2 missed periods! Help!

[TFsMummy]

I have been off of the pill since September last year as we decided we would like to try for a third and final child, we aren't putting pressure on it it's waiting to see when it happens it happens sort of thing. I've always had regular periods which I have been tracking since nov last year, up until last month (august) when my period never arrived I'm now 30 days late which means I have now missed 2 periods.. i has lots of symptoms such as- sore nipples, bloating, acne, headaches, tired more than normal and mood swings etc, I have done way too many tests and they have all been BFN, I haven't tested since last week now as I can't bare the thought of another single line and I'm assuming now I've missed 2 periods if I was pregnant it definitely would of shown up by now as with my first 2 pregnancies. The last few days I have been having a lot of cramping and back ache so I thought maybe AF was on its way but I still have absolutely nothing other than creamy/ EWCM (sorry if that's tmi!)

I don't want to waste a doctors time but I'm so confused!

When you say you're tracking your periods, is that with temping/OPKs or just by noting the day AF starts?

I had a random very long cycle (80+ days) for no obvious reason. I was temping so I could see that I hadn't ovulated. Annovulatory cycles can either be the same length as a normal cycle or can take a few months for hormones and uterine lining to build up enough for a period. It's normal but annoying when TTC!

The GP advised me to take a test every week until I got either a BFP or a bleed. Eventually a bleed came on and I could start over again. Good luck!

I’m still on the pill, my last bleed was on the 2/12/21 this is the first time I’ve gone this long with out coming on. I’ve had a few symptoms but taken 4 test from Sainsbury’s own all negative.. ugh so confused 🤷‍♀️ so would love to know your outcome.