TTC after MC - June 2020 (Part 2)

[VP91x]

Hey lovelies ❤️

Just doing the new thread as the other is full will tag you all here - anyone else who wpuld like to join please do!

Little bit of background -
Cycle #3 TTC after MC in December
This month doing SMEP, tracking BBT and OV (CB advanced and Femometer strips), also drowning myself in grapefruit juice 😂 and will take Calc Fluor in TWW.

Sending everyone lots of luck 🤞

@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Hayleylou89
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@MissyBate
@MichT4
@NightDreaming
@NadJade
@Renna
@Re6ecc4

@MichT4 no don't be silly, I'm just as bad when I don't get an answer. I mean I saved up all my pee for a day waiting for my sticks 😂

If I didn't have the same trend as last month right now, I'd be losing my mind over all these flashies and no peak yet xxx

@chloedancer897 I’m 7dpo and getting twinges, slight nausea, tiredness, sneezing and runny nose which is a pregnancy symptoms I have had before

@Diorissimo1985 yes taking it every night and progesterone cream

@Saim86 I see it congrats!!! So happy you caught so soon

@elliew818 and @MichT4 thank you

@MichT4 temping can be so stressful. I was so stressed the first month I do it and nearly gave up. I ovulated late that month also... I’m starting to think it was down to the stress of temping that held of my ovulation?? This month though I’m a lot more calmer with it and I ovulated right on time . I’m sorry I can’t help much with your charts as I’m just new at it also but try not to let it get to you, you will ovulate and if your LH is normally the normal length then I believe it still will stay they normal length regardless of how late you ovulate. Fingers crossed for ovulation soon

@VP91x ohh least you have got a good indicator than ovulation is right around the corner. What cycle day are you again ?

Ladies I absolutely caved and did a frer... I’m only 7dpo ... I think I can see a line .... it’s extremely faint and definitely would not be picked up by camera. Dint know if I have line eyes and I’m going crazy. Is 7dpo way too early? Hahah I’ve heard of people getting them so early but I dunno... I think I implanted on 5DPO going by temps. Going to leave the test and see if it gets darker as it dries in. Not mentioning to DH yet. The nerves have started that it’s another chemical and a 4th loss

@2020wish so so hopeful for you this month!! If you get a BFP then will you continue to take the aspirin?

I'm CD16 now xx

@Diorissimo1985 good luck with your appt today 🥰

@vp91x yes if I am pregnant and progress then I have to take to until 36/37 weeks

@2020wish...I want to see your test! Fingers so tightly crossed. And thank you for the advice, I really appreciate it and it’s great to hear some of your experiences.

Funny you say about stress, I caved and called my doctor. I figured if I could get blood tests it wouldn’t hurt either way. I had a little blub on the phone as she told me that I shouldn’t be temping or doing OPKs because they just increase anxiety. She said she wouldn’t be able to do bloods now (well she would but the results could be skewed) because of how soon it is after MC and the likelihood is that hormones still won’t have settled down. She said she wouldn’t necessarily expect someone to ovulate for a couple of months. She wants me to only track my periods and if nothing has happened by September then she will take bloods.
I think I’ll keep temping because it’s just the Ava so no real pressure. But I need to relax about it like you said, and hopefully then things will fall into place. Perhaps worrying so much so soon isn’t helping things, but it’s so hard not to.
Not sure about waiting til September, seems so far away. I might use my private medical before then if nothing happens. Will see.

Just thought I’d update you as it was so similar to what you said @2020wish with the stress of temping when it’s new. Like both you and @VP91x suggested I think I need more data and to relax a bit, which I will try and do. Maybe my temp will spike soon and this will all be silliness.

Good luck today @Diorissimo1985

xxx

@2020wish oh post your test! I love looking at one 😂

@MichT4 I'm glad you called to get yourself the re-assurance. It is true that our bodies do take a while to settle. I know mine did post MC I still think that 20 and 24 day cycle I had after my period finally came back I didn't ovulate so it is possible. Xx

Congrats @Saim86! How many days dpo are you??

I'm sure it'll get darker.. mine looked similar to that on Saturday and I took another test this morning - was a lot darker! Top one is Saturday's and the bottom one is this morning xx

@2020wish wow !! I'm hoping for strong bfp and healthy pregnancy for you 😊 it is rather early but not impossible ! And if you think you have implanted two days ago, then definitely possible 👍and yes, I would also like to see the test as I like to look at them too... haha actually I'm missing testing as I have stopped with OVs and I'm waiting to be further in dpos, I'm 5 dpo

@2020wish can you open the casing and hold the actual test strip upto the light? I ended up a pro at it 🤣🤣🤣 good luck 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞 xxx

@2020wish SHOW USSSSS 🤩

Ok. AF well and truly here. I'm in for next month, cycle buddies @Eli2020 @elliew818 - also, ta for the warning re Morrison's pink grapefruit. At least if I go for it I'll know what to expect

Congrats @Saim86! And fingers crossed @2020wish

Fingers crossed for your sticky bean @2020wish!
@MichT4 I have no idea about BBT but I'd say it all depends on your personality type, I get stressed out by too much info because it becomes all consuming for me, other people hate the unknowns and so find having more date to be calming, I'd say do what works best for you.
Glad you're so regular @VP91x and now you know to DTD next 3 days! I'm looking forward to AF going so we can start baby making too.

@VP91x any news on your static smiley yet? Or is he still a flashy twat? 🤣🤣 xx

Sorry AF is definitely there for you @Banbi but, new reset for the cycle coming and a new opportunity 🥰

@elliew818 yeah weird that I got the little streak on the same day. Waiting to see my peak then will get going on the 3 day stint haha.

Yeah, at least with AF no tracking or anything you can kind of just wait it out xx

@Tink20058 it's still a flashy twat 🙈😂😂😂 but feeling hopeful I'm almost there xxx

Thanks ladies for your encouragement and for being so happy for me.. I only wish we all had bfps this month.. it will happen, soon! I'm still a bit worried because I have very few early pregnancy symptoms so its hard not to second guess it all. Sometimes I think I have just made it all up in my head..

Can't remember who asked but the only thing I did "differently" this cycle was to make sure we DTD on the days I had ewcm .. opks didnt pick up on a peak so it was my biggest indicator of ovulation. I read somewhere that ewcm was your bodies way of making sex easier and ideal circumstances for sperm as well as natural lubrication lol so I just took it as my body telling me that was the time to BD!! Didn't dtd much otherwise tbh! Maybe did it 3 times in total during fertile period! I too found the tracking bit sooo stressful so thought I'd just try the natural listening to my body for the first cycle. Easier said than done though because I'm the type that thrives on numbers, data and statistics!

@2020wish I'm desperate to see your test too!!! I'm so hopeful for you!

@Saim86 massive congrats!!!

@1990EM I think it is so easy to forget that your body knows what it is doing and to just listen to it.

Saying that, I'm POAS at every opportunity 😭😂

Don't stress over not having too many symptoms every pregnancy is different. So happy for you xx

@Tink20058 your words give me hope, thank you ❤
To protect myself im not joining any pregnancy groups any time soon, will be firmly hanging out here until everyone gets their bfps and until I feel properly pregnant or have a scan or some kind of confirmation this pregnancy is real!

@VP91x thank you so much. I can't get over how kind everyone is in this group. Hence I'm staying put lol

Morning girls, so happy for all these bfp flowing in!! Everyones time is coming!

@2020wish please upload a pic im the best with line eyes ill show u my first glimse that i was pregnant ull laugh how faint it was (attached)

@renna im good, emotional wreck tbh cnt stop crying over nothing and pretty moody too hha thanks for askin think this ones a boy as i wasnt like this last time haha, im 7 weeks tomorrow x
How r u getting on have u felt any symtoms and when it it ur time to test?

@2020wish my frer actually didnt look positive the same day the clear blue did either which was odd x