TTC after MC - Aug/Sept 2020 (Thread 12)

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Evening all 💕

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@BEESY90 good luck this morning! Let us know how it goes! Really hope it’s good news !
Temperature 36.20 this morning. It was 36.37 the last three days. Is that my pre ovulation dip? Xxx

Morning everyone. Thank you for all the messages about the little monkey yesterday. He's certainly kept us on our toes. He was up a few times in the night, went mental when we put him
In the crate at first but he settled pretty quick. A couple of wee runs in the night 🙄

@Firevie well done for getting all your data in. I must say I do like FF. I'm not entirely sure about ovulation dips, not sure if everyone gets one. But sounds like with your OPKs etc it certainly could be. Are you off to do a sneaky one later? Your spa retreat sounds delightful!

@Pugprincess he's ok, must be strange for him. It's just all new to us, me particularly as OH grew up with dogs. Just hope he's happy!

@BEESY90 I'm so sorry to hear this. Please get to A&E ASAP. When I went with my first MC they sent me straight to the women's health unit and I had blood tests and they checked my cervix. So the wait wasn't long at all. Please keep us updated, and am thinking of you xx

@Firevie you would only really expect to see an ovulation dip on the day you are actually ovulating. So normally it is the day after you get a peak OPK if that makes sense? Xx

@MichT4 he's just getting you prepared for when you have a little one! I'm glad he settled though, hopefully soon it won't be too much of hassle at night xx

@VP91x so FF puts my ovulation day as today and I’ve had a temp dip this morning. I marked cd17 as peak on FF given that’s it’s quite likely that reading was a peak reading. So Ff has put my ovulation date as today but is saying we need the Next three temperatures and if they rise from today’s temp then that will confirm ovulation. I think I have to come to terms with the fact that I may have missed my window this month :( xxx

@VP91x yeah I thought that. He's a little shite though, clearly OH is his favourite. He's been naughty with me all morning, kept pulling on my pjs and ripped a hole in them. OH got up and he instantly fell asleep at his feet. They are both down here asleep now while I'm awake 😴😂

How are you this morning? xx

@MichT4 naughty little Loki 😂😂😂 so cute though! I’m sure it will be an adjustment but so nice to think that you have another companion in your life now! We will get a puppy too but we want to move into a house first. So probably next year xxx

@Firevie oh no 😣 it’s a pain but there’s just nothing you can do is there 😩 like you say least you are happy to know you are ovulating regularly and will be ready for it next cycle. Still worth getting one in as soon as you get home...Tuesday? What time do you get home?

@BEESY90 thinking of you ❤️🙏🏻🤞🏻

@MichT4 is he following you guys everywhere, ours did lol, I wasn’t used to it and found it too much at first. Still does it a lot now but I’m used to it. I found him so clingy at first I remember DH coming home and I was literally rocking back and forth crying having a break down saying he won’t let me do anything on my own 😅😅 must be like what new mums go through lol. When can you take him for walks? X

@Pugprincess thank you hun! You’re right! One thing I’ve learnt (buy is so hard when you’re in the situation yourself) is that there’s no point fretting over things you can’t control. And this is just one of them. Even if I had done another OPKS in the evening on cd17 I still would have been here and OH in London so wouldn’t have changed anything. So you’re right I need to snap out of it and be grateful for my body which has recovered from MC so quickly and has reset so I’m ready to conceive and carry a healthy baby! And I need to look forward to and enjoy the spa retreat with my friend. Apparently next fertile window is around the corner / 27september. Also @VP91x can’t believe how accurate YOU were. You told me to start testing early because from my previous stats it looks like I might get my peak ok cd17. You were right :) xxx

@Pugprincess sorry and yes soll def jump on OH on Tuesday lest of all because I have missed him and need to get some lol xxx

@VP91x still getting about 5hours a night. I can fall asleep ok, it's staying asleep is my problem! I toss and turn all night. I must be a nightmare to sleep beside!lol

@BEESY90 thinking of you. I hope you're ok

@Firevie from your OPKs I would say you had your peak on CD17, don't fret too much. At least doing the temps and OPKs gives you a better idea of your cycle for next time. And you can still DTD on Tuesday anyway, there might still be time! Highly recommend CBD for testing. It's failsafe! I do both because I don't trust my interpretation of the others x

@chloedancer897 thank you hun and I know you’re right. Nothing I can do about it now but be ready for my next cd17 lol. And yes I get home on Tuesday at 10am so will dtd straight away xxx

@chloedancer897 oh and I should have mentioned I have cb tests at home so will use them for the next cycle! Xxx

@BEESY90 really sorry to hear this. Look after yourself and we are all here for you xx

@BEESY90 so sorry you are having to go through this sending love xx

@MichT4 he is way too cute to be naughty 🤣🤣 he will soon settle xxx

Morning guys! my picture is still not appearing on the thread! so frustrating, but ive read new users have to wait 48hrs :(

@Firevie Since you got a ratio higher than 1.0 in the last cycle, the premom app will not identify a peak if the T/C ratio is lower than 1.0 in this cycle. When is your ovulation day in the last cycle? So far, your darkest test line appeared on CD17, no sure if it should be your peak, I would say keep testing. Fingers crossed.

@Louisa199 thank you! When I had my peak last time it was also cd17. But weirdly enough my premom app had predicted ovulation for cd36 this time round which seemed way too late to us so started testing early. I think other ladies on here have suggested that cd17 probably was my peak as I had a reading of 0.74 at 2pm but I didn’t test until the next day when it had gone down again, so ladies here thought I probably peaked in the eve of cd17. No idea! I will def Test later this afternoon and keep testing for another few days and will dtd Tuesday morning as soon as I’m reunited with OH xxx

@KatiePlus3 no worries! I’m sure your pic will show tmr at the latest and we will all be here! Xxx

@BEESY90 - hope everything has settled down this morning, broke my heart reading your message earlier I hope everything is ok x

@BEESY90 Thinking of you 💖 really hope all is well 🤞🏼🙏🏼 xx

@BEESY90 sending you lots of love ! I hope your bean is fine 😘

Morning ladies. Midwife on call told me I would need to wait till tues morn to get a gp referral to get a scan to see what was happening. I could call 111 or go to ED but they will just check I am physically ok they won’t look into what is going on so I just will have to wear my pads and wait. Sorry if TMI but I am losing orangey red watery blood with the odd small dark clot now. It started off brown spotting x

@BEESY90 I’m so sorry that your midwife wasn’t more help than this! And doesn’t help with the bank holiday weekend either! I’m not the best one to advice as I had the ERPC so don’t want to confuse you. Sure AE won’t be able to help? Hope the bleeding gets less and that you get seen on Tuesday then! Sending you virtual hugs. Xx