TTC after MC - August 2020 (Thread 10)

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Hey ladies ❤️

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Update on me - there is no update 😂 CD20, not even a sniff of a positive OPK and no temp rise. Will have bloods done in the next couple of days. Gynae appt on 16th Sept is the plan xx

@Pugprincess wow your cheapies have really increased, mine are starting to get dark but no where near like yours. Are you having a scan up the hospital or private? Xx

@VP91x temps definitely looking like you've ovulated 🤔 how many opks were you doing the days before? Definitely get a pic when you can, I need to see this big dog x

@HopeForRainbowbaby oh I'm so sorry to hear this, please look after yourself it's so tough when it's taken away from us so soon x

@MichT4 weather still nice for you over there? xx

@Pugprincess yeah it looks like you've pretty much maxed out on those easy@home tests and with CB I think I worked out that it can take like 20 days from getting a positive FRER and that is if hcg actually doubles every 2 days which is doesn't always, so in short don't worry too much. You're 5weeks now so that's one hurdle you've overcome already ☺️ I've got my scan a week on Friday aswell hopefully time flies for both of us x

@HopeForRainbowbaby I'm so sorry x

@SmileyT it's cloudier today but still warm. The boys have gone for a walk up in the lakes and we are having a girly day.

How are you getting on? xx

@SmileyT ooo scan buddies lol, what time is yours, I’m first thing 8.20 and then got to go school after but if it was bad news I’ll go to my mums and phone school.

@Lollol86 where are you at now? Have you past AF due date? I’m about a week past it so that’s why mines dark. Xx

Sorry @Lollol86 scans at hospital xx

@Pugprincess af is due today. I'm going to see if my hospital will do a reassurance scan xx

@Pugprincess I'm 4 weeks 1 day xx

@Lollol86 Yh if you contact gp they should refer you back to epau and they will book a scan, they did all that in one day for me xx

@Pugprincess I think it depends on the hospital some do and some don't. Not sure when to ring the doctors xx

@MichT4 @SmileyT something must have happened! I done like 3 opks a day and they were slightly darker but nothing of interest and certainly nowhere near peak 🤷.

This was because of my OH because he was doing his dog handling. I would have loved a tiny dog personally, but either way. Well, I'm currently upstairs with Bella because I can't be downstairs, he is so restless and won't let her even sit down at her table to eat her brekkie. So, I'm beyond anxious. I've asked him to go to his mums with the dog and take it from there, if he is going to continue as he is I can't see it working with him being here.

I hope it doesn't come across as if we have made a flippant decision to just get the dog. This was months of finding the right dog and all sorts in the right time for dog training courses etc. Obviously the reality is quite different for Bella, which has made me beyond uncomfortable. My OH is stuck between two choices atm! Xx

@MichT4 @VP91x unfortunately it is af, It’s not spotting anymore it seems to be light flow now, it just seems so early for me since mc. I feel so down

@VP91x oh dear it may just take him time to settle hes probably very excitable at the mo and needs boundaries

@VP91x aww he’s in a new environment and just had a strange long journey. Hopefully he settles soon. Is the breed like German shepherds? X

Thanks ladies. It would be my third MC but first chemical. I will see what happens next days. So far there was little bit brown blood. I will take day by day. But anyways I'm feeling like I should be mom in 2021. So sticky healthy bean will happen❤️

@Pugprincess your spotting looks minimal. How do you feel?

@HopeForRainbowbaby I think I feel ok although my toilets upstairs so after walking up and down I have a stabby pain in right abdomen. Not awful but a little stronger than some. Hope it eases off. Docs scared me about ectopic now 😩 x

@HopeForRainbowbaby so sorry to hear this lovely. I too have had 3 - two chemicals & one MMC. I rang my GP and they were amazing; because I had had 3, they referred me straight away to Gynae for oversight which has been very reassuring. I have my first appt in September, and need to get my bloods taken on CD 21/22 in preparation for the appt.

Chemicals are unbelievably common - I know this is no reassurance or comfort, but when I researched it and found out that most people don’t know they’ve even had one, it did make me feel less worried about anything being worrying about my own body.

Ladies - I am currently CD15 and still nothing on CBD or cheaply OPKs. Is this normal ladies? Pre MC, I used to get smileys CD13. I had a mega long cycle last month and got my smileys at CD15, but didn’t peak until CD26.

Xxx

@Pugprincess I've caved and booked an early scan, I decided I didn't want to go back up to the early pregnancy unit unless necessary xx

@Lollol86 I don’t blame you the epau holds bad memories for me and it will be mega tough going alone 😔

@Pugprincess that's also another reason I've decided to go private as dh can come too. Im having this scan at 7 weeks then I'll book another for 10 weeks all being wee at the first scan xx

Ladies 7/8dpo over here and pulling my hair out. Not symptom spotting at all but just have a huge urge to poas but obviously not going to atm. We are away on a little break atm which is keeping my mind busy then come home tomorrow and pick up our new puppy which again will keep me busy. So hopefully time will fly and either af will arrive or I get around to testing x

@Runnergirl1 ooooo everyone’s getting puppies 😍 what breed are you getting? The tww is absolute torture. It’s still quite early and I was poas but I wasn’t sure if I was picking up slight old hcg or new so I’d wait till at least 10-12dpo to start if you are going to. It really messes with your head. X

@Runnergirl1 the urge is a killer isn't it, a new pup will certainly keep your mind occupied though xx

@Lollol86 glad you got yourself booked in for a scan that will settle you so much, ❤️

@Runnergirl1 eep, at least you are away as a distraction and new pup coming soon. Definitely try and hold out to 12dpo.

Ah ladies, today has just been the absolute worst. OH has gone to his mums with the pup it was just impossible. I have no idea what the best way around this is, I feel like we have broken up!? Sounds so silly. But, if it doesn't work with the dog I know he is going to be utterly heartbroken. Luckily, Bella is now napping. I've just been crying. Sorry to vent a little with completely non TTC chat. xx

@VP91x yea I'm really not allowing myself to get excited at all.
Oh wow sounds like a nightmare of a morning. The pup will certainly be over excited and will take a while to settle. Has he been booked into any puppy classes? Has Bella found him too overwhelming? Xx