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Week late, BFN... UGH

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ImAwfulWithUsernames · 19/06/2020 07:46

At this point I'd rather just get my period so I can move on and treat myself to some wine tonight but no Sad anyone else in the same boat right now ?

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Lougrace · 19/06/2020 08:36

I’m in the same boat! I was due on Monday and five days later still nothing. I’ve done 2 FRER tests during the week and both BFN! So frustrating because my periods are always like clockwork so I don’t know what’s going on. Anyone got any success stories similar to this?

ImAwfulWithUsernames · 19/06/2020 09:04

@Lougrace so annoying isn't it!! I've done 4 tests in 7 days, 1 being this morning with my first wee... not even a faint line! I've been a couple days late before but never a whole 7 days?! Yes any success stories welcome please because I'm about to give up, a year TTC and this is just torture being this late with BFN Sad

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Lougrace · 19/06/2020 09:11

@ImAwfulWithUsernames I totally get you! I was due on Monday so technically 5 days for me but I can’t stop testing, it’s awful and drives me nuts seeing a negative. I’m going to resist until Sunday now. I hope something happens for you soon x

ImAwfulWithUsernames · 19/06/2020 09:20

@Lougrace good luck to you too, please update me with what happens! We can be in this together lol. TTC is no fun at all Sad

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Lougrace · 19/06/2020 09:26

@ImAwfulWithUsernames 100%! I’d love for us to have some light at the end of the tunnel. X

l16bxt · 19/06/2020 09:47

Seems I'm not alone then.
I am so frustrated I thought I had some spotting the other day I got exited.
Turns out this morning my stomach was a tad sore then I went toilet and I am assuming I have come on. It's not to much. But that always happens to me. Only starts of a little.

It's been five months since my miscarriage and every time I come on it kills me inside. I keep questioning my self what am I doing wrong. My google search is crazy. 🤦🏽‍♀️ any tips on what I could do. Guys I hope your ok xx

Lougrace · 19/06/2020 11:17

@l16bxt I’m really sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I think thinking about it too much is part of the problem but it’s impossible not to think about it! I guess I just keep waiting to see what happens 🤦🏻‍♀️

l16bxt · 19/06/2020 11:32

Thanks @Lougrace it's so hard not to think about it when we're on lockdown 😂 we can't go on holiday and relax or anything. Hopefully when lockdown Easys I bet there will be a bang bloom. Fingers crossed. Xx

ImAwfulWithUsernames · 19/06/2020 15:36

@l16bxt so sorry to hear about your miscarriage SadThanks hope you're okay now. The human body is a cruel thing! X

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l16bxt · 19/06/2020 16:14

Thank you @ImAwfulWithUsernames
I'll get there one day 😊

ImAwfulWithUsernames · 19/06/2020 17:33

@l16bxt well I'm here if you ever want to talk. I don't have any friends who are TTC as I'm 23 and all my friends who are 'trying' got pregnant within a month or two!! I have a toddler but been trying for year now so I am a bit worried... but it took almost a year last time so I don't understand what's stopping me this time?!
Seen so many stories of people having 1 child then suddenly not able to have anymore children and it's scary! X

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l16bxt · 19/06/2020 18:38

@ImAwfulWithUsernames thank you so much. Means a lot this. I'm 32 so I'm obviously thinking it's my age or something. Like you said the Human body is nasty to us. Well I actually came on today and all I did this morning was snap and cry. So I got up did my hair and makeup got dressed up and went to the shops with my boy. Gonna go get some vitamins tomorrow and try and sort my body out. I'll end up buying the whole of the shop 😂😂

ChicaXS · 19/06/2020 18:46

I’ll join you ladies. I’m on CD 36 and no sign of AF and I’m waiting to start fertility treatment . So frustrated! I even googled how to bring on a period. One article said yoga. I’d rather wait in frustration 🤣

AntiHop · 19/06/2020 18:48

Could be stress making your cycle longer.

Lougrace · 19/06/2020 18:57

@ChicaXS I’d rather wait in frustration as well Grin It’s just a waiting game. I hate how people also say, “oh just relax and don’t think about it!” EASIER SAID THAN DONE!!

Bouncytree · 19/06/2020 19:07

Hi All, joining you here too! Nice to know others are in the same boat. Waiting, looking for symptoms and watching the clock!

@l16bxt sorry to hear about your miscarriage . I’ve just had an early loss, and trying again. I have symptoms - aching boobs, nausea- but I’m so confused as to whether there is still hcg in my system or whether I could be pregnant. 🤪 my boobs are really aching, but I’ve no idea when my period might be due.

Lockdown totally makes it harder! Too much time to think about it, and it would be so nice to have something to look forward to!

Fingers crossed for everyone, it happens when you least expect it! 🤞

ChicaXS · 19/06/2020 19:16

@Lougrace I know it’s annoying when people say that. Even my DH said the other day (post my meltdown) ‘stress is delaying your period And you need to relax’ in which I contemplated whether a punch in the throat may Cause issues in our marriage. 🤣

Lougrace · 19/06/2020 19:36

@ChicaXS HAHA! That’s hilarious. They always think they say the right things...not!

l16bxt · 19/06/2020 19:54

Well what a great little group we have going on here.
Also @Bouncytree thank you ☺️ when i had my miscarriage I had to keep in doing tests till I got a negative. Every time it was positive it would break my heart. Just wanted my body back to normal. And now each time I'm due on my boobs hurt like mad. Where as before my miscarriage id just have a sore back. Are body's are just weird. Also I hope your coping with your loss and it's an awful thing that we go threw. ☺️☺️

l16bxt · 19/06/2020 19:58

What I think we all need is a bloody holiday and let our hair down 😊

ChicaXS · 19/06/2020 20:18

Yes I agree! What CD is everyone on?! We can place bets just for fun.
Wish we could all relax and have drink. Only then we could be relaxing for real!

l16bxt · 19/06/2020 20:31

Well I started today 👍 and I'm usually on a 25-28 day window. Games on girls haha my fellows just bought me a wine 🍷 happy Friday x

Lougrace · 19/06/2020 22:04

I’m on cycle day 28! Has anyone tried the Seven Seas trying for a baby vitamins? I’ve been taking them for a month and apparently they are meant to be amazing. Still yet to be seen for me!

l16bxt · 19/06/2020 22:20

Been doing Quiz night. Feel like Iv missed out in conversation lol. But @ImAwfulWithUsernames your totally right I feel like giving up. But how can you seem to give up when it's all we think about 🤦🏽‍♀️ I don't get how all these girls who get pregnant just get pregnant and then we find it so hard 🤷‍♀️

ChicaXS · 19/06/2020 22:52

I’ve started the seven seas this month too! I used to be on pregnacare but I horsepills and they made me feel sick. Seven seas are much more better on the tummy!

I love quiz nights! Especially geography questions lol

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