TTC after MC - June 2020 (Part 2)

[VP91x]

Hey lovelies ❤️

Just doing the new thread as the other is full will tag you all here - anyone else who wpuld like to join please do!

Little bit of background -
Cycle #3 TTC after MC in December
This month doing SMEP, tracking BBT and OV (CB advanced and Femometer strips), also drowning myself in grapefruit juice 😂 and will take Calc Fluor in TWW.

Sending everyone lots of luck 🤞

@SmileyT
@Rainbowhope11
@Hayleylou89
@Dipsy77
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@elliew818
@MissyBate
@MichT4
@NightDreaming
@NadJade
@Renna
@Re6ecc4

Hope you don't mind me joining. I was in the last thread and due 30th Jan but just want to keep updated with everyone! X

Congratulations @Niisa and @ttcin2020!! Amazing to see some BFP’s!! @Niisa lovely idea to save for Father’s Day if you can! X

Hey @mumoftwobeauts how are you getting on? Everything okay with little bean? Xx

@chloedancer897 yes hopefully!!🥰

Hey @mumoftwobeauts how are you keeping? Xx

@Niisa @ttcin2020 congratulations!!! So happy for you both ❤️

Awww this is amazing congratulations @Niisa and @ttcin2020 so happy for you both xxx lovely lines xx
any tips of what you did differently this cycle if anything ?:) xxx
I've had a shitty day really so it's such lovely news seeing these BFPs xxxx

Hope you're getting on okay @mumoftwobeauts nice of you to be checking in :) xxx

@Renna I concur with your question to @Niisa @ttcin2020 please share what you have done this month :) Renna, I'm sure Shelby is there waiting for some cuddles to help you with the day 😘

@Renna hope you're okay hun, sending you a hug x

Aw thanks girls xxx funny how this thread with people never met can perk you up 😍😘 xx @HopeForRainbowbaby @VP91x xx
It's a long story but turned up at my step sons house today with DH as he had to confront his ex about her lies and stopping my step son coming over. They agreed at beginning of lockdown to reduce risks that we wouldnt have him but shes just being evil now as per. So think we will be back to court again for the third time for breach of court order . I've never gone to the door with DH before , we been together 6 years. My step son is 11. Shes just really nasty and lies a lot and manipulates my poor step son . She makes him call my DH by his first name at her house and call her new bloke dad . Feel so bad for my step son bless him hes so lovely xxx we love him and miss him not seen him since march xx but I wont go too much into all that ! Just been a really stressful draining day and I really want to keep stress levels down .... 😓 xx was so nice though I came home to these flowers on my door step from a friend ... so sweet.. xx

Hope everything is ok @Renna
Had a lovely day in the sun with our friends and DS in the paddling pool then the heavens opened, and now it's sunny again...so the weather has no idea what it's doing, much like my body this month! Another day of the tiniest spotting - just wish AF would hurry up and get on with it now! Also does anyone else usually get spotting just before AF? Do you count CD1 as first day of spotting or first day using a pad/ tampon?
Yeah @Niisa and @ttcin2020 let us know if you did anything differently this month!

Thank you everyone!!
Just hoping and hoping this little one sticks.

@HopeForRainbowbaby @Renna I tracked ovulation with OPK, it was CD22 so I thought we were out at that point but we DTD every day (except for one day) from CD14 and the day after ovulation too. TMI but I read something that having an orgasm when your OH finishes or up to 30 minutes after helps the swimmers so we did that most times to encourage them and then the old legs in the air trick. My mum told me to try that 🤣
After ovulation I tried to eat pineapple core until it made me heave so I gave up with that. I ate lots of pineapple and took calc Fluor twice a day!
My OH started on multivitamins with zinc this cycle too.
Not sure if any of it helped or it's the fact my body has recovered after the MC in late March/early April

Hope to see more BFPs on here in the coming weeks, fingers crossed for lots of sticky beans

@elliew818 aw thanks babe xx I'll be okay now I'm home with DH and puppy xx we went to the park with puppy and was glorious then I heard thunder and I was like omg let's get home haha . Was crazy! Sounds like a nice day xx I'd class CD 1 when you start getting proper flow of AF xx hope she shows up properly soon hun xx

@Renna sorry you and OH are going through that with your step son, can't imagine someone doing that! It must be hard for you and OH, sending you a virtual hug...also seems like you have a very lovely friend, flowers are beautiful 💐

@ttcin2020 thank you for the tips babe xxx wow lots of DTD ! Not sure I could keep up with that with a hour long sessions I was talking about earlier if only we could nail the quickies xx very happy for you hun xxx I do most the other things other than the pineapple so if I'm not lucky this month I'll add that to my shopping list 😁 xxx

@ttcin2020 woah that's a lot of DTD! No wonder you fell this month lol I'm not sure me or DH could handle 7 times in 8 days! Congratulations though, it's so encouraging to know you have got a BFP, I had medical management early April so nice to know our bodies can recover quickly

@Renna I must have missed that when I was catching up earlier - hour long sessions! Your poor vagina lol

@elliew818 thanks hun xxx we always get there in the end and I'm a lawyer so that helps with our court applications! Just be persistent and as long as we eventually get to see him and he keeps asking us when we will see him bless him xx he has a good loving bond with us despite it all thats the main thing xxx

@elliew818 pahaha my poor vagina 😂 I mean sometimes it's fun and most women complain some men are too quick so I don't have that issue but not really when you're TTC and theres lots of DTD to be done 😂 .. DH has always focused too much on pleasing me . Now I'm like let's just get this transaction done 😂😂 xxx

Girls, calc Fluor....I have a question. The pot says 4-8 tablets 3 times a day!! 😳😳 is that right?

@Renna sorry to hear about your tough day. Are you doing something lovely this evening to relax?

@MichT4 no I take 2 a day xxx which a fertility homeopath said to on you tube xxx

Thanks @Renna. Does the pot say to take more? I hope these aren’t weaker so that’s why it says take more

@Renna yeah it's lovely you have a good relationship with him still.
My DH has always been a bit of a stickler for pleasing me first too - not that I'm complaining one bit! But he weirdly enjoys being selfish during FW now lol

@Renna sorry to hear you have had a shit day the ex sounds like a right cow! Xx

@elliew818 I get spotting before af I class cd1 as the day I have a proper flow of bleeding I usually spot for about 3 or 4 days before full flow. Xx

@MichT4 I've got those ones too I've been taking 2 in the morning and 2 at night. I thought what it said on the back was a bit excessive. Xx