OH can’t ejaculate during sex....

[PopcornPugs]

Anyone got any positive stories? My OH can only very rarely orgasm from sex. He usually has to finish himself off. I’ve considered trying to manually transfer his semen into me afterwards but I’ve no idea if this will actually work?

Obviously its better if he can ejaculate inside you but you can absolutely try self insemenation. Have him ejaculate into a cup and then use a large syringe to place the semen inside you. Aim as high as you can to put the sperm at the mouth of the cervix. Lay down for a few minutes afterwards. Try to aim for the days leading up to ovulation so sperm is present and waiting for the egg release.

There was a thread about this the other week, yes it does work apparently. You can use a pipette/turkey baster then afterwards put a few pillows under your bum to help the flow!

Hi @PopcornPugs there's a thread I'm a part of which you'll find helpful and supportive. I'm in the same boat as you but some of the ladies have other issues preventing traditional TTC methods. www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/3796521-Self-insemination-Any-success-stories?pg=1

Thanks for the link to that thread x

My ex was the same when we were trying for my daughter. We ended up doing AI and it worked in 2 or 3 cycles. It's definitely worth a go. It reduces the pressure on you both.

Is this a death grip situation?

@Coldcough I think it is a little. He’s on medication which has a side effect of various erection problems, including difficulty in reaching orgasm. I think this has then been compounded by some over aggressive masturbation in trying to overcome the medically induced difficulties 🤦🏻‍♀️

I understand, sounds rough. Good luck to you both, I hope it works.

Hi, my OH has the same problem. How we get round it is we will dtd and when ready to finish he will wank a little (God that sounds horrid lol) until he's ready to finish so to speak and then put it back in. It works well x