Anyone else DTD few days before ov?! 2WW

[Leobaby]

DTD with my partner on Saturday which makes it cycle day 13 for me. I ovulate around cycle day 15/16. So today or tomorrow. I can’t DTD today so I have to stick with my partners swimmers from Saturday. Wondering if I’m still in with a chance this month 😕I know it takes hours for egg to be released and sperm live for a few days but I’m still thinking I’m out. Anyone else in the same boat as me?

Just wondering if any of you have a Fibroadenoma (benign breast tumor)? It was painfull all day yesturday even my armpit hurt and the same today! It usually gives a bit of pain around ovulation and af but i don't recall it being this painful! Obviously trying not to read into it... probably gearing up for a painful af 😑😂

@RobinRose no I don’t have one of those. So if it’s never this painful then maybe it’s a good sign? Obviously don’t want to get your hopes up. When is your af due? X

Soooo for me, my other digital is a big blank circle. Non fertile today, my cheapie is not as dark as it was yesterday for sure. So I think I actually ovulated yesterday, just wish I did a test the day before yesterday to see if it was peak also! I dtd Monday, so If I ovulated Monday or yesterday then I think I have a higher chance than last month! I’m just very confused with my cm, from dtd 3 days in a row I wasn’t able to track it properly but I’ve also not been able to figure out what’s going on with it atm. I’ve had my ewcm, but it’s also been creamy/lotiony at the same time?!

@Leobaby potentially, I've probably just sleeped funny, that's what o am telling myself anyway 🤣 um between tomorrow and Sunday, it can vary by a couple of days!

Sounds like you covered your fertile time so don't panic! My cm van be a bit confusing to, always changes!

@RobinRose that’s what I’d tell myself too, but would it be that painful?🤔oh wow okay you seem so far ahead already!😂 well, seeing as your close to af, how do you feel? Migraines? Do you feel like you’re gonna come on?
Lol I wasn’t even meant to dtd near ov! As OH very much stated to me he didn’t wanna try.. ah well lmao😂😂it’s strange because I always only have ewcm around ov but yeah it’s been a whole mess down there. Looks like I’m in the TWW again 😂

Hey Ladies, glad to hear you are doing well :)

@RobinRose I haven't had one of those, could be a good sign though if its different than normal. How are you feeling otherwise? Im keeping ny fingers crossed for you.

@Leobaby that's brilliant, will keep my fingers crossed for you too :D hopefully will be the month lol.

I have not idea if I have ovulated or not or if I even will. Ive not had a positive opk and had two days of ewcm, assumed I'd ovulate today and today I have creamy/lotiony cm with I normally only get after ovulation. Wondering if perhaps my body tired to ovulate but didn't? So frustrating lol

@Leobaby @Csari i am not too sure! I know, this month has flown by! I feel OK, had what I thought was another migraine starting this morning but took tablets and nothing came of it (thank god) I have been a bit crampy so I am expecting af to appear. I feel ok, a bit chubby 🙄 I blame lockdown

@Csari how frustrating! I haven't used opks since my blip the other month, i didn't get a solid smiley, I was so pissed off 😂

@Csari which opks are you using? That is very frustrating for you, I’d still dtd every other day to have yourself covered?! But you are also describing what I’ve had too this month which I don’t normally get but obviously I got my positive opk as well. Strange, I usually get a little ov pain and I’ve had none too, just bloated!

@RobinRose bless you, at least you got rid of it quickly. Migraines are the worst. Well I have my fingers crossed for you, hopefully the pain in your breasts is a good sign!

@Leobaby The clearblue Digital ones, not the advanced. I need something definitive or I'll drive my self mad analysing it lol. Another negative today and the ovulation type pain has passed too so I have no clue what's going on.

@RobinRose hope you are feeling better today and yes it is so annoying isn't it lol. I think I've not ovulated at all this month but have no clue, I'm out of tests now anyway so will never know lol.

@Csari that’s very strange? Maybe the hormones from the pregnancy is still present and have prevented you from ovulating this month? Have you dtd every other day to keep yourself covered this month?

@Csari I’m the opposite, I had a positive opk with no ov pains from what I remember. Usually I do get ov pains but none this month.

@Leobaby I did wonder if thats what is going on. I tested negative about 3 days after the bleeding stopped so I hoped that things would settle down quickly but maybe its taking a bit longer.

I DTD two days ago when I first noticed EWCM and ill DTD again tonight and every other day I guess and hope I just ovulate late or something.

@Leobaby @Csari I am feeling better today thank you! Had some cramping this morning but that seems to have buggered off now and not much boob pain. Just hoping af is not as painful as last month.

Fingers and toes crossed for you both! 🌼

@Csari I mean ewcm means fertile mucus so surely you were going to ovulate? I don’t know it’s all confusing what happens with our hormones etc. I guess all you can do is keep dtd and wait and see. I thought after a pregnancy or miscarriage that you’re more fertile than normal?i don’t know, but fingers crossed for you!!

@RobinRose ah just going to have to wait and see then, I really hope af doesn’t arrive for you!! X

@Leobaby I've heard that too, hoping that it's true.

I've certainly felt like my body has been working up to ovulation for longer than normal so hoping that might be a good sign, I usually ovulate on CD10 or CD11 but nothing yet.

Although today is CD14 and I feel like today might be the day going by symptoms (because I am out of OPKs). I have a pulling type niggly pain on the right side and loads more EWCM than normal (sorry if thats TMI). Kicking myself for having a long bath and an early night with a book instead of DTD last night lol.

How are you both feeling today?

@Csari I hope so too for your case! And ooo really? That sounds very hopeful, would make sense if you ov’d a bit later due to what happened. Don’t worry, just make sure you dtd tonight! And don’t worry, nothing is TMI here lol.
But I’m good today, only 3dpo. Not going to get my hopes up or go crazy like I did last month lol. X

@Csari I'm ok, woke up with a migraine this morning and af arrived 😑

I am getting very fed up with it all now, I so hoped we would have conceived before the anniversary of dps operation! Going into month 11 now. I just don't think it is meant to be 😔

Sorry for the pity post this morning! Hope your both doing ok x

Oh @RobinRose, I am so sorry to hear that. Its absolutely rubbish and you have every right to be fed up.

@RobinRose Oh bless I’m sorry to hear that. Hear if you want to talk or rant about things so don’t worry. Maybe go to your gp and see if they can do anything to help? Meanwhile just treat yourself!

How are you all doing my lovelies?

Hey @Leobaby I'm ok thanks. Now in the TWW and trying not to compare everything to last month lol. How are you?

Hiya! Im okay, always feel better after af arrives, its just the first day that sucks. I haven't suffered with bad cramps this month either!

@Csari it is hard not to, I find the first week is OK but the second week is a nightmare for symptom spotting! Hope it doesn't drag too much for you

That’s good! @Csari were you able to pin point ovulation? Fingers crossed for you this month!
I’m okay thanks, I’ve been starving these last couple of days. Now 6dpo..

@RobinRose that’s great! Glad you’re ok, are you ready to try again this month?

Hi everyone!! TOTALLY new to this so pardon all the techy mistakes I'll be making! I'm 28 and TTC (2nd cycle trying), DTD day prior to ovulation and the day before that. Now on CD18, AF due in 8 days..! Haven't told anyone about us TTC so it would be so lovely to speak to other girlies on what they are experiencing and getting some advice! Had solid cramping allll day yesterday and felt nauseous this morning 🤢 I know it's probably way too early to symptom spot but just wanted to tell someone! 

Forgot to mention... (first error!) I am 6DPO with a 25 day cycle... has anyone used Clue? What are your opinions on it?
xx