Tww currently 8dpo

[BethanyJadeXx]

Hello I'm posting because I'm currently waiting to find out whether I'm pregnant or not, my boyfriend and I are both 22.
The dilemma is that if I get a bfn this time around I won't be able to try again as this time was an accident... I have the upmost desire to be a mother and my boyfriend just doesn't feel ready. He said if I'm pregnant that he'll step up but he doesn't want to actively try... Any advice please?

If your boyfriend is not ready then you need to respect that. Or move on.

Good luck OP!

I believe that wanting to be parents, or otherwise, is something fundamentally important to a relationship. So, if it's a BFN, I would suggest that you and your bf use the opportunity to make sure that you're on the same wavelength about eventually having a family, and agree on a plan that you're both happy with, or at least get an indication of when to bring it up again.

I appreciate the advice. Thank you!

Hello, just an update here: I'm currently 10dpo and I've taken a test which is a bfn and my symptoms are fading so I think that's a sign that af is on its way...

On the off chance af doesn't come on the 11th I'll take a test then but I'm pretty sure it won't be necessary.

On discussion with my boyfriend he says he wants to wait 3 years or so to have children so I think I'll just have to get my baby fix by volunteering in a Nursery until the time is correct