TTC after MC - July 2020 (Part 5)

[VP91x]

Hey lovelies 🥰🥰

So nice to have more names on the BFP list ❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@MichT4
@Ejb86

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@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@NightDreaming
@Renna
@Jazper
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@chloedancer897
@Bellabubble
@Wishingfornumber2
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@busby85
@Northernsoul90
@Lollol86
@calimommy
@Quail15
@littletandme
@Rebecca1992
@Sophj19
@fafi
@Re6ecc4
@Rb486
@Girlmum83

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

@VP91x yeah they called and I’m going at 9am tomorrow. Have to go on my own. They said they’d scan me but I asked if they’d do anything else as I doubt they’d see anything now anyway. Hoping they take blood too xx

@MichT4 ah great news! they'd be able to see a yolk sac at least (I think that's the right terminology) I would think xxx

@VP91x oh that’s not so bad then. Just want some answers, although appreciate they might be after a second blood test.

I tell you what, if this turns out to be ok, I need you to virtually slap me every time I worry. It doesn’t help at all. Just hope it’s all an unnecessary trip (aside from reassurance) Xx

@SmileyT ....thanks! 😊 I've a feeling about this month 🤞

That's good you have your appointment tomorrow @MichT4 keeping everything crossed for you xx

Fingers crossed for you @Rebecca1992. When do you think you’ll test? xx

Thank you @HE88. How are you doing? xx

@MichT4 I'm doing fine thanks patiently waiting in my tww no idea how many dpo I am but I'm feeling really good about not knowing. Xx

Hi @MichT4 I'm glad they're seeing you tomorrow. Fingers toes and eyes crossed it goes well tomorrow 🤞🏽hope you have something nice planned this evening to distract you. Has the spotting been back at all? X

@HE88 I imagine that is quite a nice feeling. Got any signs of anything so far?

@MrsK21 yes it has come back today after the dull ache thing this morning. It was more than I was happy with earlier but it’s calmed down again now.

I know it’s probably stupid but I’m tempted to take a test before I go tomorrow, but I don’t really know the point. Esp as I was thinking another cheapie to see if it’s darker, but I don’t have much faith in them now

I think they’ll do a test, they did last time and didn’t bother scanning me when it came back negative 😢😢 too many memories xx

@MichT4 no symptoms really although I had a bit of a sore head before bed last night and then woke this morning with it still sore and I've been feeling a bit sick today which I've never really had before in my tww but I'm not reading into it too much! Xx

@MichT4 regardless of what their tests say, make sure they scan you. They never tested me before scanning me, interesting how they all work differently. Take your digi test with you. Don't feel silly for being so anxious though, please. I would be exactly the same!! xx

@VP91x yeah you’re right. I’m hoping as the test was positive this morning that it will be tomorrow too, if they do one.
Do you think I should take my own in the morning? xx

@MichT4 I'd take a digi if you do it, or a proper stick one instead of a cheapie just in case. But, I always go into situs like this ready to defend myself because sometimes you get fobbed off when you know something is up xx

@VP91x yeah I guess. I did tell them I’d done one today and it was positive. I might do one in the morning, could either do the digi without the weeks, or the cb line one like I did last week.

Your OPKs look promising by the way. I don’t reckon that’s far off at all 🤞🏼

@MichT4 hopefully they don't cause too much fuss, will be virtually holding your hand tomorrow morning xx

Thank you @VP91x. And I, yours. Here for you tomorrow too lovely 💕💕 xx

@VP91x it's crazy how that easy at home one looks so much brighter can't work out if I like them more than femometer ones... I was thinking about switching all my apps to pregnancy mode as I'm going for this blindly positive attitude 🙈

Ahh really hope you get your BFP @Rebecca1992 🙏 will you test in the morning? x

@MichT4 my EPU also did a test before scanning me last time, and I don't think it's stupid to do a test but I'd do the one you did last time, so you can compare tests over a week rather than over 1 day (like I did today). I'm sure you've said but how far along were you last time? Hope you know that we are all behind you, but I've got a feeling everything is going to be fine x

@SmileyT yes change the apps! All about the positivity (don’t mind me!), enjoy it! That’s what I was trying to do before I was greeted with hurdles!

And thank you, I hope you’re right and all is a-ok in there. I know it might get me ahead of the game, just so worried it’s not darker than last week. I’m torn whether to do one or not. I could always take the digi I did last Saturday (did I confess to that?) that said pregnant, If it’s still on there, so if they challenge me I can say I’ve taken that that morning. Scheming 😂

I was almost 7 weeks last time xx

@SmileyT yes definitely change it to pregnancy mode! P. M. A all the way 🥳🥳

I know yeah, I think they get darker because the strip is thicker so can hold more dye.

@MichT4 thank you 🥰🥰 love how you casually drop in the digi you done. See how you feel in the morning, if you don't fancy it then, you've done a few already anyway Xx

@VP91x I thought I’d say, but then I also think that was wildly different to my plan to wait a week so I was probably a secret tester. It still says pregnant so I’ll see how I feel in the morning, if not I can take that with me.

Hope to be joining in the PMA very soon 🤞🏼 Xx

I meant I thought I’d said....

@MichT4 @SmileyT

I am trying so hard to hold off until at least Sunday (10dpo) to test, I wish I could hold off until AF is supposed to arrive but I have zero patience especially now that I'm symptom spotting!! I've had more CM the past 2 days that I usually don't get and a full tummy feeling since yesterday but again I drive myself mad so who knows if its anything really or whether I'm just on high alert for any symptoms!!

On my other 2 girls (7&3) I never tested early or done OPKs until I had a very early MC last month, i feel like I'm way over anxious now.

@Rebecca1992 I am literally amazed at what a MC does to us. So many girls here, including me, weren’t doing a think pre falling before, wasn’t tracking or thinking about it at all. I can’t believe the impact of a MC, it makes it all feel so much more stressful and I really wish there was something done for people suffering losses to try and manage that a bit.
No suggestions as to what, but the mental affects are something else.

Just a random little outburst there, just think it’s sad the innocence gets taken and suddenly everything seems magnified.

Excited to see your results on Sunday, or earlier/later if you choose xx

Hey ladies, sorry to jump on your thread. This is my first time posting on here so not sure whether I'm doing this right!?😂

I've tried to read as many of your stories as possible and can totally relate to some of you. I had an early miscarriage on the 22nd of May. I've not had a period since then so tested last week and had a BFP. I have no idea how far along I would be but I'm worried my pregnancy tests aren't coming up dark enough. The only symptom I have at the minute is really sore boobs. I'm such a worrier! I've literally tested like 7 times 🙈

Sending you all positive vibes! 🥰💛 xx