Venga Bus is back (Bus 8)

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Big congrats to our girl @Sydgal22 🥳
18 BFPs in June so far who will be next!?

@noble89 - June 15th
@ss123456 - June 15th
@mich2020 - June 17th
@newbie9 - June 17th
@LV1987 - June 17th
@peanutbutterbrownies - June 18th
@sweetshop2020 - June 20th
@newbie0818 - June 20th
@chloedancer897 - June 20th
@Jodi3 - June 20th
@dontgojasonwaterfalls - June 21st
@maybe333 - June 22nd
@marshmallow123 - June 26th
@madz27 - June 27th
@skip86 - June 28th
@missgoldilocks - June 28th
@katao - June 30th
@vp91x - June 30th
@lucyrp - July 1st
@sausage1990 - July 1st
@lucie91 - July 2nd
@dipsy77 -July 3rd
@dkdk123 - July 4th
@amy00 - July 5th
@ltay2 - July 5th
@minster2012 - July 5th
@vil10 - July 6th
@franklydear - July 6th
@justmouse - July 7th
@blodyn91 - July 7th
@cocoblue22 - July 7th
@smileyT - July 8th
@jazper - July 8th
@littleRa - July 10th
@2020mission - July 15th
@DB20 - July 17th
@sarahttc2020 - July 21st

Not added anyone that I don’t have dates for but I’ve not forgotten you just let me know when you know you ovulate/ know your test dates ☺️

@notyetamumbuttrying thanks il keep you all updated ☺️

@SS123456 you're definitely not alone, it is really hard! although at this point i'm kind of over worrying about it, i was for the first week i was late but i just wish something or anytning would happen right now!

@SmileyT i'm not sure what she'll say maybe she'll call me into the surgery to have my bloods taken there or she might be as annoying as the midwife but i doubt it. yeah of course. where abouts are you in your cycle now ?? i feel like i'm completely out of sync with everyone now as i'm like the hanger onnner where as before i like to think i knew where everyone was in theirs 😂🙈xx

@lucyrp don't feel bad you're not going on and that's why we're here to share our story and how we feel and support each other. Anyone in your situation would be feeling incredibly peed off with what you're going through it's so frustrating. And we genuinely are all feeling sorry for you as it's proper crappy and we feel for you and all want you to get your BFP or at least an answer so you can try again if not. Don't ever feel bad for talking about how you're feeling we're here to support and listen and happy to. Glad the dr is phoning you back today be firm with them and tell them how you feel at the midwifes response it is not acceptable for her to make you feel like that x

Omg @jodi3 congratulations 🥳 🥰🥰

@SmileyT thank you! I'm kind of at peace now that I'm out but time will tell I guess

@J0DI3 🤗🤗🤗 congrats!!! I always ask every BFP but anything different this cycle?

and so sorry about the BFN.

@Maybe333 Hahahah well at least I know not to do that now Thankyou😂😂

@J0DI3 it is!! Congratulations!!!

@SmileyT Yeah ovulation predicted for Fri, Sat or Sun! CD14 today and I got my peak on this day last month so doing 4 OPK cheap tests today to try and catch it 🙈 still got a lot of EW/Watery CM so hopefully soon!

@lucyrp No definitely not you aren't going on about it! I would feel so frustrated if I was you - I feel frustrated for you 😂 hopefully the doctors have something to say later

@J0DI3 tell us everything!!😂x

@Cocoblue22 i know i just feel bad going on and on about because some people do genuinely just have one random odd long cycle and i bet people that have just thjnk oh god be quiet 🙄🙈 it's just so annoying because when my periods regulated after christmas i was like yes now i can do it properly and 4 months in i'm basically out for 3 months 😫 yeah i will let her know it was the same one i had issues with last time too x

@Ltay2 i know everyone was so sure i was getting my BFP and i feel worse letting everyone down than myself to be honest 😂

@lucyrp please stop worrying everyone is more than happy to listen I promise and we're keen to find out why that's happening and also it could happen to us all too so we can completely understand why you feel so upset by it I certainly would it would drive me mad not knowing what's going on. I feel like I keep going over whether I even ovulated last month not that it really matters now! I just hope I do this month!! I really hope the dr is more proactive and sorts your blood test out x

@lucyrp good luck at the doctors, hope you get some answers soon! x

@J0DI3 congratulations! That's brilliant 🥳 How did DH react to the news? x

Thank you everyone 😊

@Vil10 I just made sure I kept my feet warm and started taking Pregnacare at 2dpo! I was all geared up for juice and evening primrose oil next cycle.

@SweetDreams92 he was very excited! He already wants to tell the world and I’ve told him not yet 🙈

Good luck today @lucyrp

@lucyrp good luck!! I hope you get your answers!x

@J0DI3 that's awesome!!!! It must have been you saying about fluffy socks that caused me to wear mine this TWW 😂 that is such brilliant news, I am so happy for you... But sad to have to find new TWW buddies!

Speaking of which, AF got me this morning so I'm now CD1 - which is exactly what happens after rants like I had yesterday, lol! Apparently I'm quite the lucky charm during the TWW, so watch this space 😉

Im onto my new packet of seeds, not 100% linseed, but thought its still high in omega 3 so giving it a go with my pumpkin seeds.

@lv1987 so sorry about AF 😔

@Cocoblue22 that is true. i did feel like i was going crazy last week but now i'm just like oh well whatever happens will happen but wish it would happen now 😂 i'm the same though i'm not even sure if i did actually ovulate this month now! if i ovulated when my CB digital said i would that was CD15 and now i'm CD40 so that would be wrong if i had ovulated then. but like you say none of that matters now. x

@SweetDreams92 @Vil10 @J0DI3 thanks everyone il keep you in the loop x

@J0DI3 congratulations x

I've conceded and logged today as cycle day 1 in femometer now. My bbt is still high but af seems to be starting and I'm cramping now. That was a 42 day cycle with 17 days with a high bbt!

I've ordered a fertility blood test from medicheck that should hopefully be with me tomorrow and I'm going to give the CB digital opks a go this month too

I'm going to be 37 this year and starting to panic a bit now as this is cycle 9 😔

Thank you @blodyn91 😘 I actually feel at peace with it! I came off the pill in December, and although we've been trying since then, I have a feeling this was the first month I've ovulated since, so I would have been super lucky to catch the eggy this time. Onwards and upwards!!

Now that I've said "catch the eggy" I keep singing it in my head to the tune of catch the pigeon from Wacky Races 😂🎶

Hey everyone just checking in

Sorry to those who af has come for 😔

Congrats on the bfp @J0DI3!!

@lucyrp I hope you get some answers soon!!

right so the doctor has just spoken to me and basically said after a 15 minute phone call that she would like to wait until AF arrives and then take bloods around CD21 for fertility checks🤷🏼‍♀️ so no answers for this cycle but next cycle i will get my checks because it will be coming up to 1 year of TTC x

@lucyrp But AF hasn't arrived? So she is saying you got to wait till it does no matter how long you wait for?

It's a shame about no answers just yet lucyrp but it sounds like positive progress!