Anyone TTC 2+ years

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We have been trying for three years and had two miscarriages.

Anyone else in the similar boat?

It is starting to make me very unhappy now and 8 mo the in after last MMC. It took over two years for conceive after first miscarriage. I am under the consultant now after last miscarriage due to age and time it has taken.

I'm temping and tracking and doing all the practical stuff and losing weight. And I'm fed up of it.

I haven't been trying for as long as you (a little over a year) but I've had multiple losses and am fed up with it too. Everyone else seems to be able to have a baby without too much difficulty and I really resent being the one in this situation.

Thank you and sorry for your losses 💐

Yes I'm feeling resentful and jealous. I am pretty much resigned to the fact I won't have a baby, whilst doing everything I can to have one. I am also older and didn't start ttc until I was just turned 37. So much heartbreak and so taboo I just wish everyone knew about it. I had awful time with my last miscarriage retained products so think that was physically traumatic.

The one that really got me was when I turned forty someone said "I thought you were only 30 - it must be because you don't have kids".

Yes it is heartbreaking OP, and people's stupid comments just make it worse, don't they?