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BFPS after chemical?

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Wearewaiting · 29/07/2020 20:24

Hi everyone!
I’m just looking to see how many ladies got pregnant their first cycle after chemical/early miscarriage? I had one last month, was extremely sad but we decided to just carry on ttc as normal and I ovulated a week later then usual. Now I’m 11dpo and I swore I wouldn’t test early this month and well that’s gone to pot, this morning i caved and Im sure there was a faint line 🤷‍♀️ I’m leaving it a couple days before I test again, AF due Saturday but obviously I’m now panicking that the same may happen again if I am pregnant again that is! Any experiences to share about pregnancy after having a chemical? xxx

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Liveinthepresent · 29/07/2020 20:39

Hi OP - happened to me with DC2!

I remember when the chemical happened reading on here it was quite common to get a BFP the next cycle and lo and behold I did !
Hopefully you will hear other success stories.

Good luck and fingers crossed.

bananamonkey · 29/07/2020 20:42

Yes, I had an mmc then 3 chemicals in a row then my bfp, now asleep on my chest at 15 weeks old. Good luck op, I found the chemicals really messed with my head, I was stupid for testing early every time but I had symptoms about 10 dpo every time and couldn’t help it!

TJ17 · 29/07/2020 20:57

I had a chemical November 2016, normal AF December 2016, chemical January 2017 and finally a sticky BFP February 2017 so absolutely possible Smile

They are a horrible thing to go through but nothing to stop you conceiving again very soon!

Wishing you all the best and throwing lots of baby dust your way Thanks

Spinksy9 · 30/07/2020 07:50

I had a chemical last month. Got my BFP yesterday on a frer. I'm driving myself mad as I'm worried I'm going to have another chemical. One positive im looking at, is i have more symptoms this time! Fingers crossed you are also lucky this month xx

Wearewaiting · 30/07/2020 16:39

@Liveinthepresent thank you and sorry you’ve had to go through one as well, we are also trying for DC2, it’s been 19 months this cycle but it’s so lovely to hear you got your BFP the next cycle! xx

@bananamonkey so sorry you’ve been through all of them, it’s so heartbreaking but so happy to hear you had your long awaited BFP! I’m the same, promised myself not too test and i got up in the morning yesterday and grabbed one and went to pee, it was like natural instinct! xx

@TJ17 thank you and sorry to hear you have also been through them, it’s so sad so many ladies have had to go through these because they are so heartbreaking, So happy to hear you got your BFP though after, amazing! xx

@Spinksy9 so sorry you had one last month as well! But big congratulations on the BFP, that’s amazing, but I know exactly how you feel, I’m beyond terrified, I’ve had back ache today and because I had that last month I keep saying to myself oh no it’s happening! I’m knicker checking the lot! Wishing you a sticky bean and a happy and healthy 9 months xx

Thank you all for sharing your experiences! I caved again this afternoon, I swear I need help lol I managed to not do one this morning but this afternoon I’ve done a poundshop test and this ones defo a faint line, there’s no question so I just really hope it gets darker and we get that BFP!
I’ll attach a pic xx

BFPS after chemical?
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Spinksy9 · 30/07/2020 16:50

@Wearewaiting thank you!
Hope all goes well with you too!
Its hard not to test isnt it!!

2020mission · 30/07/2020 18:05

@Wearewaiting not me... I had a chemical on my first month trying and 5 cycles on and still not had any success, so from my experience it doesn't make you more fertile on the next cycle.

Nls90x · 30/07/2020 18:18

@Wearewaiting I also had a chemical last month and we have continued ttc my cycle is seeming to be longer this month I'm usually around 24 days I'm now day 25. Tested and neg it seems the chemical has made my cycle longer

TJ17 · 30/07/2020 19:04

@Wearewaiting oh wow that's definitely a BFP!

I have everything crossed for you. It's such a nerve wracking time after a chemical but hopefully that line will get stronger and you can feel more at ease 🤞🏻SmileThanks

TJ17 · 30/07/2020 19:04

I think that's a pretty clear line for an afternoon wee too! That's gotta be a good sign 🤗

Wearewaiting · 09/08/2020 21:41

Sorry for late reply as haven’t been on! Thanks again everyone for sharing all your experiences! I have had my BFP confirmed through clear blue digital, and due 10th April 2021, just hoping it’s sticky! Baby dust to everyone trying, hope you get that BFP and thank you all again! ❤️

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TJ17 · 09/08/2020 22:01

Oh congrats @Wearewaiting that's lovely to hear!

Wishing you the best of luck for your pregnancy 🥰🥰🥰

Wearewaiting · 09/08/2020 22:07

@TJ17 thanks so much, really appreciate it😘 scary but yet exciting times ahead xxx

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Minnie296 · 10/08/2020 21:07

@Wearewaiting amazing news congratulations 💗🎉 xx

Welliedays · 10/08/2020 21:22

I had a chemical last month and really hoping for a sticky one this month.. But I don't want to get my hopes up! Congratulations @wearewaiting

Wearewaiting · 11/08/2020 08:22

@Minnie296 thanks very much 😘
@Welliedays thank you and I really wish you all the best this month for a sticky BFP 😘

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