Ttc sucks ass !!!

[Ttcistoomuch]

Title pretty much says it all.

Cycle 10 now after 3 miscarriages so all in trying to conceive 6 years and am beyond exhausted physically and emotionally drained.

Everytime just seems to take longer and longer to conceive tho the longest was 2 years just feel like its never going to happen anymore. Feel like my life is revolving around it and I am just wishing life away

I don't really know what to say, but that must be very tough. Don't lose hope, wishing you all the luck in the world

Are you having any treatment? You’re absolutely right it really does suck! Takes over your life, emotions and and ambitions. I hope it works out for you soon, sounds like you’ve been through enough xxx

I’m sorry it really is awful! It took us a year and that was exhausting enough so I can’t imagine what you’ve been through. Really hope you get your rainbow baby soon xxx

Wow, that sounds awful...

It does sound like you need put yourself first again and ttc maybe fourth or fifth on the list.

Thanks so much for ur comments ladies ❤. After the third miscarriage they sent me for referral which was in January just before everything kicked in so only just got in contact with me in July pretty much been tested for everything and scans done everything seems normal so they say and they won't offer ivf because I have conceived naturally 3 times but it really does take a long time for me to fall for some reason.
@isareeya I just wish it was that easy its always there in the back of my head cant seem to shake it
@neelablue thats exactly what its like life is just on hold and everything is passing by. Glad ur getting some help and hope u have a bfp soon 🤞x

I’m sure you’ve tried everything already and you are an expert in this by now, but just in case not, have you been using ovulation predictor kits and taking your temperature to pinpoint ovulation? Do you have regular cycles? Knowing when you ovulate can really help you know when to have sex. Doctors seem to say it will just happen but if you don’t have sex that regularly (everyone varies) it can take a long time for that reason. We kept missing it when I was trying to conceive previously.

Have they checked for PCOS? Have they also checked one tube isn’t blocked? My friend had issues conceiving for a long time and they cleared them out and it worked. I know you’ve conceived before so both can’t be blocked but possibly one. Make sure you advocate for yourself and get as much testing done to rule everything out that could be causing problems