More Afternoon Delight (Bus 9)

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Here we go again you wonderful ladies - entry requirements are a suggestion for 'sex position of the day' 😉

20 BFPs so far in June how many more will we get!?

@egg2020 - June 24th
@marshmallow123 - June 26th
@stabal - June 26th
@madz27 - June 27th
@skip86 - June 28th
@missgoldilocks - June 28th
@newbie0818 - June 30th
@vp91x - June 30th
@lucyrp - July 1st
@sweetdreams92 - July 1st
@sausage1990 - July 1st
@busybee143 - July 1st
@lucie91 - July 2nd
@minster2012 - July 3rd
@dipsy77 -July 3rd
@dkdk123 - July 4th
@katao - July 4th
@amy00 - July 5th
@ltay2 - July 5th
@notyetamumbuttrying - July 5th
@vil10 - July 6th
@franklydear - July 6th
@justmouse - July 7th
@blodyn91 - July 7th
@cocoblue22 - July 7th
@watermelonwizard - July 7th
@smileyT - July 8th
@jazper - July 8th
@littleRa - July 10th
@clairey844 - July 10th
@2020mission - July 15th
@DB20 - July 17th
@mococo1 - July 20th
@sarahttc2020 - July 21st
@lv1987 - July 24th

Anyone missing just let me know your next testing date xx

@Minster2012 I'm the same, it's my birthday on Friday (36) and hubby's been asking me all month what I want and I've had no clue. If we weren't still in covid times I'd probably have said something like a wee night away just the two of us/ meal at a nice restaurant/Spa day or some kind of experience thing rather than physical gift but thats out the picture just now so I've no idea what I want. Might just get him to give me an IOU for when normality returns!

Think I'm out this month feel mega crampy, want to stuff my face, general PMT and my temp has dropped the past 2 days in a row so think its safe to say AF is on her way in the next day or 2. I dont even know when its due, I've 3 apps all predicting AF between 2-7days but with the mega munchies im predicting it's closer to 2! Anyone else eat their body weight in crap the days before AF, its like whats the point in even trying to diet the rest of the month as it gets totally blown and all the good work undone in the space of 2 days 🙈

Aw @Newbie0818 sorry to hear that

I have had a weird stabbing pain in my left side kind of in hip/leg crease this morning, it's happened about 5 times so far. So strange. I honestly feel I am out this month with my random bits of spotting and AF like cramps but then something like this happens and throws me off 🙈

@cocoblue22 all pregnancies are different though, ask @skip86 I'm sure she said totally different for this BFP to others 🤞🏻

@2alreadywamtanother yeah to big party, should be ok by then 🤔but definitely on the bedroom, get him working! And totally get you on seeing others would make you want to POAS

@Franklydear ha yes, I usually fix to a certain point but this one I'm on about I had fixed so many times then it ended up with a massive I don't know how awful grease stain ALL up one sleeve so I threw it out...now total regrets as it went with everything & was THE BEST "chuck on stylish layer" & not been able to find a replacement since 😖😫, how many days dpo are you? Are you joining in the super weekend?

@notyetamumbuttrying we've got builders next door but they didn't say to me "minster?!!" This morning & they built this house so know who I am 😂wouldn't that be so funny! I only have a brother, doesn't weird me out at all 🥰

@DKDK123 yes I'm 36 too in a week or so & we usually do the same, go to a cottage or something. I do want a meal out- such a luxury 🥳hopefully can do, & a night on our own? DS at grandparents maybe?? But that's it (unless I can find a flipping cardigan!)

Should I be concerned that my LP isn't the same length each cycle? I hadn't thought about it before but FF has raised it as something unusual...

@Minster2012 ooh DS at grandparents for the weekend would be a fab birthday pressy, a break from mum duties and a long lie, bliss. It does make me laugh tho trying so hard for number 2 but at the same time can't wait for a break from the one I've got at times 🙈

@Juno231 how much does it vary by? How long have you been tracking Ovulation? If uts by a few days I don't think its anything to worry about 😊 I had a crap sleep last night and temp dropped to 36.52 😬 Early bed tonight! 😂

@blodyn91 I just had a look and my LP has been as follows:

Jan - 13 days
Feb - 11 days
Mar - 14 days
April - 12 days
May - 12 days
June - 12 days

So actually maybe it's regulated itself in the last 3 cycles? If it's a 12 day LP this cycle I'll be happy not to worry about it :) Thanks for inspiring me to look properly!

@notyetamumbuttrying whoop! Ya I couldn't feel less pregnant! But haviing a load of us testing around the same time makes me feel positive in general that some of ushave to be the luck ones 😃
@Franklydear where are you at, what dpo? When do you pkan to test? Sorry the beginning of July is so busy I keep losing track of people.

Ok phew 😅 @Minster2012 don't you just love weird dreams 😂
Aren't our bodies just the best...not! 😝@Ltay2 hate when they do stuff to throw us off and get us even more confused!
Hope it's stays the same this cycle @Juno231 it's good to have a bit of consistency in this ttc game! 👍🏾

Yeah I know what you mean @Katao. I'm getting very impatient for mine now. 10 long months of nothingness lol! How long have you been ttc?

Well work is fun ... I've come in just to move some stuff from one side of the room tk the other so the electrician can acces some light fittings on the ceiling then I have to over see someone cleaning the windows then I can go home 🤣😅

Can't help feeling like I'm out this time, literally DTD once, 20 hours after a positive opk... DH has said a few times 'lets just have sex every couple of days' but it's all talk and no action 🙈 doesn't help that I ovd 10 days earlier than I expected to so didn't manage to get any in before. Next cycle I will be more firm I think

@minster2012. Af due Sunday, I think 8 dpo, possibly 9, it has been regular the last few cycles, probably test Saturday or Sunday, but I have a bad feeling so rather wait

@lucyrp hardly seems worth showing up for, it'll easeyou back in at least.
@Franklydear another negative Nelly testing this weekend so, we are not a hopeful bunch 😂
@notyetamumbuttrying cycle 3 for me so not too bad but #1 took a year so I definitely understand how uou are feeling.

@DKDK123 I think lockdown has somewhat meant we all need a break away from toddlers 🙈🤣& time with just OHs can only help TTC no?! 💕🙌🏻

@juno231 if it's only a couple of days then nothing to worry about I think especially with corona which has had major impact on some ppl & cycles

@Blodyn91 my sleep has been terrible the last few nights I'm hoping for good sleep tonight, I'm blaming the change in weather 😟

@Notyetamumbuttrying I rarely remember my dreams so it's nice to feature in someone else's- did I look hot?!! (Please just say yes 😍🙌🏻)

@katao least that way it's putting you off testing but it still means nothing so don't worry

@Lucyrp yay for coming home! 🙌🏻

@SarahTTC2020 not out lovely and you can def be more in control next time if that's the way you feel especially if he's said that

@Franklydear are you going to test in advance?

@Juno231 Your LP is spot on! Very consistent. 1 less thing to stress and worry about 😁This is my first cycle tracking so got nothing to compare with, just happy I have ovulated atm

@Katao I so hope we are all wrong, after all this time I have difficulty thinking this is the month... doesn't stop me from trying though

@Minster2012, I don't want to test in advance, I prefer to see af than a bfn, but maybe on the weekend

What does lp mean?
So my ic test arrived and opk for next month as I'm not expecting things to happen that fast.
Made plans for Sunday night with my friend so that will stop the urge until next wk at least.

@Katao it was at least nice to get out of the house. Tomorrow will be different as the person I'm working with will no doubt bark orders all day😅

@Minster2012 hopefully going to pick up a toasty and a coffee to take away with a friend after 😃

@2alreadywantanother luteal phase. So the the time between ovulation and your period .
@Franklydear I'm sure some of us are unnecessarily negative, odds are there will be at least one bfp this weekend. I'm not actually feeling negative though I just feel like there is anything going on so not anticipating a bfp. But who knows 🤞

@Ltay2 I know what you mean! Sometimes you just want that definite answer don't you!! I'll have everything crossed for you!!x

@Katao yep Saturday for me but I'm not holding out much hope!

@SmileyT @Newbie0818 you're not out yet🤞🏼

@lucyrp yayyy for early finish!!

So I think I'm out already, the sore boobs have eased a lot today so think progesterone has dropped from the peak but I thought if I was pregnant maybe it would stay high and my boobs would still be as sore? Or maybe I'm just over thinking, but I jusr don't feel positive at all, even though we got all the days and DTD the 2 days before and day of ov as well and seed cycling and ass juice! Annoying when you know you've done everything you can but don't feel positive!!

Hello ladies! CD13 for me today, been quite crampy since yesterday so though oh hey, hold up! Maybe I'm going to ovulate at a more normal point in my cycle this month! Just did an OPK and it's stark white, so that's that out the window and on a traipse with another 6 days left until FW starts 😴

@Vil10 Oh I know that feeling, so gutting when you feel you're out but then there's nothing you can actually do but test or wait for AF and then feel EVEN MORE gutted when it's confirmed 🙄 I'm trying to add one more thing each cycle to keep positive, I think I'll try evening primrose oil next time although knowing my luck I'll be a year in, still no BFP but taking 8384702 tablets 😂