TTC after MC - August 2020 (Thread 9)

[VP91x]

Hey ladies,

Fingers crossed for lots of BFPs this month as we are definitely due some!

BFP list❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@ManchNic
@Niisa
@fafi
@2020wish
@calimommy

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@VP91x
@Runnergirl1
@Hayley19835
@Mommybear05
@HE88
@Rainbowhope11
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@Renna
@Diorissimo1985
@Rb486
@Wishingfornumber2
@Northernsoul90
@Sallyjo27
@Pugprincess
@Jazper
@elliew818
@AC2020
@Eli2020
@littletandme
@MichT4
@Re6ecc4
@Bellabubble
@Lollol86
@Firevie
@stayinghopeful92x
@chloedancer897
@Lollol86
@MrsK21
@Rebecca1992
@Beesy90
@LKMH
@Cici89
@Blondecomment0703
@CasperFlamingo

I'm CD11, waiting for something (anything) to happen this month 😂. Only taking my Inofolic Alpha this cycle and nothing else.

Hope I've tagged everyone xx

@chloedancer897 I will be 37 in October and got pregnant first time round which sadly ended in MC. Before I fell pregnant I always worried about age and eggs but I think falling pregnant gives me hope and my doctor said that age really only becomes a factor from 42 onwards! Don’t give up hope xxx

@chloedancer897 that's really rubbish but you have just recently fallen pregnant so that's a plus surely? Xx

@Lollol86 he just dismissed it as a chemical pregnancy and said it was like my body teasing me.

@Firevie I'm sure age isn't a factor for some people but my egg reserve is definitely diminishing which is due to age for me

@chloedancer897 did you say you have children already or not?

Hi all hope your all doing okay,

I had my histology results back today for my 3rd miscarriage and they were inconclusive so feel a bit confused as to what that means. The nurse didn’t really know either (so helpful) I’ve looked online and can’t really see what the histology test is for. Has anyone else had this result? My EPU are absolutely useless. I rang them twice to clarify the result and to be honest I felt the nurse didn’t know herself and kept talking to someone else as I was talking 🙄. I don’t even know what the test is for as I haven’t been able to find much online xx

@Lollol86 oh yes sorry, I have 2 but they're 12 and 7 so I'm sure my egg reserve was fine then

@Sallyjo27 I'm so sorry you didn't have answers. I know how frustrating that can me. Usually with histopathology they are looking for congenital anomalies or signs of infection. I suppose in a way, it's good that they didn't find anything as it means that you don't have a genetic condition which means you keep miscarrying. I'm sorry it didn't give you more answers and that you felt unheard by the staff. It's so awful, I wish they would understand where we are at emotionally and how much we are hurting x

Hi Ladies, My scan went well thank god! Only 1 in there but very grateful for that!!

Good strong heartbeat so I think can start relaxing a bit now and enjoy it! One thing that has me slightly confused is I'm measuring 3 days ahead from my LMP which would be the exact day of my faint positive test last month before I bled 3 days later??

I'm confused as to whether I really lost the first pregnancy or not??🤔

@chloedancer897 So sorry about your appointment as that you are feeling so upset about it, I would feel the same. Allow yourself to be upset for a couple of days and then look at what options you have once you have got your head around things? Xx

@Sallyjo27 That's so rubbish about the tests how frustrating for you 😩. I don't have any experience of them sorry or know much about the tests but hopefully some of the other ladies might. Hope you are okay xx

@Rebecca1992 That's brilliant news!! I bet you are thrilled to have seen the heartbeat xx

@fafi Thank you! We are definitely due some more bfs 🤞🏼🤞🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 xx

@chloedancer897 did you manage to fall pregnant a lot quicker with your last 2? It's devastating that is can be just taken away from you isn't it. I really hope everything turns out ok for you xx

@Rebecca1992 that is amazing news congratulations ❤️🥳

@Lollol86 the first was an accident and the second I conceived the first cycle off the pill. Never had an issue before now

@Northernsoul90 Happy Anniversary lovely x

@Lollol86 I started getting my eyebrows done at the beginning of July I didn't realise until afterwards it was definitely still illegal 🙈

@Pugprincess that's a bit crappy of work not to ring you first but you had decided to leave anyway onto a better situation for you with less stress which is just what you need x

@chloedancer897 ahh I'm so sorry you are feeling low, I'd definitely say don't give up as you never know if it'll happen next time for you, but totally understand that the news can be a shock and that you need to consider what is best for your mental health. This may be a stupid question but can you freeze eggs you have currently? xx

@Rebecca1992 fantastic news about your scan... if you are measuring a few days ahead I wouldn't worry too much as size could just be down to early implantation/ ovulation. Did you have a chemical last month? If you had stayed pregnant then you would've dated at around 11weeks wouldn't you? Sorry if I've got confused x

@VP91x hope the 2nd day went well and you were able to head home at lunch for some telly and a cuppa x

@MichT4 I'm all good thanks, met my friend for a drink after work and just got in so bloody exhausted but apart from that good. You need to stop doing opks they are seriously blowing my mind, definitely think you may have a high base level of LH x

@chloedancer897 don't you find though because you fell easier both times you kind of expect it to happen again. Take some time out for yourself xx

@SmileyT omg I'm jealous my eyebrows are bloody awful. I'm at the stage where I don't want to touch them just incase they open soon 😂😂

@Rebecca1992 aww congrats so happy for u!!! So what are they dating u as? If it was a previous pregancy then u would be nearly 3 months?

Thank u for all the wishes!! Yes I'm completely confusing myself probably due to measuring ahead, I always measured behind as both my girls were small.

I can rest at ease now I know the little bean is beating away in there!

@@2020wish I'm measuring 7+2, are u excited for tomorrow?? What time is yours?

@SmileyT Thank you! Are you still getting on okay?? How many weeks will you be now? Xx

@Rebecca1992 that’s great that you are ahead. Hopefully that’s a sign of a strong baby 👶🏼

@chloedancer897 I was also wondering like @SmileyT whether you could freeze some for now? Just the freezing might not to be too expensive. I don’t know if the nhs would do it under special circumstances like yours? Anything’s worth an ask I suppose?

I’ve just had a tight funny turn. Was cooking dinner and went all weak and felt like I was going to pass out. Had to have air, water and biscuits 😩 led me to have a panic attack. Think all this is really taking its toll and them ex work colleagues haven’t helped my stress today either. X

@2020wish best of luck with your scan tomorrow ❤️

@Lollol86 I've actually never plucked my own eyebrows and really wasn't willing to take the risk on my own #firstworldproblems 😂

@Rebecca1992 yes don't overthink it, just a healthy bean growing quick with a strong HB ❤️ you're really close to me as I'm 7w4 now x

@Northernsoul90 yeah I'm good thanks, 7w4, just trying to stay as positive as possible, this is exactly the date the pregnancy stopped progressing last time (even though I didn't find out until nearly 10w) so it's nerve wracking but staying grateful for how far I've come. Really hoping you end this long slog of a cycle with a BFP. I'm honestly so invested in you girls and hope this just ends up as a pregnancy thread x

@Pugprincess I don't know if it's up your street, but I find short meditation really good if my mind starts running away with me and I'm feeling overwhelmed. You've been through so much emotionally and physically it's not a surprise you've had a funny turn. Look after yourself and get an early night x

@2020wish excited for you to see your little bean tomorrow and hopefully another milestone passed xx

@Rebecca1992 that’s great news! Really pleased for you!
@2020wish good luck for your scan tmr xxx

@SmileyT I use to pluck mine and now when I look back at pictures I look like I had no eyebrows 🤣🤣 that definitely use to be the fashion right 🤣