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Who’s more likely 😟 Begging for a lil help!

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Gmum1 · 30/07/2020 23:44

I split with my boyfriend Oct 2019 I kept to my self until I had sex with guyA January 11th 2020. I got checked and was all in the clear and that was the first and last time I slept with him.Me and my boyfriend got back together Had sex January 29th 4th feb 18 feb 2020. But who’s more likely to be the dad? I’m 27 weeks 1 days pregnant Due date 28/10/2020 I had a bleed around 22nd January For 5 days (there was a period between them) I never questioned that period am but Am I overthinking ? And been para And its my bf baby this is making me ill!!
28 regular cycle bleed for 5 days
11th jan 2020 :man a
29 jan 20, 4th an 18 feb 20 :Boyfriend
I no it was a silly move but Iv learned my lessons xx

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Gmum1 · 30/07/2020 23:46

When around would I have conceived? Any other mums out there with similar due date that knows when they conceive? Please shine some light it’s appreciated x

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TheDaydreamBelievers · 30/07/2020 23:53

It's really v likely that your boyfriend is the dad.

Firstly because you had a period in between.

Secondly because a conception estimation calendar based on your due date says:

Most probable conception dates: Feb 3, 2020 - Feb 7, 2020
Most probable dates of sexual intercourse that led to the pregnancy: Jan 31, 2020 - Feb 7, 2020

Possible conception dates: Feb 2, 2020 - Feb 12, 2020
Possible dates of sexual intercourse that led to the pregnancy: Jan 28, 2020 - Feb 12, 2020

Gmum1 · 31/07/2020 06:41

Aww thanks for this reply!!! Much appreciated 🤗 Iv been so in my head about this and I really don’t wanna hurt the man I love. As he don’t no and at first I wasn’t even questioning it.Then all a sudden a lil voice In my mind was saying Are you sure! 🙄

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TheDaydreamBelievers · 31/07/2020 07:40

I understand it must be such a stressful thought @Gmum1 - but time to try to relax about it. You can always check with DNA after birth, but for now it's definitely v likely the baby is your boyfriend's

Gmum1 · 31/07/2020 09:18

I know i understand, thing is my boyfriend don’t no so was just hoping to not go down that road! If it was a situation we’re I HAD too say something based on the odds I definitely would of. But in saying that I went the other route and just kept on reassuring myself if the odds,if you get me... thanks though x

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Curiosity101 · 31/07/2020 14:49

I agree with @TheDaydreamBelievers

Plus if you double check the dates then with a 28 day cycle you'd expect ovulation to be day 14 or 16 which would have been 5th-7th Feb. Same as working your estimated due date backwards.

It all lines up that you weren't pregnant when you got back together with your boyfriend so realistically the other guy's swimmers would've had to have remained active for 14 or more days. It seems practically impossible.

Gmum1 · 31/07/2020 17:19

Bloody el didn’t look at it in this way guy a swimmers would have to stay alive at least 18 days and survive a period I’m not sure how long swimmers stay alive tho but I’m gathering not that long!

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