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11DPO BFP & Seeking Positivity 🌞

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Herbys · 20/07/2020 10:52

This morning I got a BFP on an IC, which I am a little in shock over as it is 25miu! I had taken a FRER on 8 & 9DPO and I thought I was seeing things, clearly not!

This is a bit random, as I half want to give reassurance / tell people what I experienced as I was searching on Mumsnet so much for these stories, but also after some positivity!

Firstly from my side! Last month when I got a BFN I was symptom spotting like mad, weeing a lot and felt tired, but then AF came. It was a weird long AF which I never have, but it was there nonetheless.

This month I have tried to be more chilled, stay away from MN for the most part as I'm a sucker for becoming obsessive.

On Wednesday last week I had a nice evening G&T, but it actually tasted like soap, I thought the glass had residue in it, drank it anyway (🤷‍♀️). Then Friday I was in the shower and noticed my nipples had loads of white bumps on (not the areola), back on MN for some searching! Tried another sip of Gin - still soap.

Took a test on Saturday and thought I saw a squinter, messing around with the filters there was a mark - not a line? (I've attached!) Then Sunday another one. Neither were FMU as I was trying so hard not to test! The Sunday (9DPO) one I was convinced had a line, but just couldn't be sure.

This morning I caved again, and with FMU took an IC to not end up (literally) pissing my money away with FRERs, and BOOM! I still don't believe it!

So I hope this helps those symptom spotters out there, or just the curiosity like I was!

But I have been on MN far too long, and read so much about chemicals, early loss, MMC and the like. I know women must get BFPs early that then stay sticky little beans, but I am really scared that it won't last until AF is due on Friday - I don't want to tell my husband now and then him get upset because I have tested too soon!

Do you have any reassurance and positive stories to share? Is having a strong 25miu this early normal?

(Sorry this wasn't meant to be so long! But I hope it is helpful!)

11DPO BFP & Seeking Positivity 🌞
11DPO BFP & Seeking Positivity 🌞
11DPO BFP & Seeking Positivity 🌞
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Juno231 · 20/07/2020 11:01

Oh woop! I can see the lines in both the 8dpo and 9dpo tests too - suggesting you had early implantation. That's really good, the earlier the higher the chances of a sticky bean! Having a nice strong line at 11dpo also makes me think you've got a keeper in there.

You can hold off telling OH but if you do have a CP before Friday you'll need his support anyway so I would just go ahead and tell him if I were you? Best of luck to you, but I'm really positive for you!

Herbys · 20/07/2020 16:13

@Juno231 thank you! I am going to try and remain positive and hope that helps ☺️ I do need to work out how to tell the husband - it seems such big news that I wouldn't know when to tell him!

Maybe I'll just chuck a positive pregnancy test at him and let him work it out 😂

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