TTC after MC - Aug/Sept 2020 (Thread 12)

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Evening all 💕

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@HappyVibes the early detection ones can pick up 5 days before missed period so you could test any time from now really! (If you wanted to!) it's hard to know what the right thing to do is. I've actually found for me personally that testing early isn't good because I still hold out hope for BFP even with a negative test. I keep telling myself it's too early or that the test hasn't worked for me. So personally testing early gives me no less stress. I'm only testing on 13DPO because it's my daughters birthday the day AF is due and I want to be prepared for it. Some people NEED to test early and it actually helps them.

@chloedancer897 yeah we did that last time - tested early and was negative, tested two days later and that was our BFP. But I don’t know how I would have felt if it was negative again. I feel like I know it’s a positive and that’s why I’m open to testing early, but then my positivity is through the roof at the moment so I’m mindful that I might have talked myself into this positive ha xxx

@HappyVibes I love your positivity! Do what's right for you, and please let us know ASAP when you test! 😊😊😊

@chloedancer897 thank you lovely. I’ve followed your journey in awe of how strong you’ve been so I’m inspired by you on the strength front. 💫

@HappyVibes so with the OPKs from when you get your peak you will ovulate between 12-36hrs after. Didnt actually manage to get a lunchtime quickie in but will do tonight. Your husband sounds fab at being supportive with it all and being so excited. Hope you have a great meal out! xx

@Tink20058 😂😂 are you worried about DTD or does your OH not like it? My OH was not keen on it when I was pregnant with Bella x

@chloedancer897 @Lollol86 @Firevie thanks ladies!! Will keep DTD and fingers crossed that I get a temp rise and then ovulation can be confirmed on Friday in my scan xx

@chloedancer897 your temps are srill high regardless of the fluctuations. You said that your sleep wasn't great didn't you? Do the dips correlate with any difficult nights? Also implantation dips aren't always in a BFP temo chart, it's one of those random things. Xx

@VP91x my sleep is up and down so yeah, it probably does correlate somewhat. I suppose this is my first month temping so I don't know what's normal for me yet

@chloedancer897 I think your chart still looks good, you should definitely be positive 💕

Hello everyone, just catching up work is proving stressful already and very chaotic but I'm really trying to not get worked up as I know it's not the best when ttc!

VP91x I don't seen any harm in getting another one in if you are up for it 😂 xx

@MichT4 I cannot believe how useless the NHS are being! Have they not offered anything at all in terms of ERPC or anything similar? I'm really sorry you are in this situation 😔 it really is frustrating xx

@MrsK21 9dpo for me today, I'm feeling okay I've had some cramping today but I'm really trying not to look into anything too much! Other than that nothing interesting to report 😂 how are you? The nipple burn sounds positive (that sounds so weird 😂) @HappyVibes Your cramping sounds very similar to mine but this is quite common for me also... who knows 🙏🏼✨
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@chloedancer897 Your temps are looking good! Still way above coverline 💖 xx

@VP91x we tried a couple of times early on but had bleeding We did try again but he laid like a mannequin saying please be careful and don’t hurt her with a look of horror on his face 🤣🤣🤣 kinda spoilt the mood, plenty of time when little one is here and will have lots to catch up on lol how are you? Xxx

Lots of ewcm for me this morning I have never seen so much so that’s new after mc but haven’t really had much Cm since. Currently cd14 so hopefully DTD tonight haven’t really done it much other than Saturday as all my apps said I won’t be ovulating until next week. OPKs are still crap but I never seem to be able to catch a good opk never really had a positive on them just a cb which I haven’t done this time round although I do have some in the house. What do you thinks best ladies? X

@VP91x that’s great your test was so dark this morning, you must be ovulating this month 😄. Hope your scan confirms you have.
I have quite a lot of cm at the moment but still flashing smilies. I have my drs appointment by phone tomorrow morning. Not sure what they will say but will start by mentioning my last couple of long cycles. Xx

@Tink20058 haha yeah that will ruin it. My OH was the same, you'll enjoy making up for lost time I'm sure. How are you feeling? Bump getting big now? I'm okay! Trying not get ahead of myself this month, just taking each day as it comes (I say this now). Xx

@Runnergirl1 some people get ewcm for the whole of fertile week some jusy in the couple of days to ovulation so it really depends. Are you using CB digi this month? If not then maybe dtf every other day then you knoe you're fully covered regardless? Xx

@Wishingfornumber2 fingers crossed!! Thank you 💕 that's good is this with gynae or your GP? Definitely tell them about it hopefully you can get some help, you've pinpointed ovulation most months though haven't you? X

@Northernsoul90 @Firevie I know! They are crap really. They have now said they want me to call EPU next week if still no bleed. Just feels endless

@MrsK21 @HappyVibes @chloedancer897 @Northernsoul90 I'm excited for all of you. Really positive signs from everyone! Can't wait for Saturday (or earlier?)

@RichmondLady1981 I'm in my 2WW I'm on cycle day 16 out of a 30 day cycle :) think we are pretty close!? X

@VP91x I can't wait to hear your scan outcome. What perfect timing!! xx

@VP91x it’s with a gp. I haven’t used opks for the last few cycles so haven’t pinpointed actual ovulation for a while. Was hoping to have confirmed ovulation this cycle before tomorrow. X

@Northernsoul90 that’s interesting about your lil twinges too 🤔 I’ve been keeping a watchful eye on them and they’re definitely frequent and I certainly don’t usually have that feeling ordinarily so frequent. I described it to my husband yesterday as feeling like I’ve done an ab workout or it feeling like I’m tensing my abs? Hey ho who knows 🤷‍♀️

No early testing for me today ladies - mainly because I only have one early test at home and at this stage it’s only 51% accurate so I’m not gunna do it to myself. We are gunna get some more early tests in before the weekend & deffo test Saturday 🥰

Morning ladies,

Exciting that we have lots of testers Saturday @chloedancer897 @MrsK21 @Northernsoul90 @HappyVibes got everything crossed for you all 💕

@HappyVibes that was a good decision! Backed up by a stat, lots of willpower xx

Thank you @MichT4 🥰🥰

@Wishingfornumber2 maybe get your doc to measure progesterone levels this cycle to confirm ovulation for you? Xx

Oh my morning update is that I got a temp rise from 35.86 to 36.46 so looks like ovulation might have happened, however still had peak OPK this morning. Has this happened to anyone else? Xx

@VP91x aww I can imagine 😢 it's always so difficult losing a pet. How is Bella doing through all of it? OH is doing okay, much more relaxed now, as am I. I think we've both been caught up with work so much that we haven't had much time to dwell on things too much. My doctor says that it can take 3-6 months to fall pregnant even with the clomid, but I think I'm okay with that as long as I have a plan (secretly hoping it's soon though!) Oh great that's great! It's almost time for your scan too! Hope that it's good news. Let me know how it goes! I have mine in the morning 😊

@VP91x thank you very much, you are very knowledgable. I did a fb ovulation this morning and there looking back at me was a smiley face. We DTD last night so hopefully caught it as the peak may have been yesterday too. Might try DTD again tonight but my partner isn’t normally too keen to do that. Last time we fell pregnant though we DTD 3days before ovulation and managed to catch so 🤞🏻

Oooh that’s interesting @VP91x re the OPK this morning. I’m not too sure sorry as I use the CBD but hopefully one of the other ladies can help. Is it higher or lower than your other peak? The temp is a good sign though for sure. & the scan for further reassurance is just the most amazing timing 💓

@Runnergirl1 if you got your static today on CBD I would personally DTD today to be fully covered for your best chances lovely. xxx

@HappyVibes. I didn’t test at all yesterday and normally have two days of static. I think yesterday would have been the first as the amount of ewcm yesterday was unreal l, never had so much. Not sure if that’s due to pom juice or just new after mc x

@Runnergirl1 oh I see lovely. Other than the CM are you tracking any other way that could help indicate when ovulation was?

The statics stay on for 72 hours because from the static showing you can ovulate 24 hours after that. & after ovulation, you can be fertile for up to another 24hours.

It is of course completely personal and what you and OH feel most comfort with lovely. If you have any other signs or symptoms that you’ve been tracking with, maybe that would identify when ovulation may have been?

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