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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

50 shades darker #pumpanddump (June Bus 3)

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SmileyT · 27/05/2020 22:23

On to a new bus... hopefully loads of BFPs to come 🙌🏾

@TheGirlWhoLived - May 28th 🤞
@Skip86 - June 1st
@RiverRoo - June 1st
@Runnergirl1 - June 2nd
@slimshadycousin - June 2nd
@LittleRa - June 3rd
@Amy00 - June 3rd
@lucyrp - June 4th
@Ltay2 - June 4th
@KateColx - June 4th
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@blodyn91 - June 6th
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@TTCgee - June 8th
@Cocoblue22 - June 9th
@watermelonwizard - June 9th
@Juno231 - June 9th
@Minster2012 - June 10th
@33Carr - June 10th
@notyetamumbuttrying - June 11th
@Pixielou16 - June 11th
@smileyT - June 11th
@Bear127 - June 11th
@unluckyducky - June 11th
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@Noble89 - June 12th
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Cocoblue22 · 31/05/2020 17:34

Been off for a few hours and 58 new Messages wowzers......just catching up ladies!!

@Skip86 oh noooo sorry to hear that. You could still get pregnant in June tho and get a BFP before the end of the month? Have you got other kids did you say? I can’t remember what everyone said at the beginning. X

Cocoblue22 · 31/05/2020 17:40

@slimshadyscousin woohoo congratulations 🎉 that’s deffo a BFP! X

@TheGirlWhoLived I think I can just make out a line. Can you try with a FR? X

@lucyrp do it do it! Haha 😈 x

lucyrp · 31/05/2020 17:50

@KateColx I am literally feeling everything and nothing at the same time if you know what I mean! So confusing. I feel like I'm totally out even before its begun! Sat watching BGT and eating ice cream 😂c

@Cocoblue22 I don't actually know where my PG tests are as OH has hidden them 😂

Runnergirl1 · 31/05/2020 17:55

@slimshadyscousin - congratulations. Lovely lines how many dpo are you??

Mococo1 · 31/05/2020 17:59

@skip86 sorry AF has arrived! But as everyone has said onto the next cycle now atleast you aren't being plagued by a shady late AF....those are the worst 👀👀 hoping this coming June Cycle is the one for you 🤞🏽

@slimshadycousin congratulations hoping those lines get darker for you and you have a happy and healthy 9months with a sticky bean 🥰

@juno321yay to you girl! Well done for getting some good sessions in, really hoping those speedy swimmers catch for you and result in a bfp! I got a full peak today at around 4pm so will be happily jumping on DH for the next 3 days

@lucyrp I've literally been waiting for you to test! 👀 Don't want to pressure you into doing so but I think your symptom spotting has us all on edge lol - have yourself a lovely gin and T tonight!

btw I read about biphasic Temp shifts basically a surge and then another so I'm wondering if that's what's happened with you?

@thegirlwholived do you have any internet cheapies I feel like I see a faint line on them with other pics (but I ALWAYS see a faint line on these pics even if it's negative lol) or perhaps test tomorrow morning? If not then 2 days after that praying for your bfp 🤞🏽

lucyrp · 31/05/2020 18:06

@Mococo1 when do people think I should test really ? I'm either 11dpo or 6dpo today so if we go by the second one when is the earliest I should ? Or should I wait for AF😂

lucyrp · 31/05/2020 18:07

@Mococo1 what did you mean about my temps? Il attach my graph now below lol

50 shades darker #pumpanddump (June Bus 3)
Minster2012 · 31/05/2020 18:08

Hey ladies, I’ve also been AWOL all day and much to catch up on @Skip86 I’m so sorry AF has arrived THE WITCH I hope you got yourself a good old bucket o wine to make yourself feel better and so bloody glad it was after your party. Sending LOADS of virtual hugs.

@slimshadyscousin MASSIVE congrats they look great 🤞🏻🤞🏻For sticky beans xxx 🥰

@TheGirlWhoLived def do another test in the morning 🤞🏻🤞🏻For you xxx

I’ve just met my gorgeous 6 week old nephew & he’s beautiful, he was even wearing a sleepsuit Of my boys is put away for my next baby I sent to them in in a massive box of stuff in lockdown when they didn’t have clothes to fit him after my SIL had a panic attach when they couldn’t go shopping & got told she needed to be induced. I had a massive cry then sending stuff I was thinking I was going to use in November for our next baby. God damn it I’m so broody 😣

lucyrp · 31/05/2020 18:16

@Minster2012 I would have cried 😳🙈 my friend keeps sending me pictures of her bubba not that I'm complaining but my womb aches everytime I see his little face and tiny hands and feet 😭

SmileyT · 31/05/2020 18:21

@lucyrp I say stick to the 4th... That means you'll be at least 10dpo if AF hasn't arrived by then and femometer is right you'll be late so will be a really good sign xx

Ahh @Minster2012 so nice you got to see your nephew and just remember all your kids will be growing up together and it will be fabulous someday very soon 😘

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DKDK123 · 31/05/2020 18:21

@slimshadyscousin congratulations 🥳🥳🥳 I love hearing success stories it brings more hope

lucyrp · 31/05/2020 18:23

@SmileyT you have so much self control! How do you do it 😂

Mococo1 · 31/05/2020 18:27

Sorry @lucyrp I meant the followOMG:

In the fall-then-rise pattern, a distinct rise is observed, temperatures drop or fall slightly again, and then rise again.
In these cases, use your other non-temperature tracking methods (cervical mucus or cervical positionn) or luteal phasee length to determine.

Did you track your CM? I mean it wouldn't hurt if you took a test but you know you won't truly be out until AF comes (hoping it doesn't!) and then u could wait another week. I mean the good thing is if you consider today 6dpo when you test you might be further along than you thought and get a nice solid line🤞🏽

also sorry I've lost track of the conversation but is this your first cycle post CP? Or did you have one inbetween? Ovulation can be everywhere post CP/MC and your body can attempt to ovulate fail and then ovulate a few days later which is why they have problems dating pregnancies that occur without a full cycle inbetween x

slimshadyscousin · 31/05/2020 18:29

Thank you everyone for your kind words!

@Runnergirl1 I am 11DPO today xx

lucyrp · 31/05/2020 18:33

@Mococo1 no I haven't tracked CM as being completely honest with you I couldn't get enough on my one finger to see what its like and not sure I could get my fingers up that far anyway would have to ask OH to do it every day for me 😂 I don't track my cervix position either as @SmileyT said if you're having sex every day it would change so no point tracking it

Yes this is my first cycle after my CP/MC so counting day 1 as the first day of my bleed from that

SmileyT · 31/05/2020 18:39

@lucyrp I should've said test whenever the hell you want... I'll be testing at 12dpo and that's only so I can get really drunk 13dpo before starting a new cycle 🤣 I've only been doing this a couple months but so far I've just not been bothered about testing early as i just feel like it's then longer until next fertile window, can't be arsed squinting at negative tests for a week. How are you feeling this afternoon? Xx

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Mococo1 · 31/05/2020 18:41

@lucyrp so apparently you're really fertile after so that's a good thing! It's just the timing can be a bit off sometimes- whereas some people snap back into it

All just depends If you can now resist the temptation to test then! Also I'm sorry if I confused you anymore 😭 but just know that whatever your temps are showing its totes normal 😬 hopefully you just get a sure sign symptom like extreme nausea and then you can test x

lucyrp · 31/05/2020 18:44

@SmileyT I get very anxious so I like winding myself up to worry obviously not on purpose but that's just a trait of mine!😂 ridiculous I know. Umm I feel okay, worrying but there's nothing I can do now so I need to relax as stress isn't good! Xx

Mococo1 · 31/05/2020 18:45

If we're going by the second dpo testing next Sunday would make you 12DPO or possibly 18DPO if you ov earlier! You've defo covered yourself this month

You can possibly enjoy a few more cheeky drinks if you test later?🤭

Mococo1 · 31/05/2020 18:46

Sorry @lucyrp didn't tag in the last post xx

lucyrp · 31/05/2020 18:47

@Mococo1 yeah I did hear that that some people are extremely fertile after a loss so 🤞🏼🤞🏼no its okay you didn't confuse me! I wish I would get an extreme symptom but I wouldn't be so lucky! With DS I was so sick I was really ill for 3 months I thought it was the flu and my mum suggested I did a test and I was pregnant at around 8 weeks so I was probably ill for the first month and then the pregnancy sickness carried it on! But in my second pregnancy I can't remember feeling any sickness apart from maybe slight nausea so god knows! Xx

watermelonwizard · 31/05/2020 18:50

Congratulations @slimshadyscousin !! Fantastic news x

lucyrp · 31/05/2020 18:50

@Mococo1 yeah I think in reality the earliest I would test is Thursday next week which would make me 10dpo. I can't do anymore than I can this month sex wise as we literally missed two days which were 3dpo and 4dpo 🤷🏼‍♀️ thay is true 😂xx

Pixielou16 · 31/05/2020 18:56

Catching up again!
Congratulations @RiverRoo and @slimshadyscousin ❤️❤️❤️
Sorry @Skip86 the witch got you. What a cow!
1DPO over here. Haven't banged so much in years 😂 gonna BD once more tonight and then have a little rest - we're both exhausted!
@SmileyT I had some pineapple core earlier but I've felt sick since- hoping I can stick it out for a few more days. Gonna do some more TWW research. Any tips anyone swears by? I'll do anything!!

Mococo1 · 31/05/2020 19:04

@lucyrp let's hope this week goes quickly then! Fingers crossed - if it's a massive solid line then you know you're way past🤞🏽🤞🏽

OV tomorrow so then my TWW will start which I've never had before so I'm bloody dreading it!!! any advice anyone for first timers on the TWW 🤣 @pixielou16 We need all the tips we can get hehe

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