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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Disclaimer: Psycho B*tches - Sep Bus 16

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Juno231 · 31/08/2020 09:43

June BFPs - 24
July BFPs - 10
August BFPs - 18

September testing dates:
@mrsbear1122 - August 31st
@Juno231 - September 4th
@LV1987- September 4th
@franklydear September 4th
@frolicmum - September 4th
@florence13 - September 6th
@2020mission - September 8th
@mrsi2020 - September 12th
@vil10 - September 13th
@notyetamumbuttrying - September 14th
@Katao - September 19th
@Laceymermaid - September 29th
@minster2012 - October 9th

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Katao · 02/09/2020 19:42

@Minster2012 portion out your patience until then so, or bite her head off 🤷‍♀️😂
@Juno231 @Florence13 yay for a bit of symptom spotting 😃 good luck testing.
@notyetamumbuttrying good luck for OH results tomorrow.

Anyone use premom? I downloaded the app last month when I bought the easy@home opks but haven't being using it. Did an opk at lunch time (top) that looked like peak to me but I'm not overly used to using this brand, used for part of a cycle previously but no peak. Anyway decided to use the app to read it and it said low .77 then did one tonight and its way lighter! Was earlier my peak do you think and the app just didn't read it right/bad photo or whatever?

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Vil10 · 02/09/2020 19:53

@lucyrp aren't they nightmares!! That's definitely something my OH would do too!

@Mrsbear1122 yeah you're first ones are the same as mine, at least you got your peak! Hope mine comes soon! Sorry for the bfn but you're not out until af shows up x

@Newbie0818 oh no don't worry I didn't think you were! Hopefully🤞🏼

@DKDK123 no I don't track my temp because I feel like it's something I'd get too obsessed with and I don't want that added stress😂 but you could be right! I might've missed it!

@Florence13 I might take your way next month and just not bother with them, most people who get pregnant don't use them by the sounds of it with my friends and family😂 that's what I'm thinking just hoping I don't get another messed up cycle after this!x

DKDK123 · 02/09/2020 19:54

@notyetamumbuttrying 12 months here too so I feel your pain. Think that's the only reason I'm so laid back now its like tried everything and nothing worked so fuck it just going to enjoy ourselves again and accept we're in it for the long haul......wish I'd came to that conclusion months ago 😂

@Katao I use the premom app, I take their high/low readings with a pinch of salt as they say some are low that I can clearly see are high and vice versa. I do like the fact you can see all of your past ones on the ones page so can scroll up and down and compare what is high/low against your other tests that week or your other cycles. Once you've got a few cycles put in I think premom starts to become more accurate identifying your peak but you'll soon spot it yourself when you can compare it against other tests in your cycle.

LT103 · 02/09/2020 19:57

Hi there. Can I join again? Currently 10dpo waiting patiently. Tested negative on an ic this morning. Bit crampy. Had temp dip few days ago but last 2 days been back up high and so far no spotting which I always get before af which I guess is a good sign. However the cramps make me feel like she’ll arrive early tomorrow!!

lucyrp · 02/09/2020 20:00

Thanks for the reminder pgone 🙄

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notyetamumbuttrying · 02/09/2020 20:19

@DKDK123 I had one good month at month 9 I think where I felt that and it was so nice. Tbf I had a great FW last week but that was prob cos I was away. I'm glad I'm not alone in my month 12 of hell lol! 😂
@lucyrp argh how annoying!
@LT103 hey again, welcome bk! Hope AF stays away!!

Katao · 02/09/2020 20:23

@DKDK123 thanks. Think I'll just stick to eyeing them up! Going to assume that was my peak 😃😉🍆
@lucyrp 🤬 f...off app!

Florence13 · 02/09/2020 20:24

@Vil10 I have to admit my hubby has been more up for it than ever on the month I decide not to track haha.

@LT103 welcome back, I’m also around the same DPO fingers crossed we have BFPs in the next few days

Minster2012 · 02/09/2020 21:19

@notyetamumbuttrying that's similar to us, once a few months seeing them so I can cope but it's just so meh & not actually fun

@Runnergirl1 another moister than an oyster yey! 💦🦑get on that 🍆🍆🍆🍆

@Katao I decided to put my phone down, go for a shower (couldnt have a bath as the only bath is in the master room which they have & she was bathing a child) & then come back down refreshed to stop me from biting her head off or his so I felt better the rage has passed now 😂

@lucyrp it hates you again 😂

Juno231 · 02/09/2020 21:32

@LT103 welcome back! 10dpo here too with a dip two days ago as well :)

@Florence13 @minster2012 you're right about symptom spotting - I guess I don't want to get my hopes up too much after having so many other cycles where I was convinced I was pregnant when I wasn't 🤷‍♀️

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LT103 · 02/09/2020 21:34

Thanks guys. Is anyone testing soon? I tested today fully expecting a negative. Have a ton of ic so will prob test tomorrow too unless I start spotting

blodyn91 · 02/09/2020 21:37

@Katao I used the femometr app to read those OPKs. Worked really well, just make sure white background and same light 😄

notyetamumbuttrying · 02/09/2020 21:37

@Minster2012 yeah I feel you. I really can't be arsed! I prefer the guys to the girls lol!
@LT103 good luck! I'm only 2dpo so not me yet lol!

Katao · 02/09/2020 21:49

Thanks @blodyn91 how are you? How far along are you now? Hope everything is going well for you.

Clapham4 · 02/09/2020 22:29

Hello!! Hoping it’s okay to join? First time poster, long time lurker🙈
Was hoping this month was the month but got a BFN today, AF due Saturday. So Sept bus it is for me. We’ve been TTC #1 for a few months but nothing yet.
It’s been great reading some of your tips so I’ll try those this month. Fingers crossed for us all xxx

Juno231 · 02/09/2020 22:57

Welcome @Clapham4 ! Promise we're a nice bunch, if a bit nuts 🤪

@katao I use femometer as well but if your OPKs remain low now I'd be inclined to say that top one was your peak!

@LT103 I caved today as well and it was a BFN. Expected no less! When are you due AF?

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Clapham4 · 02/09/2020 23:30

Thanks @Juno231 once I saw the Psycho Bitches title I knew I was in the right place!

Catherinettc · 03/09/2020 00:12

Oooh ladies my boobs are sore at the side!!

Not tracking etc so possibly around 6 or 7dpo (if ovulation was day 14)

@lucyrp I wouldve tossed the phone 🤦‍♀️🤣🤣

@Minster2012 deep breaths 😲😲🤣

Franklydear · 03/09/2020 07:48

Morning ladies
Forgot to do the overnight oats so had chocolate crepes instead 😱🤩 I am going to be hungry by 11
Somehow got in my head that I am not pregnant, and that spotting was a period, will test on Saturday/Sunday, and see what happens... the nausea hasn’t gone though, the boobs are a bit less, how long progesterone can last in the body if no pregnant and no af?

ER20 · 03/09/2020 07:53

Not sure what day I ovulated on, not tracking as had decided not to actively TTC till after my September period but had unprotected sex on day 8 and day 9 of my cycle (28 days usually).

Had some brown light bleeding two days ago, just there when I wiped, that’s all. Due AF on the 10th Sept.

Had different CM, backache, headaches and feeling generally nauseous, not to mention unbelievably tired.

Got a early detection test for up to 6 days prior to AF which is tomorrow. Eeek!

Florence13 · 03/09/2020 08:26

@Franklydear I’ve got a good feeling about you I think you will be telling us some positive news this weekend.

@Clapham4 welcome to the gang

@ER20 good luck with testing.

Franklydear · 03/09/2020 09:16

I hope you are right @Florence13

Juno231 · 03/09/2020 10:06

@Franklydear fingers crossed for you!

@Florence13 any news?

I tested today and another BFN so at 11DPO I'm pretty sure I'm looking at the next cycle starting on Sunday!

Did I tell you my day 21 test came back fine yday? Next step is SA I guess.

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Katao · 03/09/2020 10:38

Welcome and good luck testing to the newbies.
@Juno231 sorry about the bfn, still time for it to become a bfp but I know what you mean at 11dpo you start believing it more. I'm the same, i test early and lower my expectations as I go. It works for me rather than being too hopeful and then getting the sudden disappointment of a definite bfn. Glad the bloods were fine.
Any newd from OHs SA @notyetamumbuttrying?

2020mission · 03/09/2020 11:27

@Franklydear every day that passes without full AF in flow it's more likely to be BFP 🤞 how many DPO were you when you first tested? I think the longest I've spotted for before AF arriving is 4 days.