TTC after MC - July 2020 (Part 5)

[VP91x]

Hey lovelies 🥰🥰

So nice to have more names on the BFP list ❤️

@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@MichT4
@Ejb86

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@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@NightDreaming
@Renna
@Jazper
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@chloedancer897
@Bellabubble
@Wishingfornumber2
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@busby85
@Northernsoul90
@Lollol86
@calimommy
@Quail15
@littletandme
@Rebecca1992
@Sophj19
@fafi
@Re6ecc4
@Rb486
@Girlmum83

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

@Rb486 when did you start testing? Hopefully they go flashy soon for you, although some of the ladies on here have gone straight to static from blank 🤷 how long are your cycles normally. Xx

@MichT4 I really think that test earlier looked really strong especially for a cheapie as well xxx

@VP91x I hope so, but the spotting is back 😢

I think I just need to let go of the anxiety and let it happen xx

@VP91x i really wouldn’t know- I came off the pill in October, the cycles I had were 40 then 37 days. I found out I was pregnant in feb and had a mmc in April. Had two lots of tablets to remove tissue. Had my first period since m/c 30th June. So I’m not sure what they will be like- they were getting closer together before falling pregnant. I started testing on CD8 with the clear blue so only used three tests with my first morning urine. So I’m just winging it atm. Hoping to see something soon maybe.

@MichT4 yes that line looked very good. So don’t feel guilty about testing. No judgement made here, we’re all as guilty as each other! Lol.

Xx

Little update. I called the EPU and had a little cry. She was brilliant and said they will see me but only accepting GP referrals at the mo. So I had to bite the bullet and call my shit doctor. Waiting for them to call back.
I just need to know what’s going xx

@VP91x yes please do, I have no idea about most things but a lot about mortgages 🙈 glad there is no hangover, I'm at the hairdressers and literally can't keep my eyes open, must stop getting up so early 😴

@Mommybear05 thank you so much you lovely soul ❤️ I really hope you get your BFP soon and your 31st year is the best one yet x

@MichT4 mine feels like I need a shit or my tampon is full id say 🤔 it's really hard to describe but pressure down there, I don't normally get any physical symptoms before AF but I'd imagine it feels like this. What did the EPU say they could do after the referral? Bloods? I would've thought 4weeks is too early for an ultrasound. Glad they were so kind to you and hopefully it helps settle your mind x

@MichT4 make sure they refer you, don't take no for an answer. Sending you so much love ❤️

@SmileyT you're going to look so fab after your hair appt 💁💁 I'm in IKEA again, my partner tried to clean Bella's table with elbow grease and bloody ruined it she uses it all the time so had to come and replace it. Xx

@Rb486 ahh okay so you've maybe got a longer cycle. It will get there soon!! They've driven me mad for months so I feel your frustration xx

@SmileyT I felt like I needed a poo too, that's why I spent half the morning on the loo because it relieved it. It was uncomfortable though, and the fact the spotting has come back since isn't helping my anxiety.
They said they could assess me, and do a scan (I imagine at some point - 5 weeks tomorrow so they might offer it later). I imagine they will take my bloods too.
I'm so worried, but I just want to know what's happening.

Enjoy your hair appointment xx

@VP91x I won't, though they haven't even called yet. They are so awful, I was expecting hassle when the EPU said it had to come from them.

Enjoy Ikea - I bet you sabotaged the cleaning so you get to go back - good work! xx

I'm sorry for being so negative, I just feel so sad that this is what it's like now - I just want to be happy and excited and I don't understand why these things keep happening. I hope so much everything is OK 🤞🤞🤞🤞

@MichT4 if they haven't called you back in half hour call again and say you're in pain and need to be seen so need a doctor ASAP. Honestly, some GPs are so horrific xx

@MichT4 no idea what he done to it!! He stained it all yellow 🤷🤷🤷 xx

@SmileyT I’m in the hairdressers too. What a treat after all this time. I’m also falling asleep, I did a night shift last night and didn’t sleep before my appointment. I’m well and truly ready to jump into bed when I get home 😄

@MichT4 that is really nice they were so accommodating. Hopefully you can be seen ASAP. Let us know what happens, sending lots of love to you x

@MichT4 hope the gp calls you back ASAP and you get to see someone at EPU, sending you love xx

@VP91x are you going to get her the exact same table? At least she is at nursery so you can get in and out. And yes I feel so fresh with my hair and brows done (although I'm pretty sure it's a little illegal 👀)

@MichT4 oh babe I really feel for you, do whatever will make you feel better and they should be able to do at least the bloods straight away so that you have peace of mind. Did you take the other test to compare to last weeks line? I agree definitely give the GPs a call if you don't hear back soon. Sending you so much love xx

@Rb486 no night shift tonight I hope? Yes such a treat isn't it, I always get so relaxed I want to nap here xx

@SmileyT yeah I got her the exact same one, and some extra bits, haha! Oh so fab. Im dying to get my brows laminated. Glad you had a nice treat! 🥰 You can get home and comfy now. I've got a hair appt for the 15th xx

Ladies, please STOP me!!⚠️ Currently 7dpo and had a full day of a heavy pulling type of feeling in my belly yesterday....I keep telling myself it's too early to even contemplate testing but my mind wonders....😓

So I’m currently taking vitamin d and folic acid, I’ve seen some of you ladies comment about coq10 and calc Fluor, would someone be able to explain to me, why you take them, when to take them and how often please?

@MichT4 thinking of you and have got everything crossed that all is well lovely xx

@micht4 you're not being negative at all dont worry about how you're coming across! Honestly this is a stressful time and everyone here appreciates that. We've been in this situation and totally get the anxiety you must be feeling so please don't apologise for your feelings.

I really hope the GP calls you back soon, though if they're as shit as mine you're better off calling them yourself ASAP as they're probably not treating it as urgent x

Let us know how you get on @MichT4 some GPs are just useless! Definitely call back as @VP91x says if you have no joy. Hoping that all is well and sending hugs xxx

Thank you for you lovely wishes. I did call, and spoke to a moron of a receptionist. Doctor called just now and first tried to say they wouldn’t see me until 7 weeks. I explained about the last miscarriage and he’s referring me now.
Think it plays in my favour I have mega long cycles as when I say 5 weeks, he’s probably thinking I’m stupid and over 6 weeks. Every cloud xx

@Lollol86 I took coq10 throughout the whole cycle as it helps with egg quality, DP also took it as it helps with sperm quality and calc flour is supposed to help with implantation in the TWW but I took it throughout my cycle as it has some other benefits. There is a YouTube video about implantation from Inge fleur which is where I got my recommendations x

@Rebecca1992 ideally wait at least a couple more days so that you know you will get an accurate result but if you do test there is no judgement here ☺️

@MichT4 glad they have referred you 🙏

Glad they have referred you @MichT4 🤞🏼🙏🏼

Thanks @SmileyT and @Northernsoul90. I’m in tomorrow at 9am xx

@MichT4 so so glad they have referred you, do the EPU contact you now? Some doctors have no empathy sometimes they become so clinical they forget there's someone distressed at the other end of the phone. Xx

@SmileyT just done a little OPK comparison as my easy one was definitely darker than it has been. Imagine if I ovulate by d14!! I'd become an ambassador for soy iso 😂 xx