50 shades darker #pumpanddump (June Bus 3)

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On to a new bus... hopefully loads of BFPs to come 🙌🏾

@TheGirlWhoLived - May 28th 🤞
@Skip86 - June 1st
@RiverRoo - June 1st
@Runnergirl1 - June 2nd
@slimshadycousin - June 2nd
@LittleRa - June 3rd
@Amy00 - June 3rd
@lucyrp - June 4th
@Ltay2 - June 4th
@KateColx - June 4th
@katao - June 4th
@OnNaturesCourse - June 5th
@blodyn91 - June 6th
@Vil10 - June 6th
@KRK05 - June 7th
@TTCgee - June 8th
@Cocoblue22 - June 9th
@watermelonwizard - June 9th
@Juno231 - June 9th
@Minster2012 - June 10th
@33Carr - June 10th
@notyetamumbuttrying - June 11th
@Pixielou16 - June 11th
@smileyT - June 11th
@Bear127 - June 11th
@unluckyducky - June 11th
@sarahttc2020 - June 11th
@notyetanumbuttrying - June 12th
@Noble89 - June 12th
@Mococo1 - June 13th
@Franklydear - June 15th
@J0DI3 - June 15th
@DontgoJasonWaterfalls - June 21st
@LV1987 - June 21st
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@lucyrp just saw your post now ! So I'm due on the 5th were quite similar. Have you began testing? ❤️

@kirsty0028 6dpo/11dpo. First date past ovulation is according my CB tests but the second is due to my basal temperature chart and I had spotting on Tuesday which finished yesterday/ day before which I didn't think I'd get straight after ov which is why I think the BBT is correct. AF due 3rd/8th 🤷🏼‍♀️ no I haven't started testing yet. Asked OH to hide my tests. Last cycle I had a CP so scared of getting my BFP anyway incase it disappears again ☹️

@kirsty0028 Yeah that's right. 10DPO is still early not everybody gets a BFP then, could have implanted later & says 2-4 days after implantation for a positive so your still not out yet. I'd give it 48 hours & test again 🤞🏻 harder says than done though 😝 when is your AF due?

@Skip86 Hahahaha u definitely dont sound like a snob, I am just jealous 😂 love the fact yous have that little set up for sleepovers (not the affairs part though 😂)

@lucyrp I feel meh today too, just feel in such a bad mood for no reason! OH is away to get our 123456 bbq of the week on today though so hopefully cheers me up. We were supposed to be out at families today but I was just in such a bad mood so there coming over to our garden instead.

@KRK05 I felt okay this morning but OH didn't want to get out of bed to start with and then I got into thag mood too. All I want to do is sleep ☹️ hopefully they'll cheer you up!

@Skip86 Ah sorry for any worry!! It was a bit scary at first as we had to rush to hospital and quickly ended up in surgery but once we knew the worst case scenario wasn't really that bad (the second surgery - which we have ended up with) it wasn't too worrying just the recovery to get through!

@lucyrp when I started having AF cramps a few days ago my mood immediately went south. It's such a roller coaster, but be kind to yourself and perhaps do something lovely to relax, even if just a face mask or a little walk.

@Ltay2 very glad to hear he's ok and it wasn't any of the dire possibilities my brain came up with! 🙃

@Ltay2 sorry to be nosey but I completely missed what you said was wrong with OH but I like the others thought the worst also! Glad he's okay

Just got my first flashing smiley with cb, gosh if I get this excited for that I can only imagine what I’ll do when I get a bfp 😂 only problem is I’m broken from my hangover today and in no mood for any BDing, I’m guessing as long we go at it in the morn it would still be ok? I have a feeling I’ll probably ovulate on the 4th, but I’ve seen some people on here say they have quite a few days of flashing smileys, I just don’t want not doing the deed tonight to be detrimental ha!

@SmileyT yeah i agree I think this was a good move for me. I mean a bit scary taking a step back from work but I think definitely needed. I have looked into meditation but not started anything formally yet. I'm looking at doing some meditation for anxiety and for fertility too.
It's time we started looking after ourselves as much as we look out for others 😊

I see @Ltay2 good to know what's what now. Hope his recovery isn't too long for you both!
Sounds like a wicked set up @Skip86! Nice to have that additional space too and change of scene too when we're being quarantined. It's getting better in aus now so I hear. I have a friend near Brisbane.
Hope you enjoy your umpteenth bbq today @KRK05 and it cheers you up. Progesterone's a bitch remember ladies and it increases the closer you get to your period and then drops off once you start bleeding so could explain the moods @lucyrp although mine stays high until day 3 of my period so I'm an absolute head case for 10 days straight every month 🤪

@Skip86 yeah it is pretty shitty ☹️☹️ might go for a walk after my dinner we're having chicken and bacon Caesar salad 😍 currently lay in the sun watching OH sort it out 😂

@notyetamumbuttrying I don't think OH is ready for me the next week or so 😂

Yeah mine is used to it now as we've been ttc 9 months lol @lucyrp enjoy your dinner sounds yum! We've just come for a lie down on the green close by as we don't have a garden (live in a flat) and had a Tesco meal deal lol! Got some g&t tinnies but I haven't had one yet as felt a tad nauseous after yesterday's drinking and sun.

@LucyRp here's hoping you are at 11dpo and then you'll have your answer much sooner ❤️🥰 fingers and toes crossed for you !

Thank you @KRK05. I've been feeling things like what I believe to be related to implantation both yesterday and day before, and I'd love to think that I have a good grasp on my body so hoping I'm right but dare not say I have "the feeling" AF not due till Friday and crampy again today so hoping that's a good sign. I would never cramp this early. Only other symptom is my super high heart rate, and the twinges over passed few days. This is first day starting to doubt everything tho with the FRER. I think maybe I was expecting at least a hint Cos up. Until this morning I had only used amazon cheapies ❤️ can't think about anything else today l!! It's driving me crazy!

@notyetamumbuttrying oooo that sounds fun! This is my dinner 🤤 I've just got Diet Coke but may indulge in a cider later 😂

Mmm looks yummy @lucyrp and much healthier than my blt and packet of squares lol! I have some fruit to eat next tho. Berries and grapes 😋

@notyetamumbuttrying not sure the gallons of dressing are that healthy but il telling myself it is 😂😂 we're going to have some fruit for pudding too 😋 going to have to do something this afternoon to cheer myself up

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About to go to bed and went to the loo - AF in all her glory. And it's not even bloody June ffs.

@Skip86 noooo😭 big hugs to you 💗

Haha I did notice that @lucyrp but yummy all the same eh 😏
Aww sorry to hear @Skip86! How many months of ttc is that then? At least cd1 is out the way quite quickly!

@Minster2012 I've been off hormonal contraception for about 7 years and since ttc I still can't tell if it's ovulation or wind, tbh if I didn't get positive opks I'd probably think it was happening every other day as now I think about it I seem to get twinges a lot 🙈 ooh love drink til your pink 🥂

@kirsty0028 as the other ladies have said the chances of a positive at 10dpo are still quite low, the average women starts pregnancy 9dpo and then won't show up on a pregnancy test until 11-13dpo think this is why so many people say to wait until 13dpo for an accurate result although I know it's easier said than done. Try and focus on something else today, enjoy the sun and the morning to test again will be here sooner than you think x

@firsttimetry hopefully these are all good signs 🤞

@lucyrp sorry you are feeling a bit shit, think it's always worse if you don't know what's going on inside, just try and have a chilled one today, loads of cuddles with your little boy and you will know either way very soon. Also no sex in the TWW seems crazy that would mean only having sex one week out of the month 🤯 - lunch looks lush.

@Skip86 definitely don't sound like a snob sounds like a great setup, I'd love to have a family home out in the burbs and keep our place in London for when we come in to visit family, hopefully in 10years time if I stop wasting all my money at the hairdressers this will happen 😂 - ahh just seen before I posted that AF has started, I'm sorry, but just think it's the start of a new cycle and not long before you are back in fertile week ❤️

@Sydgal22 if you're expecting ovulation on the 4th having sex in the morning won't make any real difference xx

I've just got in from a nice catch up with friend in the park, OH has cut up some pineapple because apparently that helps with implantation and cooking me some brunch 🥰

@notyetamumbuttrying I'm not sure how I'd count number of months - started try Nov '19 and were v lucky to get pregnant in Dec, but had MMC at 11 wks in Feb. This was our first month back at it again.

@RiverRoo - congratulations. hopefully I can follow suit In the next day or so 🤞🏻

@Skip86 Sorry to see AF got u, sending hugs ❤

I get twinges a lot too @SmileyT I used to always think there was something wrong with me, there might still be lol! Enjoy your pineapple, I'm gonna tuck into some too!
@Skip86 ah yes I remember now. Sorry to hear about your MMC. First month bk trying is not too bad then, wish you all the best hun.
@Runnergirl1 ooh looking forward to your results!

@smileyt thanks so much for being so kind 😊 you're very good for responding to everybody l. I hope your own experience is going ok? ❤️