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Anyone trying the SMEP this month?

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lepnee · 06/09/2020 20:16

I'm currently on CD4 and we're going to try the SMEP for the first time this month. After two chemicals, I'm at the point of giving up so I would love to have some company and wondered if anyone wanted to join me in on this experiment? Smile

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AprilLou · 07/09/2020 16:33

Hi @lepnee I'm planning on trying this too this month. Tried it for the first time last month and no joy but I've heard promising things so fingers crossed. Requires a bit of effort when you hit 3 days in a row mind you! Wink

lepnee · 08/09/2020 09:07

Hi @AprilLou Smile Sorry to year that! Hopefully this month is our month Grin CD6 for me today so starting in 2 days! What CD are you on ?

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AprilLou · 08/09/2020 11:36

I was expecting AF yesterday when I wrote my post but not fully shown up yet but feeling like she will rock up any time now. It's been a weird one this month, lots of spotting for the last week and lots of BFNs so keep thinking I am about to go to CD 1 and it doesn't happen. I am sure it's literally hours away! Do you know what day you normally ovulate? I'm around 17 to 19 most months so we didn't start til CD 10 last month, thought I would cut DH some slack! Smile

lepnee · 09/09/2020 15:09

Hey @AprilLou any sign of AF yet? Fingers crossed - this might be your lucky month Halo! And yes I normally ovulate around CD13-14 so I guess we will see!

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Vividdreamer88 · 09/09/2020 15:40

SMEP is my plan for next month ok if I join? I am waiting AF arriving as well - my temp has been dropping for four days so fairly sure I am out this month.

For the days you BD every day would those be the peak days (from digi ovulation tests) or the day before OV the day of and the day after?

Are you trying anything else new this month?

AprilLou · 09/09/2020 18:37

No I'm totally out @lepnee - I'm counting today as CD1. Not sure what was happening over the last few days!

Hi @vividdreamer88 so from what I have read you need to: Start daily OPK testing until OPK turns positive. On +OPK day you BD that day, the next day, and the next day. Then miss a day and once more for luck! So last month I got my +OPK 48 hours before ovulation so my 3 days in a row were 2 days leading up to and the day of ovulation. Hopefully I've understood it right!

This month I've upped the vitamins for me and DH (I read it starts with the egg and took inspiration from there!). I also called the docs on Monday to get a consultation as I came off the pill a year ago now so was hoping to have conceived baby #2 by now. Hopefully all is fine and we've just been unlucky so far but I figured it's best to find out either way!

Vividdreamer88 · 09/09/2020 20:44

I ordered some vitamins for me and DH - tbh I have no idea I based it off the inpatients women’s guide to getting I can’t imagine there is a lot of variance!

lepnee · 09/09/2020 21:42

@AprilLou sorry to hear that! Let's hope this month is our month!!

@Vividdreamer88 hi! Yes of course you can join, the more the merrier Grin I got this link from another thread a while back and if you have a look at it, it tells you exactly what to do and when Smile this is the one I'm following:

spermmeetseggplan.com/smep-step-by-step/

In terms of vitamins, me and DH have been slacking recently so will be starting again tomorrow! Fingers crossed for all of us!

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Sperr · 10/09/2020 09:51

Hi! I’m hoping to do this as well this month - does positive OPK mean the flashing face on the clear blue tests? My CD8 should be on Tuesday.

lepnee · 10/09/2020 09:54

Hi @Sperr , to be completely honest with you - I've never used the digital ovulation tests. Could you google it or have a look at the leaflet from the box? I only ever use sticks that show up in its 2 lines Smile good luck!!

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Sperr · 10/09/2020 10:44

@lepnee thanks! Searching what the faces mean on the clear blue came up with nothing but I googled what a positive on the other sticks is and it’s the flashing face (the surge before ovulation)

lepnee · 10/09/2020 11:52

@Sperr that's good! Let's hope it works out for all of us Smile

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