TTC after MC - June 2020 (Part 3)

[VP91x]

Hey lovelies,

New thread - currently CD17 (cycle #3) still waiting for peak OPK.

I hopefully have tagged everyone -

@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Hayleylou89
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@MissyBate
@MichT4
@NightDreaming
@NadJade
@Renna
@Re6ecc4
WellHurrahAndHuzzah
@ManchNic
@Jazper
@Dizzy201
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@1990EM
@Chickoletta
@Tink20058
@sunflower96
@Meomeomeo
@chloedancer897
@Niisa
@Bellabubble
@Sallyjo27
@Ejb86
@Wishingfornumber2
@anaconda76
@AR52
@DontStandSoClose
@Donnat89
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@NightDreaming
@Saim86

If anyone else would like to join please do❤️

Congratulations @DontStandSoClose!

I’m new to this, currently 8DPO and I have had mild cramping ongoing since ovulation. I can’t even remember if that’s normal for me or not. I also keep getting very light headed every time I stand up, again I’m not sure if that’s related. Trying to resist doing a test but im also really tempted tomorrow, will only be 9DPO but I’m driving myself mad.

Has anyone had a positive that early?

It's funny I feel less excited than the other times this time, I don't think I'll start to believe there's going to be a baby for quite a while. I feel like I have 2 added hurdles now, actually getting past my period due date with testing early and then getting past the 6.5 week mark when I lost the other, before I even contemplate 12 weeks.

@chloedancer897 2.5 years 🙁 i can't even begin to imagine how hard that must be. I felt angry the other day when 2 people revealed unplanned pregnancies one due the same day as me and the other the same month. Totally irrational. I can't imagine how years of this would feel xx

@DontStandSoClose yaaaaaaay!!!! Congratulations hun!! That is a lovely positive you have there 🎉🎉🥳

@VP91x hi lovely! I'm doing okay. Still having a bit of trouble sleeping, I've bought some magnesium as some of the ladies suggested. It does relax me, but I still can't fall asleep properly. I took a a few sips of wine last night hoping that that would help, but all that's done is give me a headache this morning (after only 3 sips 😳). I've got no symptoms so starting to feel like this isn't my month. Gave up on tracking bbt because of my sleeping problems. I also have no idea when AF will arrive because cycles still seem messed up.

How are you doing? I'm sorry that you aren't having any luck with the CB😫 it's so frustrating! Do you have any sticks left? How are your temps?

@MichT4 hi hun😊 I don't even think I'm going to test again unless AF doesn't show up sometime next week. I think I'm so sleep deprived that I was seeing lines when there aren't any😂 how are you doing?

@chloedancer897 ohh no :( is ur definitely AF?

Congrats @DontStandSoClose 🥳

@Ejb86 ooh that's interesting they are doing that at schools, at work for us we are supposed to be social distancing but no changes if you are pregnant at all, definitely no working from home 😔

@Northernsoul90 yeah my Dr said that if I should get a negative test by 3 weeks and period within 4-6weeks. Tbh I didn't even get to the negative test point after it was faint I just accepted it was probably done so not exactly sure when they would've been negative. The first month after MC can feel horribly long and lonely but be kind to yourself and your body, it will bounce back when it's ready xx

@Bellabubble sorry AF arrived but definitely stay positive about cycle returning to normal. Flashing smily on CB just means it's detected oestrogen rise, think mine is always early which is why I haven't seen it the last 2 months but now I'll have another 4/ 5 days of these as I'm due to have my surge next Thursday or Friday x

@chloedancer897 I'm so sorry AF arrived after you had all the signs from your body, treat yourself to something non ttc related this weekend and remember that this is a new cycle now and there is no reason why this can't be your month xx

@2020wish yes 100%. Went to view a house and came back and there it was. I'm devastated. Going out for a big hike now to tire myself out and an early night. I kept imagining myself handing DH a positive test tomorrow for Father's Day. He actually cried this time too. We were so convinced. I'm not going to symptom spot anymore or tell him if I feel like I might be. It's just so heartbreaking.

@DontStandSoClose I got pregnant so easily with my other 2. First one was unplanned. Second I conceived within weeks of coming off the pill. Never had an issue. Hoping for a sticky little bean for you this time.

Thanks @SmileyT xo

@chloedancer897 I’m gutted for you :( I actually believed this was your month :( go ok ur hike and then you and Dh have a wee night together and relax xx

@2020wish thank you. I still have my fingers crossed for you tomorrow. Keep me updated xx

@chloedancer897 thank U x

@chloedancer897 I'm sorry AF is there :( good idea to get yourself distracted! And maybe you can treat yourself with sth nice ? Wine ?

@chloedancer897 oh, I'm heartbroken for you. I'm so sorry that AF arrived. I hope you and your partner stay to feel a bit better over the next couple of days. I hope next month is luckier for you. ❤️❤️❤️

@Rainbowhope11 ah not sleeping is the worst, did you try the white noise and the lavender? Also camomile tea is good for before bed xx

@HopeForRainbowbaby @VP91x thank you both. Taking the day out with the kids and going to just ride the AF wave. At least I know my cycles are back to normal after the MC and maybe my body just wasn't ready yet. I'm going to try the SMEP plan this time with the CB and nothing else. Take the stress out a little and just enjoy it a little more. I put too much pressure on myself after the MC as you hear so many stories of people getting pregnant straight away. Maybe I'll join the July bus with some of you fx xx

Ladies, I would like to present to you all...

My STATIC SMILEY!!!!

@chloedancer897 enjoy the day with your children and stay positive for the next cycle which I know is hard because you've been trying for so long. SMEP will be good to try as you still have some routine to it without it being too stressful. ❤️

@VP91x congrats! And he looks SO smug too 😂
Interesting that your OPK in the same photo is not as dark as the control line though?
I'm not sure if I trust cheapies anymore!

@mrsssk I know I thought that too, it will probably go darker later. I couldn't believe it!!!

Smug bastard 😂😂

@VP91x thank god - finally!! Wahoooooo!

@chloedancer897 sorry to hear about AF. A new fresh month, try and be positive and I’m sure it won’t be long. Hope you have some nice treats for tonight

@Bellabubble I’m fine thanks, just waiting for some confirmation of ovulation. I’m guessing now in TWW so busy sitting it out impatiently

@VP91x awww finally flashy twat has buggered off 🎉🎉🎉 good luck and have fun xxx

@VP91x I feel like we need to throw u a party for this static smiley lol it’s been a long time waiting!!

@MichT4 @Tink20058 @2020wish I was so happy when it came up!!! We were on our way back from the wildlife park and going to pick up something so I asked my OH to pop me home so I could pee and test. I brought it out to the car like a loon to show him 😂😂

Glad that we have DTD the last two days and now we do the next two days too. Fingers crossed I get lucky!🤞🤞

@VP91x
Woooooo hoooooooo!!!!!!!
🤩🥇🎉🎊🎁🎈🎀🥰🙌🏼
Well done for persevering and enjoy!!!

@VP91x I hope you do too xx

Congratulations 🥳 @DontStandSoClose that's a lovely strong positive!!
Did you use CB to track ovulation or cheapies? X

@VP91x yes!!!! You've waited so long, so happy for you!! 🥳🥳