TTC after MC - August 2020 (Thread 11)

[VP91x]

Hi ladies 🥰

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@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@Niisa
@fafi
@2020wish
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@Beesy90
@Pugprincess
@IWM20
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@Lollol86

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@VP91x
@MichT4
@Hayley19835
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@Rb486
@Wishingfornumber2
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@Firevie
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@TJM123
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@MichT4 I had the same today. My cousin did a pregnancy announcement and I felt like I'd be punched in the gut. Our time will come xo

Thank you all, I'm just having one of those days. I keep crying. We were watching a not sad film and I had to make up reasons it was making me emotional 😂

@Pugprincess We do know his cousin, but I don't know why we all needed to know. @SmileyT yeah it's the same sister I was away with. I feel like she's really grinding in her belief that we shouldn't be thinking about it. I can't even talk to her properly, she keeps texting me. But if I said she had upset me I feel like her view is that I need to get over it and can't feel like that. Just think it's an odd thing to do when she knows what's going on.

I know it's super negative girls but I just think it isn't going to happen. I don't think it should be this hard. I can't believe 3 times in a row now I've had the chance and lost it.

Now I'm welling up writing this while watching Daddy's Home. Lord help me!

@Pugprincess good luck with work tomorrow, it'll feel like you've never been away in no time!

@Northernsoul90 @chloedancer897 sorry you've had similar things this weekend. I agree on the asking about kids thing, not sure I'd have thought too much about it before but now I'd steer well clear. Not sure how I'd react if someone asked me xx

@MichT4 I can promise you that one day you will look back on this and realise it was all worth it. The reason I say that is because my youngest neve is a rainbow baby and I'm actually thankful I had a mc before her as I've ended up with a very much wild child that I wouldn't change for the world.
I really struggled with my second mc (last one) and I still don't believe I'm pregnant at the moment and just waiting for something to happen but all being well in 9 months time I will again be glad I had that mc.
You will get there, your rainbow baby is going to be the most precious gift you will ever receive xx

Thank you @Lollol86 such a lovely message, really appreciate you sharing it.
Nothing is going to go wrong for you, this is your time xx

Evening all. Just been catching up with what everyone has been up to.

Firstly, @LAcain so sorry to here of your loss. The ladies here Sharing their stories have brought me great comfort over the last few weeks.

@MichT4 I saw a faint line on that CB you shared. How are you getting on?

@Pugprincess glad everything is sorted with your OH now. My OH is a man child also and we regularly have similar fights over the strangest things he does!

I kept doing OPKs until yesterday morning with still a blank circle but had the EWCM yesterday and today. Had some slight ovulation pains today also.

I have everything crossed for all you ladies.

Morning all 😊

CD4 here, so in the boring phase. Just drinking loads of POM juice, GF juice and taking my EPO and Inofolic.. How is everyone today? Xx

Morning, I’m up and ready far too early 😅🙈 not as in I’ve got loads of spare time. It’s just too early to be up and not lazing about in pjs 😅 just eating my breakfast, then sort my pack up and ready to go more or less x

@MinnieMouse4 thank you, glad it’s not just me lol, hope you get your flashy face soon 🤞🏻

Morning all
@Pugprincess have a good day
@VP91x you’re not too far away from me cd13. I feel being busy and distracted has helped me overcome those early cycle days and having a drink for fun not worrying lol
What’s the deal with the pom and GF juice again? When do you need to drink them? I feel like I always get them the wrong way around lol xx

Morning ladies, I got my 3+ this morning so stepping away from testing now.
I hope you are all ok.

@MichT4 good luck with phoning your doctors today xx

@Lollol86 brilliant news on the 3+, definitely put the tests away ❤️ how are you feeling? X

@Firevie I've been craving a margarita for so long, might grab the ingredients and make one at some point! I just always forget when I'm actually in the supermarket 😂

GF juice helps increase EWCM so drink up to ovulation. POM juice helps support thickening of your lining, you can drink it all through your cycle. Xx

@VP91x thank you, I'm happy it's showing 3+ now so shows it's progressing. I'm starting to feel abit yucky at times. I didn't sleep very well last night and have woke up feeling really hungover. How are you? Xx

@Lollol86 congratulations on the 3+!!

I’m at school now. Got lots of sitting and listening to various training going on so shouldn’t be too hard. I’ve positioned myself closest to the back and the door so I can easily slip out to the toilet. The head teachers told a couple of the senior leaders about my situation but that’s fine as they being really supportive and said I can go get fresh air etc whenever I want and not to do anything I’m not happy with. X

Hi everyone, will catch up on the thread today. Feeling extremely down. Getting immense pressure from Ex partner and mother to have termination 😢. Still haven’t discussed with friends. On the plus side I have found a small job just cleaning offices to keep me going (no work where I am at the moment and everyone is getting made redundant). Worse case scenario if it is all I can do until baby arrives I should still be able to get maternity allowance so at least something is working out x

@BEESY90 so sorry you are under pressure. How do you feel? You need to do what's right for you, and it sounds like you are making great steps to get yourself comfortable and secure - good for you!

@Lollol86 excellent news on the 3+!! So happy for you.

I've spoken to my doctor who was brilliant again and said she would do a blood test as a first step. She then said she would call EPU and see what they say and they just called and offered me a scan today. I can't go, because they are morning slots and I'm in the office an hour away and have loads to do. So I'm booked in for 10.30 tomorrow morning. She will do bloods depending what the scan shows.
The doctors also said the specialist has already said about referring me to RMC if this is another one so I feel very well looked after today.

Shame I couldn't make today but I can't just leave and go, not on my first day back 😂. My boss would actually be ok with it but I just want a day distracted really

Hope you're all well this morning. Another Monday xx

@MichT4 ahhh that's amazing news, so every cloud and all that. Being referred is such good news for you.
How are you feeling today? Xx

@Lollol86 yay really pleased for you!!!
@VP91x thanks - better get myself some GF juice then haha. Def have a margarita you deserve it. I’ve been drinking couple of glasses every day on hols so bad of me lol but feel like I deserved it after all that’s happened but need to be good again once I’m back home next week
@BEESY90 oh no! I missed this / why are they putting pressure on you to terminate? It is your body and your baby!
@MichT4 so glad your doctor and nurses are looking after you! Let us know how it goes!
@Pugprincess have a good day at school xxx

@Lollol86 @Firevie yeah I feel looked after. I am slightly annoyed I couldn't go today, there was temptation to just go back, but it can't take over my life. I need to keep level with it and it's only one day to wait. I'd literally have had to go, having only been here for a couple of hours. And I have to get the accounts done today so it just didn't work.

@Lollol86 I feel ok, I'll feel better tomorrow. I feel lucky that they are doing what they can. What are the chances AF will arrive before tomorrow now. At least I'll know and have that referral though xx

@Lollol86 that’s great news about 3+. Hope all is going well

@Pugprincess I start back on Friday hope it goes ok for you. Least you have no kids in but that’s a long week of training etc.

@BEESY90 so sorry you are going through all this. You really need to talk to people so you aren’t alone. Don’t let them bully you into something you don’t want to do. You sound like you have a great attitude to moving forward, so just keep doing you

@MichT4 your doctor sounds amazing so glad they are being proactive and getting you seen, that’s brilliant.

@VP91x I am also cd4 and just can’t wait to get going lol x

@Lollol86 that yuckiness will hopefully go by second tri, that general hungover feeling is really draining. Yeah, not bad! Just waiting to see what testing my GP will do this month - have a telephone consult tomorrow. I've also booked in a fertility scan for next week just to see if my ovaries are doing anything at all, if not then I know not to bother with this month. Xx

@Firevie not bad of you at all! Nice to have a few glasses of wine a week. Need to make the most of it before you get your BFP 😉. Xx

@BEESY90 I'm so sorry they are being so awful, they have no right to be pressuring you to do anything at all. It's your baby, and you sound like you'll do great by yourself. Definitely speak to your friends you need some proper support around you. Can you not block your ex/stop contact? He doesn't want be involved so don't let him make you miserable xx

@MichT4 this is such fantastic news, your GP sounds like a dream. Frustrating that they couldn't get you in by today, but relief that you should have an answer by tomorrow morning 🙌. Will be thinking of you xx

@Runnergirl1 cycle buddies 🙏 how are you feeling about this month?

@VP91x I’m ok this is my first af since my mc so it’s starting a fresh. My af seems normal but my luteal phase was only 10/11 days so that abit worrying it’s not normally that short. I just want a baby so bad I don’t want to wait a long time. This time round though I’ll be testing just before my birthday so that would be a lovely early present 🤞🏻

@VP91x how you feeling? I see your doing a lot to help with things which is good x

@Firevie thanks lovely. First morning I've felt proper rubbish but I'm embracing it. Sounds like you've had a much needed lovely holiday xx

@MichT4 oh it will be Sod's law that af will arrive but at least they are going to see you and get the ball rolling xx

@Runnergirl1 thank you, not long until you get your peak 🤞🏻 xx

@BEESY90 they have absolutely no right to put that pressure on you. It's your body and baby and you do what's right for you xx

@VP91x yea it's hard but I'm
Totally embracing it. I was just putting some make up and I'm really shaky today.
Hopefully you will get to see your ovaries working, how stressful this must be for you xx

@Pugprincess Good luck on your first day back! I'm glad that they are being supportive at school xx

@Lollol86 Yay for 3+ weeks 🥳 xx

@BEESY90 I'm so sorry that they are putting pressure on you, it's really unfair. Don't let them
bully you into something you don't want to do - your body, your choice. Are your family and friends supportive? Xx

@MichT4 I'm so glad your doctor and EPAU are being proactive! Just what you needed to hear. Yes good idea to keep distracted today and get some answers tomorrow 🤞🏼🤞🏼 xx