever?

well i hope i've concieved as there will be no trying unless my rampant rabbit can produce sperm.

my lovely dp has run up a whooping 700 pound phone bill phoning mobiles and refuses to pay the bills (any of them) and ive had enough!

so he can kiss my arse, told me to get a job! i have 3 kids to look after ffs! then tells me hes ignoring me. so im not going to be around for a while as i have no internet now, thanks for that dp you tosser ahhhhh im so mad!!!!!!!!!!!

nope not been testing, ;ast thing on my mind today to be honest

Oh ILTS... wow... 700 pounds... don't I double that to figure out $? If I do... oh my God!

oh shite! what will you do?

you do kate.
thats a lot of phone calls!
is that monthly or quarterly?

wait for the bailiffs

quarterly

hes a fucking child he has no responsibility, im 23 and hes 30 and im the grown up of the 2 of us for fuck sake.

Hi All

Big Hugs to Gilly. Sorry its a shitty day for you. My oldest friend had her baby yesterday and I had a good sob. Don't feel guilty - its perfectly normal (I hope). My m/c started just after our wedding anniversary so although a year on I purposefully hadn't remembered the exact date, I knew when it was happening and it hung a bit heavy over us.

Sorry the jobs not working out either - do you think it is, at least, giving you a good name/position on your CV (I would have thought so).

On scans - I think its shocking that some people have to wait until 20 weeks. My bro did with his first (would have done with second but they paid for an early one as they were a bit older by then). By 20 weeks with dd I was on my 3rd and think I totalled about 20 by the time she was born... but thats another story.

Lissie - hope the potty trainings going well. I daren't look at the thread I am too jealous.... Am going to have to force the issue with dd once our house is no longer full of builders.

Claire - that cottage looks lovely. I want to go to Suffolk for our next UK holiday. Please let us know how it was (and whether the cottage has a dishwasher - its one of my criteria in a UK cottage).

ILTS - Wow at your phone bill. I might have to tell DH about it as he's always moaning about ours ... seriously though, hope you get it sorted.

quick quetsion - will catch up later...
On cd28 of aprrox 30. When wiping today i had the oddest discharge - was kind of orangey yellow tmi ......
any clues???

No real ideas Littlebit but I do bizarrely remember MrsMcJ saying she had this just before her BFP. Hope not getting your hopes up/ terrifying you .... Will try and find her description !

right ladies, im off, ill pop in when im round my mums next, good luck with all the bding and bfps etc xxxx

(p.s. just cause dps a wanker doesnt mean i still dont want a baby so 30th here i come ) xxxx

Littlebit - I found mrsmc's post but it only said she had some orange CM a couple of days before her BFP. It was around 8 May if you wanted to search (search orange CM and her name and I think it will come up !!) . Can't for the life of me why I remembered it !

Oh Iliketosleep, that's so rough on you and I'm sure the stress is the last thing you need right now.

SpookyKitty - This m/n addiction is out of control, thank goodness I work from home 2 days a week at least that way the company can't monitor all my internet time.

GillyPumpkin - I'm jealous of you getting to go to Glasgow, although I understand your reluctance to be away from home. I work in Manchester 3 day's a week and last night it didn't even seem possible that I would be able to leave home today. Unfortunatly I'm in the same hotel tonight where I realised last Thursday that another m/c was underway. I'm hoping it's not the same room!Any chance of getting some retail therapy whilst your in my home town, a meander around Princess Square and a glass of wine whilst people watching always lifts my spirits.

still not opened the drawer but my mil is coming on thursday so I think I'll test once she's gone home. dh won't be able to keep it a secret with her here and i don't want anyone knowing til after the 8/9week mark.

i'm really dreading her visit as I can't deal politely with her mc chat.
she's had one, but said some rubbish stuff to dh the morning after it all happened.

sorry you've joined us mich10, cheekster & lilypink.

aquababe hang in there - MILs can be evil. Since I have a son - I keep thinking - this is a life-long reminder to me that when he grows up and gets married, I have to be different! I just have to... now I have to say... I do not like that girl in his nursery who bit him 3 times already! Why does he keep playing with her?!?!?(Oh boy, I am starting already!)

evening ladies

Evening.

Sorry to see that 3 more of you have had the same sad experience as the rest of us - welcome to Mich, Cheekster and Lilypink, hope you find this thread supportive and helpful.

I'm feeling quite sad today. I've been having periody pain since Saturday but no sign of AF so today felt a sudden ILTS complusion to buy a pg test, as when I've been pg I've had the crampy pain like it's about to arrive. Then I swear it was only about 5 minutes after I paid for it that I realised I was bleeding. (Can I get a refund do you think??)

But don't even know if is af - usually it's light on first day, but today passed a small clot, though there isn't much blood. Maybe it's the remains of the mc as when I had the 2nd scan 3 weeks ago there was something still in there?? Sorry if tmi, but I was looking at the clot and wondering if was a bit of baby.

Also, I didn't think I would be pg as don't think I've done much bding and sorry again tmi, but dp doesn't always send his little fellas anywhere useful , but I guess maybe there was more hope than I acknowledged. Or maybe it's just bleeding is a reminder of mc? Or reminder that I should be 15 weeks pg now and I'm not.

And on the active conversations I see threads about morning sickness and bump size and feel shit.

Also can't help staring at people with several kids and thinking that won't be me now. Which is a bit mad because before found was pg, was happy with 1. I'm officially crazy

Sorry for long rant. Feeling thoroughly miserable, so I'm getting it off my chest so will hopefully feel better.

hi ladies

just popping by - i am a bit paralysed at the moment - don't want to fall into my over-analysis and too much internet research like last time. already worried about the flu remedy that i took in paris when i got ill - been looking at the name on this really good website called safefetus.com and starting to get worried . . .but trying, trying to be chilled and not letting moments of panic get in the way of feeling over the moon. i may need a little internet hiatus though . . .

anyway, hope you are doing well. sorry about your bad day yesterday wheely - will you go see your friend's baby, or leave it a while?

hope your trip goes okay, gilly

katend - you kiddiwinkle sounds so cute -no pics???

alittlebiteshy - could it be implantation???fingies crossed.

ilts - that is a lot of cash. hopefully you can break it down a bit???

hi to everyone else, hope you are well. this thread is such a great support. i read through the old one and i feel like its seen me run through the gamut of emotions and the best thing is that i feel like i went through it all with people that understand and don't judge (even better than friends sometimes)

on the junk food front, me and dp just had coke floats - i love his american junk ways.

hi splish - sorry crossed post.
i did have a giggle about your dp and his wayward fellas but even if it is your body passing the last bits right now, you still could ovulate of have ovulated (according to my gynae). Cycles are apparently all over the shop now, so you never know, that test may come in useful sooner than you think.

thanks wheely. I did a search and found it in the end.
trying not to be too or read too much inot it either way... is just something i've never had/noticed before. ARGH!!!

Actually knackered now so going to fold the washing and head ot bed. Dh at PCC nmeeting so could be hours yet.

One last thing - those of you from the "original" March thread... anyone seen kensgirl about lately?? I was thnking about her and Popsy earlier. I miss popsy