TTC after MC - June 2020 (Part 3)

[VP91x]

Hey lovelies,

New thread - currently CD17 (cycle #3) still waiting for peak OPK.

I hopefully have tagged everyone -

@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Hayleylou89
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@MissyBate
@MichT4
@NightDreaming
@NadJade
@Renna
@Re6ecc4
WellHurrahAndHuzzah
@ManchNic
@Jazper
@Dizzy201
@peonyrose87
@HE88
@mrsssk
@1990EM
@Chickoletta
@Tink20058
@sunflower96
@Meomeomeo
@chloedancer897
@Niisa
@Bellabubble
@Sallyjo27
@Ejb86
@Wishingfornumber2
@anaconda76
@AR52
@DontStandSoClose
@Donnat89
@Banbi
@Diorissimo1985
@DBTJ
@2020wish
@Eli2020
@NightDreaming
@Saim86

If anyone else would like to join please do❤️

@VP91x 🤬🤬 compared to this morning? And yesterday’s?

@MichT4 attached a pic.

First two are yesterday evening & night.
Bottom two are this morning & now.

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@VP91x I honestly think it may have happened yesterday?

Ok so I rang and had my sick line extented. Feel a bit of stress lifted already. Thank you ladies for the help and perspective. I honestly hope we all get bfps and can stay connected.

@VP91x how bloody annoying! And strange. The bottom one is definitely darker than this morning. Hard to see it compared to yesterday’s as it’s quite dark all over in the picture.

What is with this month?? Maybe it’s just a day or two more for you too. Really hope it changes for you soon. Tomorrow morning should give a clearer picture with tour temps. And that thing better be smiling at you Xx

@2020wish so glad you got it sorted, and even better that you’re feeling better for it already.

I really hope that too, and I think we should keep connected for sure ☺️
I’m gonna need you ladies throughout!

@chloedancer897 how are u feeling? I’m feeling so hungry and sick with hunger in between meals lol

Also tmi super in the mood for DTD lol I’m usually never am around this run up to AF but I remember when I was last pregnant I was so in the mood constantly and even had a ‘wet dream’ hahhahah sorry Tmi. Trying not to symptom spot but hoping it all means something

@2020wish absolutely no idea, will, see what happens with it later. Would be so weird to surge and ovulate so quickly overnight though. Haha, might aswell take advantage of the feeling and enjoy yourself! Glad you got your time extended, definitely the best decision x

@MichT4 yeah I reckon once it dries it'll be probably the same as the top ones. Blah.

@2020wish I have symptoms too but trying not to read too much into them in case AF comes, I'll be devastated. I'm so bloated I can't wear jeans and so nauseous all the time so no DTD for me! I also cried 3x times today. Once because I saw a pic of Stephen Clements who died last year. Why!?

Anyway, proud of us to hold off testing!! 2 more days!

@chloedancer897 I won’t be doing the DTD at all either as one of miscarriages happened after I did and I’m heart scared now. Yea been so emotional myself but again probably all af symptoms

@2020wish same happened to me. DH isn't getting none for a long time if I'm PG! Lol

Hcg down to 24 today at 5 weeks after the MVA taking its damn time but I’m CD3 today and opk is fairly low, going to start them now anyway just in case my body decides to ovulate as soon as hcg goes below 5!

Hope everyone has a lovely weekend, any nice plans now we can visit other people’s gardens?!

@renna hope ur ok, how was ur scan? Xxx

@SmileyT went and had the antibody test earlier and it was negative but apparently thats not conclusive that uv not had it but just that u dnt have the antibodies to face it, so im going to veryyy careful now being around ppl.

I was convinced id had it over new yr and then my waters broke just a few weeks later but who knows... and who knows how reliable these covid tests really are it was £30 for the test in the local chemist x

@2020wish asked DH to get me some FRER and he refused. He's told me to wait. So I did try to cave there but not allowed 😂

I'm okay xx @Hayleylou89 had my scan . Just before the scan AF started 😓 the lady doing my scan was the same lady who confirmed my MMC at the hospital 😓 but they confirmed everything is looking good and no problems thank god so that's a relief. But emotional day getting AF again ... need to have a chat with DH tonight whether Im gonna carry on with opks temping etc . feeling so low about TTC journey now and need to figure out what to do going forward xxx had my cry today. Just thought I'd be preg again by now xx

They described my uterus as retroverted.. whatever that means.. xx

@Renna so sorry AF came but glad you got some answers. It means your uterus is tilted slightly to the back but it's nothing to worry about. Move wombs are tilted.

Sometimes it's good to take a step back from TTC for a while. It can be very overwhelming. Even to take the pressure off you both for a little bit?x

@Renna *most wombs. Sorry

Thanks @chloedancer897 x x yeah I mean I wont be prevent us getting pg and i hope itll just happen but I think I need a break from doing opks and temping etc . I get my peak around the same time each month so I know roughly when I'm ovulating so just need to make sure I ramp up the DTD around that time i guess i dont really need the rest of it, just gives me stuff to analyse and stress over and consume me. I keep holding back on proper getting back into my fitness and diet etc incase I'm pregnant.. maybe need to focus back on that more and hopefully a BFP will just come from getting healthier etc xx

@Renna sorry yes, that's what I meant. Just step back from the temps and OPKs, we can all get a little obsessive with them. And it's so overwhelming. I've become a completely different person this month obsessing about it and yet the month I did get pg was the month I wasn't worried about it too much. They always say stress is the biggest inhibitor to pregnancy which is why getting puppies and going on holiday always work!

Take care of yourself and do things to make yourself feel good xo

Thanks hun @chloedancer897 xx

@2020wish what a symptom! Sure OH won’t be complaining about that! I’m excited for you and @chloedancer897 to test on Sunday. Is there anyone else due?

@renna so sorry AF showed up. On a positive, it’s right on time so as you say, you should take confidence that you don’t need to worry too much about the tracking. It’s a real luxury so definitely enjoy it and don’t let anything else get you bogged down. I don’t think I’d do all the OPKs etc if I knew when I’d ovulate. And it’s so good they didn’t find anything untoward with your scan. Means you are good to go for a nice chilled month. Sending hugs if you need them 💕
And also definitely get back to you - enjoy your exercise and doing what makes you feel good xx

@Hayleylou89 what a strange test, so what’s it meant to tell you. Definitely look after yourself

@VP91x dare I ask??

So this just happened!! I'm in so much shock, can't believe it!

@Renna I'm glad everything went well with your scan today! That's brilliant news. So sorry about AF showing up. As you said, you're so regular with your ovulation that it will be good to give maybe next cycle a try without temping etc. They aren't telling you anything you don't already know, right? Wishing you lots of luck for your next cycle xx

@chloedancer897 this sounds really positive! I'm excited for you and @2020wish to test.

@MichT4 😭 I'm dehydrated and fed up. Done one about half an hour ago and nothing.

Will try again at 8. I've been sulking since.

Omg congratulations @peonyrose87 ❤️🎊.

How many DPO are you? What did you try this cycle xx