TTC after MC - August 2020 (Thread 10)

[VP91x]

Hey ladies ❤️

BFP list
@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@ManchNic
@Niisa
@fafi
@2020wish
@calimommy
@Rebecca1992
@Beesy90
@Pugprincess
@IWM20

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@VP91x
@Runnergirl1
@Hayley19835
@Mommybear05
@HE88
@Rainbowhope11
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@Renna
@Diorissimo1985
@Rb486
@Wishingfornumber2
@Northernsoul90
@Sallyjo27
@Jazper
@littletandme
@MichT4
@Re6ecc4
@Bellabubble
@Lollol86
@Firevie
@stayinghopeful92x
@chloedancer897
@MrsK21
@LKMH
@CasperFlamingo
@Scrambledeggy
@Happyvibes
@Bl0ndi3
@Lemondropsandgumdrops

Update on me - there is no update 😂 CD20, not even a sniff of a positive OPK and no temp rise. Will have bloods done in the next couple of days. Gynae appt on 16th Sept is the plan xx

@MrsK21 his parents are always lovely, hence me thinking I'll go and chill there, but I'd never met the sisters (she has lots) and I just felt really weird about the whole thing. OH just said 'that's why I didn't want you to meet them' 😂

@Diorissimo1985 ahh you're so sweet, thank you. Let's hope you come on to good news tomorrow! 🤞🏼

@Bl0ndi3 glad it's not just me. I find all the things I didn't know I needed, and more than likely turns out I didn't need.

@VP91x yes let's do it 🥰

xx

And @Northernsoul90 thank you too xx

@MrsK21 yes💁💁, we need to get this sorted!

@HappyVibes also good to find out these little tidbits of info, I never knew either until a few cycles back xx

@MichT4 then I can shake real life pom poms at you 😂 xx

@MichT4 good luck for the morning. Please watch this video and listen to her symptoms 😜 don’t ask me why I’m watching these, I started on a day in the life of kylie Jenner and then these suggestions pop up and I’ve ended up watching live opk videos and all sorts 😂 🙈 xx

@MichT4 go to 2 mins 40 xx

Hi, can I just say thankyou for all your replies. And good luck @MichT4 for your test tomorrow! And all those looking for a smiley or OPK line. I am up drinking tea and eating biccies coz I can’t sleep! My dear cat hasn’t left my side since before I found out I was I was pregnant. I think she must sense it? I have attached a pic of her coz we all love an animal pic! I feel like my tummy already looks hard. I know theres the early pregnancy bloating but I am also worried there may be 2 babies which is a risk with fertility drugs!! I also feel like my boobs are gonna fall off! As for the ASSHOLE he just felt like goading me that I’m likely to miscarry as I have PCOS...cheers then! And not factually true! I have still taken some time to myself . Just me and my cat. I can’t help but feel I will be judged. None of my friends are single mums. They have picture perfect lives. Mortgages, lovely homes, marriages, babies came easy. Then theres me. I rent , I am still furloughed With possible redundancy in September, my partner was the breadwinner. Stupid covid changed everything. What if they suggest I abort the baby? I still feel I am in a bad dream x

@Northernsoul90 we are in the same club indeed! Yay! Come on next FW!
@MichT4 @scrambledeggy good luck this morning! Can’t wait for you to test and post BFPs! Xxx

Hi all, sorry for going AWOL yesterday, I felt sick and dehydrated all day and ended up going to bed really early! I'll have a proper catch up later. Thank you for the good wishes @Firevie and @Lollol86, but I've had a BFN this morning. Not massively looking forward to what AF is going to be like with this much boob pain, but it is what it is!

I'm going to give it another week, and then if still no AF, I'll give the GP a call, as I only passed a very small amount of blood during my suspected chemical, meaning it will be cycle day 73 since my last period (which was can't get out of bed for a day without retching, doubling up sort of bad).

Hi all, sorry for going AWOL yesterday, I felt sick and dehydrated all day and ended up going to bed really early! I'll have a proper catch up later. Thank you for the good wishes @Firevie and @Lollol86, but I've had a BFN this morning. Not massively looking forward to what AF is going to be like with this much boob pain, but it is what it is!

I'm going to give it another week, and then if still no AF, I'll give the GP a call, as I only passed a very small amount of blood during my suspected chemical, meaning it will be cycle day 73 since my last period (which was can't get out of bed for a day without retching, doubling up sort of bad).

Why did that post twice? 😂

@BEESY90 What a beautiful cat- I was never allowed one growing up because mum and dad said pets were too expensive, and our current landlord won't have them either!

I can't begin to imagine the anxiety and trepidation you must be feeling. Especially now, especially with everything going on. Hopefully things will begin to piece together more for you as time goes on. If by "they" you mean early pregnancy experts, I can tell you from my relative who works in my local EPU that they'd never put that kind of pressure on you, because they're not allowed to. And for that bloke who claimed to love and support you to talk about you like that? That's disgusting. The only one who has issues here is clearly him. Keep your lovely cat close, and just keep on going. And don't be afraid to speak to someone IRL (a counsellor, someone who can help with money stuff) if you feel like you have to. Sending love.

@MichT4 wishing you a BFP this morning!

@scrambledeggy oh no sorry to hear it’s a BFN! Next month will be our month - you can join the club again with me and @Northernsoul90 hopefully your af arrives soon so you can start your next FW soon
@BEESY90 sorry you’re feeling that way but you’ve got a lovely cat and your growing bean! It def sucks right now but perhaps do look at counselling. And we are obv here for you to support you! That guy who walked out on you is absolutely disgusting! Hope you don’t let him back in again! Sending hugs xxx
@MichT4 our hopes are pinned on you girl! Give us a BFP lol no pressure there haha xxx

@BEESY90 I can't believe how horrific that guy is, to let you continue with TTC and then do this. It's incomprehensible 😩. Please don't doubt your ability to do this as a single parent it will be more difficult but actually it will probably be easier than with that idiot by your side because he is a massive d*ckhead. Also, remember noone has a picture perfect life, we only ever see what people want us to see. So forget about that! Reach out for the support and if anyone is less than helpful get rid of them too!! Xx

@Scrambledeggy I'm sorry it was a BFN 😔, I hope AF turns up soon for you so you can have a reset. Sending you a big hug xx

Morning ladies.

Firstly @Rb486 how funny is that?! I can't believe it's a thing for people!

So here's my morning - BFN I think. I kept thinking I saw the faintest line if you looked really really really really.......hard. But I think it's just line eyes.
However this happened to my temp. And so I'm kind of torn to think just take the BFN, or to think somehow it hasn't showed yet. Who knows, but no second line this morning 😢 and I was even more hopeful after the video about the pits!!

@BEESY90 I honestly can't believe what this arse is like! Who does this and says these things to people? No one is going to tell you to have an abortion, I'm they will all just want to be there for you and support you. I do hope you find the courage to talk to those closest to you. We are here always though.

@scrambledeggy sorry it was a BFN for you too. Not such a successful testing day it seems. @Lollol86 you are carrying the torch for this week.

@HE88 fingers crossed you join the BFP club. Good luck!

xx

@MichT4 oh interesting about your temp rise!! I'm sorry it was a negative that morning, have you got a pic? Maybe give it two days and test again? Especially with the temp spike.. Xx

@MichT4 also have you done an OPK?? If you still have the FMU I would be tempted to dip it xx

@VP91x I don't have a pic, I can take one though but it's not a worthy photo. I'll take one in a mo. Yeah I think I'll wait a couple of days like you say. Just annoying as I'll be on holiday.
To be honest I think it probs isn't my month but just thought that was odd. When I saw that before I tested I sort of thought it would be positive 🙄 xx

@VP91x really? Why's that? I don't have it 😫 but maybe if I don't drink and go again, would that count? xx

@MichT4 in case you were getting another peak or it was showing up on an OPK. Xx

@MichT4 actually IGNORE me 😂 if your temp went up because of another peak then it would have gone by now.. Sorry, I've probably just confused you xx

@VP91x I'll try and force out a wee and take one. Now I'm googling of course 😂 xx

@VP91x oh good I don't have to force a dehydrated wee out 🤣 xx

@MichT4ih no sorry to hear it was a BFN. But I agree with @VP91x try again in a day or so on your hols. If def not enjoy your holiday have drinks and let your hair down. And we will all go again in September ladies. Our bodies are re setting - let’s give them some credit! Xxc

@scrambledeggy @MichT4 so sorry you have bfn this month 😭 I was really hoping you would get bfp xx

So ladies here are my tests this morning....