TTC after MC - July 2020 (Thread 7)

[VP91x]

Hey ladies,
I'm missing loads of testing days, so just let me know your updated days if you have one and I'll make a note xx

BFP list❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@ManchNic
@Niisa

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@fafi- 17th July
@2020wish- 17th July
@fafi- 18th July
@HE88- 19th July
@Rainbowhope11- 20th July
@GraceG26- 20th July
@HopeForRainbowbaby- 21st July
@Renna- 22nd July (?)
@Diorissimo1985- 26th July
@VP91x- 26th July
@Rb486- 30th July
@Wishingfornumber2- August?
@Northernsoul90- not testing
@Sallyjo27
@bxiiboo
@Pugprincess
@Jazper
@elliew818
@AC2020
@Eli2020
@littletandme
@MichT4
@Banbi
@busby85
@Re6ecc4
@Bellabubble
@Chickoletta
@Lollol86
@Firevie
@Sjk89
@Emsnewmum
@stayinghopeful92x
@chloedancer897
@Lollol86
@MrsK21
@Rebecca1992

Update from me CD20, 3DPO (I think) 🥰.. Nothing going on at the moment, will wait impatiently for the next week xx

@MichT4 it could also be a triphasic chart?

@VP91x well done for not testing. More willpower than me

@MichT4 ooh those temps do look high to be pre-ovulation 🤔 is it about 3weeks since you started spotting? Are your opks light now? Could be right for ovulation but you're right try not to stress about it because it probably won't be clear for another few weeks xx

@VP91x yay to high temps it's literally a mirror of my temps 🤞 ... I did my test 8 days after my 2nd dip and it was a pretty clear line so I reckon 4 days later you'll definitely see a line 🥳 yeah just walking up from Oxford Circus, basically have to walk past the clinic my MC was discovered but definitely doesn't feel as raw as the 1st time I saw it x

@2020wish I guess it could be. Just going to have to see over the next few nights. I'll be delighted if I've ovulated already, although it will have taken me by surprise so hope we have done enough!

How are you? x

@SmileyT it's 18 days since the spotting started. I haven't done an OPK today, and I've just had a drink so I'll have to pee then hold again if I'm going to do one today.
You're right, I'll just keep DTD when we want to just in case, I'll probably do the occasional OPK but no stress, and Ava will continue to give me some clues

How are you? I'm jealous you're in Oxford Circus. I love London, wish I could go more. I sometimes just go there and work from a variety of coffee shops, just because I like the vibe xx

@VP91x Well done for not testing! 🥳

@MichT4 Really hoping it was ovulation for you 🤞🏼 it was a strong peak on the test!

I got my second flashy this morning. I also dipped another 2 one step pregnancy tests in and I can just see the faintest bit of a line still - I think anyone else looking would say stark negative but when you've stared at so many I think our eyes pick them out more easily 😂 Do one steps have evap lines does anyone know? Should I just stop doing the pregnancy tests at this point? I just get paranoid that I don't want to confuse hormones between a new pregnancy and mc. I've tried to take a pic but nothing shows on pictures it just looks negative

@MichT4 hoping u have ovulated also and in ur tww!

I’m good. Feeling very positive. Af due between today and fri depending on the app so will still be nervous until she’s officially late. Poas every morning on cheap tests just to make sure there is progression so it’s keeping me sane. Lines are getting stronger every day. Where as they were never this strong or even showing up before. think I’m 13/14dpo today here is my line progression on pinks from 9dpo as they were negative from 7dpo when I got the positive on the clear blue. The blue sticks are the less sensitive ones that require 25/50 mui I believe, only started them 4 days ago so line progression is good on them also.

@SmileyT glad you were ok today walking past the clinic xx

Lovely progression @2020wish. I don't think you have to worry about AF arriving xx

@Northernsoul90 it could be indents on the tests? I would stop now since a camera isn’t picking it up and u are getting ur flashy smiley. Maybe take another pregnancy test after u have ovulated so I know what ur baseline is before u start testing around 10/12dpo x

@MichT4 in my head I know I shouldn’t but in may with the chemical I had I just know it can change so fast. In may I had clear blue positive digital tests at 11dpo and turn neg by 13dpo so once I get over this hurdle, then 7 weeks hurdle I’ll feel more relaxed as I’ve bypassed my two previous losses x

I totally understand @2020wish. It'll always be an anxious time getting past those dates. I really hope it goes quickly for you, I have everything crossed it'll all be ok this time round xx

@MichT4 how r u today x

Lovely line progression @2020wish totally understand your feelings though. I have everything crossed for you that all I well and healthy xx

Thank you , that's a good idea. I think I'm going to drive myself insane if I don't draw the line under testing at some point! Hopefully it is just evap line anyway. I've attached a pic of the tests but I don't think anything can really be seen on pics.

@Northernsoul90 not seeing anything! Deffo put them done as negatives as it could be indents ur seeing. X

@2020wish I'm fine thank you. Obviously would love to know exactly what is going on, but asking too much 😂. Just have to wait and see.
Working at home today again, and another beautiful day it looks like.
Much planned for you today?

@Northernsoul90 I agree best to stop testing, you'll drive yourself mad trying to study the lines. Are you going to take a normal OPK later?

@2020wish honestly the only reason I didn't was because I had 30 seconds of resolve and just peed really quickly so I couldn't 😂🙈. Your lines look lovely and strong AF definitely isn't arriving 🥳xx

@SmileyT oh 8 days after your second dip 😩 I need to get my shit together and just not test, haha. I'm glad you felt alot better this time walking past the clinic, especially now you have little bean❤️❤️

@MichT4 definitely do whatever is going to cause you the least stress. Your AVA will pick up any further signs and if you're having sex regularly then, you'll be covered regardless. Fingers crossed 🤞

@Northernsoul90 yeah I would say stop doing the tests. They look negative in that picture so, that's a good thing. Once your cheapies go darker then you can try dipping a CB into it to see if it goes static. I've always only got mine in the evening xx

@MichT4 I would honestly stop testing and just DTD. May help u de stress a bit as stressing can mess everything up. Honestly I felt so relaxed this cycle and it’s worked.

@VP91x I still want u to test tho lol only cause I can’t help myself, but yes ur more likely to get get bfn over a BFP the earlier u test

@2020wish @MichT4 @VP91x Thanks ladies, I will stop now! It's probably an indent as you say or the tail end of very low levels which wouldn't really be classed as anything. @SmileyT has told me about baseline hcg levels as well which could be a possibility.

Yes @MichT4 I'm going to do a cheapy in a little while - how long do you not drink/pee for before you test? I was trying to wait 2 hours but some say 4?!

@VP91x I am the worst person for POAS (as you've probably gathered from all the one steps 🙈) and kind of secretly want you to test but definitely stick to your plan and wait for Saturday it's just more limbo and stress if not xx

@Northernsoul90 I think I've read 4 hours, and that's what I try and do, but I sometimes just do 3 or whatever I can, especially if I haven't drunk anything.

@2020wish @VP91x I think you're right and I'll stop testing. I might sneak one in occasionally if I've managed to hold, but I'm not going to drink less etc to do them.
Will DTD today anyway, so probably no point. Maybe every other day would do just to make sure there's no second peak, or start them again if my temps were to drop.

@2020wish @Northernsoul90 haha yeah, I'm really going to try and hold out. I can do this 💪🏼

@MichT4 that sounds like a good plan xx

@VP91x you can do this, but also we really want to know....😂
I've got such good feelings for this month, I hope you're feeling that too! xx

Morning ladies, little update from me, my preg test this morn us still really faint but not showing up on camera so it’s got to be going. That’s on my 10 ones so I think tomorrow using hospital 25 one that should be neg so hopefully I don’t need to ring them and this last little bit of hcg will pee off soon. In day 14 today and I would usually ovulate around now but no signs of that. I’m wondering if some of our bodies start their cycle day one from after negative preg tests. I think I might be in for a long wait like you guys @Northernsoul90 and @MrsK21 x

My chin, my back, my arms, my forehead, everything so spotty so just shows how hormonal I am atm. I’m going food shopping for some more healthy dinners in a bit and I’m just going to wear my mask to cover my chin up 😂

Last nights slow cooked beef casserole and giant homemade Yorkshire ❤️

@MichT4 I was, but I've just had a bit more spotting and it was fresh blood as opposed to the pinky stuff from the othet night. Maybe AF is on her way super early 😩 xx