TTC after MC - August 2020 (Thread 10)

[VP91x]

Hey ladies ❤️

BFP list
@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@ManchNic
@Niisa
@fafi
@2020wish
@calimommy
@Rebecca1992
@Beesy90
@Pugprincess
@IWM20

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@VP91x
@Runnergirl1
@Hayley19835
@Mommybear05
@HE88
@Rainbowhope11
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@Renna
@Diorissimo1985
@Rb486
@Wishingfornumber2
@Northernsoul90
@Sallyjo27
@Jazper
@littletandme
@MichT4
@Re6ecc4
@Bellabubble
@Lollol86
@Firevie
@stayinghopeful92x
@chloedancer897
@MrsK21
@LKMH
@CasperFlamingo
@Scrambledeggy
@Happyvibes
@Bl0ndi3
@Lemondropsandgumdrops

Update on me - there is no update 😂 CD20, not even a sniff of a positive OPK and no temp rise. Will have bloods done in the next couple of days. Gynae appt on 16th Sept is the plan xx

Thanks, I just didn’t want to see anything like this this time 😢 my boobs have started hurting and swelling today so I feel like I’m still progressing atm

@Pugprincess there's so much going on in there at the moment it's not surprising these things happen. Keep us updated on what they say 🥰🥰

@MichT4 I know it's pathetic but a girl on a group I'm in had a scan today and found out she had a MMC a couple weeks before so I just got the fear so wanted to see my bean, all was good measuring exactly as it should so I'll just try and embrace some of you ladies PMA and stop being such a worry wart 🙈 did you tell OH? And definitely no Ava tonight, and maybe take a break on holiday aswell just to switch off a bit. And most of my friends call me T (not smiley though) so hopefully easy to place, although my pic is currently of my dad in a paddling pool because I find him hilarious 🤣

@chloedancer897 I had the 200mg one from amazon, think I just picked the cheapest tbh 😂 I have a femometer thermometer and another random cheap one, not sure why I thought the two may give me different answers x

@fafi ahh I'm glad you are feeling chilled, it's a horrible rabbit hole once you start overthinking x

@scrambledeggy I honestly can't wait until we get a new bathroom and be able to enjoy a bath, OH has ripped half the tiles off the walls and it's the least relaxing room in the house now 🤦🏾‍♀️

@Wishingfornumber2 thanks lovely, I hope you are keeping well, sorry that AF arrived but it's the start of a fresh new cycle and no reason why this can't be your month xx

@VP91x yes all was good and yes I'll send you my number, just have to work out how to get logged onto MN on a browser as I can never remember my password ffs and can't message on the app. Glad you are enjoying the bucket of wine, after your opks, sassy Bella and ungrateful OH you deserve it. Mine would be kissing my feet if I even made him a slice of toast 😂

@Lollol86 yeah I'm not going to bother buying more, tbh even though I did all the things for implantation/ good lining etc, my MC was a missed one at 8w so I don't necessarily think it was my lining that gave way just the little bean wasn't ready. I'm going to have another scan at around 11w because OH can't come to 12w one and I'm super anxious, it's definitely not for everyone but I just can't stand the idea of the pregnancy stopping and me not knowing for weeks 🙈

@Pugprincess I'm sure all is well I had a tiny bit of brown at around 5weeks I think but was literally on one toilet trip and went away, keep an eye on it and call EPU if you're worried x

@VP91x yeah I've definitely got some ideas in my head. Bet you all look totally different 😂

@Diorissimo1985 thank you. Just have everything crossed now for tomorrow 🤞🏼🤞🏼

@Pugprincess I know it's horrible to see anything like that, but it's really light. I'd say it's more like tinged Cm than anything else. I agree with the ladies, keep track and call EPU for some advice. They were great with me.

@SmileyT that's not pathetic at all. I think sometimes you just want to make sure and that's fine. Plus it's always nice to see the little bean happy and snug. Did you get a picture?
Nope, he's not home yet. I keep wondering if to tell him in the morning in case it's not positive. What do you think?
No definitely no Ava tonight (silly cow that we hate @vp91x) and if it's a BFP I'll leave it here for sure. Or maybe you're right and I leave it here anyway. Just wanted some trend if it is negative this month

xx

@SmileyT not pathetic at all, completely understand why you would want to get a scan. Sad news that she had a MMC though, glad your little bean is all okay and snug in there. How wonderful you got to see them again. Honestly bi-weekly scanning is the way forward, haha 😂. Hmm, maybe I should stop cooking for him, he would soon be nice.

I'm the worst at remembering passwords, if my phone breaks I would be screwed. Xx

@MichT4 I think maybe tell him in the morning when you know for sure? Completely depends what would work for you both. Xx

I just called epau but they say there’s nothing they can do for me until I’m 6 weeks pregnant unless I’m getting one sided pain or fresh red blood

@VP91x hopefully your second will be good, Olivia was a dream baby she still is to be honest but Neve my god she was like a tornado I had no idea what had hit me 😂😂

@Pugprincess ring tomorrow and get them to check your bloods. It's so horrible as no matter how normal it is, we worry so much 😓

@Lollol86 that must have been hard especially with a toddler as well.

@Pugprincess you've got your scan soon too don't you? Xx

I’m scared but they won’t help me. I’ve just done another test to see how line is. That’s looking strong. And new developments with the boobs today. But it’s hard to stay positive I just can’t cope with brown I had so much brown before MC. Altho that was dark brown

Scans 28th aug xx

@SmileyT definitely not pathetic, I'm going to be exactly the same. I'm going to book a scan for 9 weeks as my last baby stopped growing just before then so it will get me past that milestone. It's so horrible they can't come in for the scans at the hospital isn't it .

@VP91x yes very hard I ended up with pnd, but it's all worth it.

@Pugprincess it will be okay, try not to worry. Get yourself some rest ❤️

@Lollol86 oh no, I'm sorry you had PND that must be have been so so hard 😔 xx

@VP91x it was very hard but I got through it, i do feel like I missed neves baby stage though as I wasn't in the best place xx

@Lollol86 yeah I can imagine, I didn't have PND but I found the first three months so relentless. I'm glad you got through it 🥰 xx

@VP91x thank you, now to just get to through this pregnancy. Once I start to feel the baby move I think i will relax more as you have that reassurance xx

@Lollol86 yeah I understand ❤️ hopefully it flies by! Xx

@VP91x fingers crossed, not to get the rest of this group on the pregnancy bus xx

Now 🤦🏼‍♀️

@MichT4 Yes take the Ava off!! Try and get some good rest tonight ready for tomorrow... holiday and hopefully bfp!! 🙏🏼🌈 xx

@VP91x @MichT4 I would love to come!! But I am about a 5/6 hour drive from where you are 😭. Never mind we can all be there in spirit haha... love the thought of you meeting up with flashy smiley t shirts on 🤣🤣 xx

@Pugprincess Sorry that the EPAU weren't more helpful, I know you have already heard this but spotting is very common in early pregnancy and that does look light. Try and get some good rest tonight and hopefully it will be gone tomorrow. The sore boobs and strong test are both good signs too xx

@SmileyT That's not pathetic I would have been the same!! I'm glad all was well ☺️ I am probably going to end up having scans every 2 weeks when I get a bfp! 🤣 xx

Thank you ladies ❤️ This never gets any easier does it x

@Lollol86 haha, don't go leaving us any time soon 🥰

@Northernsoul90 😩 get yourself a day trip down here. 😂😂 No missing us. xx

@MichT4 yes take the Ava off and go and enjoy ur break away. I would tell DH tomorrow either way.

@Pugprincess that can be completely normal, get urself to bed and rest up and ring back tomorrow asking them can the do a beta hcg x

@VP91x it is a good article. Let’s us know we aren’t crazy when we have line eyes

Are u exchanging numbers for a WhatsApp group or RL meet-up?

@SmileyT I’m know how r feel. I’m itching for another scan just to double check I’m not carrying mmc. I’ve a scan booked for the 27th tho

@SmileyT glad you got to see your little bean again today even though you were anxious, I honestly will be the same when I get my BFP, bankrupt myself paying for early scans 👀

@MichT4 Ava defo needs to be shoved in a drawer tonight! Excited for you to test again in the morning 🤞🏽

@Northernsoul90 definitely do a day trip!!

@VP91x ahh sorry you've had a rubbish day. Can't believe Bella did a poo on the sofa though! I told my OH we need to get rid of our fabric sofas as soon as a DC comes along, he asked me why and I said they'll shit on the sofa and he thinks I'm making this up 🤣
A WA sounds awesome! Xxx
I'll PM you mine too from a browser, another forgetful app user here 🙋🏽‍♀️
I'll write my name on an OPK and stick it to my top for easy identification lol