June Bus Bitches Wine Puffy Afternoon Delight (Bus 6)

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9 BFPs so far;

@Runnergirl1
@slimshadycousin
@RiverRoo
@onnaturescourse
@picallilly19
@krk05
@little11
@whizzkids0812
@hogrider

And once you get your BFP you can join them on the grads bus - June Bus Graduates www.mumsnet.com/Talk/birth_clubs/3928965-June-Bus-Graduates

Still to test 🤞 ;

@bumdiggydiggybumdiggybum -
June 7th
@sarah1253 - June 7th (Tested 6th)
@catharinettc - June 8th (Tested 3rd/4th/5th)
@thegirlwholived - June 8th (Tested 29th)
@ttcmummy2021 - June 8th
@lucyrp - June 9th (Tested 5th)
@cocoblue22 - June 9th (Tested 31st/6th)
@watermelonwizard - June 9th
@firsttimetry - June 9th
@bic501 - June 9th
@SarahTTC2020 - June 9th
@katecolx - (Tested June 2nd/ June 6th)
@blodyn91 - (tested 6th)
@ttcgee - June 10th
@33carr - June 10th
@pandarific - June 10th
@smilyT - June 10th
@db20 - June 11th
@notyetamumbuttrying - June 11th
@clolo - June 11th
@pixielou16 - June 11th
@bear127 - June 11th
@unluckyducky - June 11th
@selina37 - June 12th
@juno231 - June 12th
@noble89 - June 12th
@clairey844 - June 12th
@Mococo1 - June 13th
@tinks123 - June 13th
@Franklydear - June 15th
@sjones2588 - June 15th
@ss123456 - June 15th
@newbie9 - June 17th
@LV1987 - June 18th
@peanutbutterbrownies - June 18th
@sweetshop2020 - June 20th
@sydgal22 - June 20th
@Jodi3 - June 20th
@dontgojasonwaterfalls - June 21st
@maybe333 - June 22nd
@skip86 - June 28th
@missgoldilocks - June 28th
@katao - June 30th
@vp91x - June 30th
@sausage1990 - July 1st
@lucie91 - July 2nd
@dkdk123 - July 4th
@amy00 - July 5th

@lucyrp haha I don't think you're weird at all don't worry 😘 he blackmailed you?! Doesn't sound like a very nice guy 😩 we've all been there with some bad choices haha, Christ my ex had a whole other secret gf/life 😂😂 aw I think little girl babies are always so so cute 🥰 I'd obviously be just as happy with a boy or girl but little baby girl clothes really get me 🥺

@notyetamumbuttrying don't think any less of me please I know it sounds very odd 😬🙈 I can't wait to do it all properly this time, in a way it's going to be like having my first technically as things will be so different this time and I'm so looking forward to it and DS being a big brother 🥰

@notyetamumbuttrying thanks lovely 😘 although pretty much as soon as I sent that I felt a bit of an AF type stomach ache coming on 😩 so I'm expecting her tomorrow! 🙄 but better that than being in limbo I guess x

@Bear127 life eh! I've been through some shit but I'm still here!☺️ he loves him to pieces as obviously he thought he was his own until he was 1 so you can't switch off feelings for a child just like that. My OH doesn't seem to think much of it but then he is my ex 😂

@KateColx yeah blackmail!😬he definitely isn't but as someone said on here before I believe the pill makes you like people you wouldn't normally like and aren't compatible with and I was on the pill when I got with him so that explains a lot 🤣 Omg really thag sounds like my dad 😳😂 yeah I'd absolutely adore a little girl next I crave little flowery dresses and bloomers and being able to do crafts with them. DS doesn't sit still for long enough and breaks everything I want a gentle little girl like I was when I was little 🙈but like you say I don't mind either as long as it's a happy healthy baby!

Oh I LOVE baby girl clothes @KateColx the little dresses and bows, I melt! Aw well I hope she doesn't show anyway, hate bloody af, but yes, better than limbo!
No not at all @lucyrp we all have our stories!
Not even gonna share any of mine lol!

@lucyrp haha definitely let the pill take the blame for that one! Does he not have much to do with your little boy? 😂😂 does it? Yeah he was in the army and based near where I lived, so where he spent most of his time so I saw a lot of him then he'd go home every few weeks. Little did I know he actually had a pretty serious gf back home 🙈 I got a suspicion after some fb stalking and added her, she accepted and I could see she'd uploaded a photo of them together about 20 mins before, after he'd spent 3 hours on the phone to me on his way back 🙄 lads eh! Oh my god same, the cute little bloomers and bows too 😩 haha little boys are just wreckless aren't they, my nephew and niece are so different! She's so sweet and he's feral haha.

@notyetamumbuttrying I probably shouldn't have shared mine but that's not even half of it so I wouldn't worry 😂🙈🙈

@notyetamumbuttrying ooh me too 🥰🥰🥰🥰 I always say I wouldn't want to find out what we were having but I just know that I'd want to know if it was a girl so I could get her little wardrobe ready 😍

Haha I've just warned hubby that we're upping our game next month, he didn't say much just looked a little concerned 😂 I'm going to be going all @lucyrp on him 🤣

@KateColx 100%! He has him every week for a few hours one evening and sometimes on weekends for family parties etc but that's only mostly to look the part 🙄 he can't even feed him tea when he's there for two hours so dread to think what he'd be like if he had him over night! He's more of a trophy to him like look what I made and to impress people with! Yeah my dad was living a completely separate life on weekends he told us he was going fishing and then mum found out he was spending it with other women! Blokes eh! Boys are so different to girls! That's probably how I'd describe DS feral 😂😂

@KateColx yes do it 😏😏 I'm going to be doing th same next cycle if no BFP 😂

@lucyrp that sounds like such a lot to go through at such a young age!! No one would think badly of you at all! Sounds like you're an amazing mum to uour little boy and it's lovely he has 3 men who care about him 🥰🥰

Awww OMG I would LOVE a little girl. I literally dream about her / have her name ready and everything!! Obviously I'd love either but I can just see myself with girls!

Fuck it - think I'm gonna just test tomorrow! I don't think I can go another full day of thinking 'what if' j know I'll immediately regret this when it's a blank tomorrow but I've got an itch I need to scratch now! It's a clear blue early detection one so apparently it's 99% accurate up to 4 days before uour missed period! I'm thinking if I test tomorrow I'm only 1 day before so hopefully it would pick it up?

Although in the last 20 mins I have been feeling a bit crampy so knowing fate I'll wake up to AF and save myself the hassle!

Sorry girls I can't even catch up with these messages so don't think I'm rude not replying😩 but I need to vent, my friend messaged this morning asking if I wanted to go round and have a brew in the garden this evening, went round and I was chatting on and on like I do, suddenly she goes "are you done yet??" Pulls her jumper towards me and it says "baby in progress".... I'm so so happy for them and her and the OH are going to make amazing parents but when she was telling me about how it came about and when she found out and this scan I could feel myself welling up, she then FaceTimed her cousin to show her the scan when i was there, I had to go to the toilet, it sounds so selfish and maybe it's because I'm on but I just felt so emotional!!

@lucyrp makes sense to share that sort of story on here, I'm more talking about what a hoe bag I was back in the day lol! No one needs to hear that 😂

I would bloody love a girl so much! I'm
One of three sisters and have loads of girl cousins so have always wanted a girl @KateColx haha love that! I might go Lucy on my husband too if af comes on Friday. I kinda did that last month tho so waiting on the outcome...

So annoyed right now I'd written a right essay and clicked off and it bloody deleted it ffs! So here I go again.....

@lucyrp hope you feel a bit better. Sounds like OH is really looking after you! I'm really hoping for your BFP but if not I'm saving you a seat at the back of the bus next to me just in case 😘 x

@SmileyT why would you ruin perfectly good gin with ass fruit juice?!? X

Love both those bed sheets mine have got sparkly bits which look lovely but can be a bit scratchy! X

@Sausage1990 it doesn't sound like cervical erosion to me. I had it a few years back and it was pink blood and always after sex but never just randomly. I'm not saying it isn't but just doesn't sound like it to me x

@Skip86 I'm glad you came to that decision....you are strong and can do baby and renovation at the same time you'll make it look easy x

@TTCmummy2021 try and relax and take your minds off it if you can and test again in a few days to make sure I'm sure it will be darker by then!

Having my evening catch up in a boiling hot bath with a big glass of rose courtesy of AF 🍷🛁🌡

Oh yeah and is it just me who's grossed out by the thought of feeling my own cervix 🤮 x

Awww @Vil10 that sounds really hard!! I think it's 100% normal to feel a bit split in two in those moments!! You're sooo so happy for your friends and want the best for them but it just adds that extra bit of an ache when it's something you want so badly for yourself! I think it would be impossible not to feel emotional / a bit jealous! Xxx

@TTCgee that's how I see it! I'd rather he had 3 that love him than none at all! 🥰 I have very limited family since my mum and dad seperated as his family don't bother with me anymore so the more people that love and care about DS the better 🥰 I have been through a lot and I think that's partly why I feel a lot older than I actually am😂 it should pick it up but I would be weary as they require more HCG than an FRER so don't be too disappointed if nothing!

@Vil10 omg big hugs to you ! I would actually have hated that 😭I wouldn't even have been able to smile for her I probably would have cried right there and then ! Btw you sound like me I talk and talk and talk 😂

@notyetamumbuttrying hahah don't worry in that break I was on about I was quite a hoe bag too but I didn't mention that so shh🤫🤭😂

@Cocoblue22 he really is 🥰 aww thanks I'd love to sit next to you 😏😂x

Oh @Vil10 that sounds awful and your friend sounds really insensitive!! I hope you have a better day tomorrow lovely xx

@Coco22 - I hope you are right. This up and down emotional journey is exhausting 😒

@Vil10 - Completely understand how your feeling. My sister's due this month and i've found myself having a few wobbles over it all and just wanting to shut her out.

This might all be tmi but i've been for a wee a few times today and when i've wiped, i've had a fair amount of mucus, it's been like snot. It's not stretchy, not something i've had before.

Aww @Vil10 as I read that I honestly felt like I was punched in the stomach just imagining what you felt like. Totally natural reaction. It WILL be your time soon. Keep strong. 💕

Me @Cocoblue22 I don't fancy trying to find it 😂
Well one hoe story is a threesome in Ibiza @lucyrp if that'll whet your appetite 😝 my friend was in the next room with the guy she brought back 🙈
@Vil10 aww I feel for you! I woulda cried too, what a thing to go through. So hard when ppl don't know your ttc. Don't beat yourself up darlin, all of us here woulda felt and probably reacted the same!

@JustMouse nothing tmi here lol

@notyetamumbuttrying well aren't you a dark horse 🤭😂😂 thays something ive never done actually😉 interesting you minx!

@lucyrp that is a crazy situation but like the other girls said it's good that your little boy has so many people that love him. A girl my brother slept with when he was 16 turned up on our doorstep with our nephew when my nephew was 3 days old and dropped the news on my whole family and then left baby with us for the weekend - 18years later and my brother and my nephews mum still can't be in the same room so you're going well. And I'm a mortgage advisor - I just want to be housewife, cba working anymore 😴

Yay to being in TWW @DontGoJasonWaterfalls 🥳

Yeah I'm probably just mental all the time so don't notice the hormones as much 🙃 @notyetamumbuttrying

@Vil10 ahh I really feel for you, I honestly have no clue what I would do if one of my close friends announced a pregnancy now. It's totally okay to be a little jealous of what they have but just remember if you get pregnancy in the next few months you'll share the experience and have children that grow up together so it actually a positive xx

@Cocoblue22 yeah I'm not going to lie the ass juice definitely ruins the gin 😂

Also is it weird that I'm scared to have a girl, have no clue what to do with them, I have 3 nephews and love little boys, obviously would be happy with either but I just love the idea of my eldest being a boy and getting matching trainers with his dad x

@Vil10 That sounds so difficult! ☹️ I would hate to be in that situation as well. It sounds SO horrible but I am just hoping none of my friends or cousins announce whilst we are TTC I struggle enough seeing old school friends / strangers on fb and insta never mind someone I know well.