Disclaimer: Psycho B*tches - Sep Bus 16

[Juno231]

June BFPs - 24
July BFPs - 10
August BFPs - 18

September testing dates:
@mrsbear1122 - August 31st
@Juno231 - September 4th
@LV1987- September 4th
@franklydear September 4th
@frolicmum - September 4th
@florence13 - September 6th
@2020mission - September 8th
@mrsi2020 - September 12th
@vil10 - September 13th
@notyetamumbuttrying - September 14th
@Katao - September 19th
@Laceymermaid - September 29th
@minster2012 - October 9th

@notyetamumbuttrying still no high! Just taken another and it was darker but still logging as low, does this mean my period is going to be extra late too😩

@DKDK123 not much stronger, but Thankyou! That sounds like an absolute nightmare!! How can they be unclear! Fingers crossed it comes back negative🤞🏼 the only time we're actually hoping for a negative on here😂

@Hopeful110 I'd say if it had a coloured line and was in the time frame I'd be thinking it was a positive! Hope it's another line in the next test!! I can definitely see a line!

@Vil10 how frustrating! Perhaps try using CB next cycle. Try the advanced ones so that you get flashing first. You won't have to try and guess things then either.
@Hopeful110 so much luck to you! I can see a faint pink line in the first pic.
@Clairey844 speak soon then, enjoy your break from here.
@SarahTTC2020 good luck for tomorrow! I need to get my day 3's booked in for a couple weeks time. Praying I don't have to and get a bfp instead 😬

@Florence13 sorry only catching up now. Had a weird pain come and go the last few days in same spot. Yesterday I felt like I was havibg very dull af style cramps and had a stiff back. Today at 11dpo im bloated and incredibly emotional. Have it in my head im not pregnant so im depressing myself even more. Slept crap last night so thats no helping. Did another ic this morn and got bfn . Debating to do a frer in the morn or just wait it out how are you feeling ??

@notyetamumbuttrying I did think that about the cb but these opk's are usually perfect for me, I think I'm just going to ovulate late and have a later period because of those northisterone which is a pain because I was due af the week before we went away then fw started when we're away so it would've been perfect!

@Vil10 oh that's even more annoying then when timing was actually on your side for once! I was on for my trip last week but only the first few days and then FW started not long after it so got 4 sessions in whilst away and one last one yesterday on ov day! That took some coaxing tho, as we both couldn't be arsed really. 😂

Here again, hope someone has kept my seat warm lol. 16th Sept please!!

Back in the 2ww as of today. Tried the same method (the month I fell preggers) of using a vibrator after DTD to ‘deliver the goods’ to the target 😳 Hope it works I don’t fancy TTC another 4 years think my foof will fall off 😂

Here’s hoping this month is full of BFPs again! Xx

@Hopeful110. I see a line. Hope it progresses for you.
Aw @Clairey844 that's a pain. See you when you get back to us.
@MrsCrumbtious that's a new one, ive heard it all now 😂 hope it works again 😉

@blodyn91 saw on the other thread that you love cheese - remember that you can have stilton when preggers!

@Hopeful110 I see it and can see it’s pink! Fingers crossed but also a tentative congrats from me too xxx

@notyetamumbuttrying this month is just clearly not my month, oh well there's no point stressing about it that'll only make things worse, hopefully my next cycle will be back to normal! Perfect then with fw being when you were away, sex is always better then isn't it😂 or is that just me😂

@MrsCrumbtious heyyy!! It's funny you say that because OH got me a vibrator last valentines and it was the best thing ever we always used it then about 4 months ago it broke randomly and we actually said last night we need to get another because it might help😂

Going off my last message about the vibrator, does anyone have any suggestions of good ones?? The last one we had was the elation set from Ann summers, had different speeds and vibrations!

@Katao TTC makes you do the maddest things 😂

@Vil10 definitely get another one, I used it when I was too fat and pregnant to DTD 😂

@vil10 I use the "Desire Luxury Rechargeable Bullet" from lovehoney. I've had it for at least 5 years I'd say and it never lets me down! Whatever you do, make sure it's rechargeable as it's such a faff to have one operating on batteries.

"I can’t sleep, ladies, btw, no night bleeding, clean pad, I was thinking in my insomnia, where are our same sex couples? I can’t remember the usernames, but we haven’t have much insemination talk lately...."

Hi @Franklydear! We were the other same sex couple on here at the same time as TTCmummy2021. My wife is now 16 weeks, I keep trying to read the threads but can't quite keep up. I saw your post yesterday on the other thread and then when I came here to respond there was a new bus with already 5 pages filled! :) Great to have such an active thread!

@TTCmummy2021 So happy to hear that you are starting IUI soon, keeping all fingers crossed!

@Minster2012 The wait in the IVF process must be gruelling, hope transfer day will be here soon!

Hope everyone is doing well in September. Since lockdown I have started every new month with the resolution to do some physical exercise each day and failed every month consistently. Not sure how well I will do in September...

Hi @DAC21, I wonder as everything went quiet in that front, 16 weeks, fantastic

Spotting started again this afternoon, all symptoms still here... Test deliver on Saturday, so I won't be tempted to test every 5 min

@Franklydear Hope the test on Saturday will be positive! Waiting is so hard

Thanks @DAC21 I am pouring all my Psycho here, so I can appear normal to people irl, only you lot know the truth

@Franklydear 🤣 yeah, this is a safe place to display our psycho sides :)

Thankyou everyone. I re tested again this afternoon with a 4 and half hour hold and im 90% sure its stark white. I have no idea what is going on with these tests... negative then positive and so on... :/

Wow @DAC21 16 weeks that's great!! Congratulations 🥰😘🥳that's amazing! It's just really annoying this bit, knowing we are "doing something" but it still being ages away, so feeling ages away but then being worried about Covid (we need to do a test first) and just biting nails being bored but wanting to say stuff and not to ppl it's just DULL!

@Hopeful110 ive got everything crossed for you I think there's something there xx

@Vil10 ive got a love bullet was it from a thread way back when in April in lockdown??? It's a bit small tbh 😂🤣keeps falling out & I'm not usually moister than an oyster 😂but it is rechargeable

I'm on holiday with mates & their 2 kids. Who have VERY diff schedules to us & it's frustrating as hell.

@notyetamumbuttrying ah lots of things planned for you then, at least you're getting the ball rolling.

@Katao that's good, hope your results are helpful.

Finally! Feeling all the usual signs of ov so thank goodness it's finally here 🤞🏼

@MrsCrumbtious hahaha it's definitely a good idea!

@Juno231 ooo I'll have a look at that one, can't go wrong with a trusty vibrator!! Yeah the last one I had was rechargeable, gutted it broke!

@DAC21 16 weeks! Wow amazing❤️

@Minster2012 hahaha possibly!! April feels like forever ago!! Hahaha moister than an oyster still gets me😂 I'm going to have a browse around on Ann summers and love honey!

@Newbie0818 ahhh happy days!!

@Minster2012 "wanting to say stuff and not to ppl" I have always found this really hard, although now with second child we were a bit more open with people from the start. It wasn't that we were wanting to keep a secret but more the thought of jinxing it. Also, I always felt like it was kind of more my partner's journey than mine, even though we are in it together, so wanted to leave it to her to decide how much sharing she was comfortable with. (Hence me telling everyone in the virtual world instead! 😂)
Hope everything goes to schedule for you! Our hospital has lifted quite a lot of restrictions in the antenatal care area, so I should be allowed to accompany her to the next appointments. Hope this will mean for all of you that you will have your partners with you all the way!

Hey @DAC21! Lovely to hear an update. Delighted all is going well for you and your partner. 16 weeks! Amazing....but boy does that make me feel like I'm getting nowhere fast 😂🙈
@Hopeful110 I think you need to stick to testing with fmu or you will go mad!
@Newbie0818 yay for peak!
My opk today had a decent line so im thinking maybe peak tomorrow 🤞

@Katao yeah I think your right, il probably skip testing tomorrow and do it Thursday fmu that will be 20 dpo x