50 shades darker #pumpanddump (June Bus 3)

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On to a new bus... hopefully loads of BFPs to come 🙌🏾

@TheGirlWhoLived - May 28th 🤞
@Skip86 - June 1st
@RiverRoo - June 1st
@Runnergirl1 - June 2nd
@slimshadycousin - June 2nd
@LittleRa - June 3rd
@Amy00 - June 3rd
@lucyrp - June 4th
@Ltay2 - June 4th
@KateColx - June 4th
@katao - June 4th
@OnNaturesCourse - June 5th
@blodyn91 - June 6th
@Vil10 - June 6th
@KRK05 - June 7th
@TTCgee - June 8th
@Cocoblue22 - June 9th
@watermelonwizard - June 9th
@Juno231 - June 9th
@Minster2012 - June 10th
@33Carr - June 10th
@notyetamumbuttrying - June 11th
@Pixielou16 - June 11th
@smileyT - June 11th
@Bear127 - June 11th
@unluckyducky - June 11th
@sarahttc2020 - June 11th
@notyetanumbuttrying - June 12th
@Noble89 - June 12th
@Mococo1 - June 13th
@Franklydear - June 15th
@J0DI3 - June 15th
@DontgoJasonWaterfalls - June 21st
@LV1987 - June 21st
@firsttimetry
@Sausage1990

Definitely not @TheGirlWhoLived 😂 good luck for Monday! Buzzing for all those testing Monday!!
I'm amazed at the amount of announcements between our friends now, I wonder if it's just cos we're hyper aware now @Minster2012. Wow that woman sounds like a right nut job!! What an oddball thing to say and mindset.

@SmileyT I’ll deffo keep an eye on it then, tbh it’s hard not to keep an eye on it when it’s there in my thong😂 sesame seeds help? I picked up some Brazil nuts today and had pineapple with my dinner everyday this week😂 if I don’t get my BFP this month I’m going to start having grapefruit juice too!

@Minster2012 I would have said something..
Probably that rhymes with ‘stop being a duckwit” 🦆

Thank you @SmileyT! I really hope so too.
Feel like it'll be devastating this time round as we've done it more, I ovulated later, took different prenatal's. I'll just feel like it'll be a right kick in the teeth if it doesn't 😢 ahh hope you get to see your nephews soon hun! Enjoy your wine! I've been on the ciders today, might start on the wine in a bit 🙈

Evening all ... sorry didn’t realise we were on bus #3 I’m so behind! Just posted this onto the last three so cutting and pasting it onto here because I just need to moan quite frankly 😩 sorry to lower the tone ☹️ I’m just gutted!
Hi everyone! Just checking in again! I haven’t been keeping up to date and didn’t even notice the June bus #2!
More news today from me... after having faint positives last month (1st cycle TTC (trying to conceive) baby #2) I then got a few negatives and went on to have my period on my normal day after some light spotting. Put it all down to a missed misscarriage.
A week on from my period finishing and we have been DTD (doing the deed) as I’m Due to be ovulating in a couple of days... been out on a lovely walk to the park today my SIL (sister-in-law) announces she’s 10 was pregnant which already made me feel empty inside. And then I get home to find I’ve been bleeding all day and didn’t feel it?? So I’m nowhere near my period and bleeding/spotting (can’t tell but it’s more than spotting not quite bleeding and I’m not having any pain or anything??)
Called out of hours and they said it sounds like it is a miscarriage and I just have the rest of it making it’s way out. ☹️ Just gutted. So that’s obviously us out of the count for this month now aswell! The doctor said in very rare cases it could continue to a healthy pregnancy but surely I wouldn’t have got my usual period and then no bleeding regular discharge for a week and now leading up to ovulation start bleeding again?!
I’ve got a pad on, ordered a Chinese and feeling sorry for myself 😪
Best of luck to everyone who is on this journey I hope it is the lucky month for you 💞

@Vil10 there is something called seed cycling where you have different ground up seeds for the 1st half and 2nd half of cycle but not sure how much difference it can really make 😂 ooh I forgot about pineapple might try and get some 👌🏾

@notyetamumbuttrying yeah I know what you mean, if you are doing everything right you just wonder what else you can do... are you still planning to test on the 11th?

@MrsDh2019 sorry for what you are going through, loss is so hard and compounded by other pregnancy announcements. Was your period normal length? I know that sometimes with a loss straight after implantation there can be spotting afterwards, are you testing for ovulation as you may still ovulate soon even when spotting. Following my MC I ovulated about a week after spotting ended, so don't count yourself out. Enjoy your Chinese and look after yourself xx

@PirateWeasel
An ovulation buddy-I'm 4dpo too (I think)!
Fingers crossed for positive news for all of us x

I said on the other thread @MrsDh2019 but I really am very sorry to hear you're going through this. Ttc is a cruel, cruel journey! I hope you recover soon 💖

Yeah the 11th @SmileyT may as well! Are you?

Cheers ladies I know right! @TheGirlWhoLived totally rhymes with duckwit

@MrsDh2019 I saw the post on the other thread & replied, I’m so sorry about this shitty day for you. About your SIL & the MC. It’s a shit of shitter & no one deserves it. Sending massive hugs, & I hope that Chinese tastes extra good & you get yourself an extra large wine. Your body will return to normal but might take some time.

Hey ladies just popping in on my way home from the food shop. Haven't had a chance to catch up on everything yet but just saying hi before I do the mammoth task of putting my shopping away and then pour myself a nice glass of cider or gin I haven't decided yet 🥰🍸

Oh @MrsDh2019 that’s a really shit time for you. Look after yourself. You never really know and I so hope it turns out not to be- but sometimes realism hurts less x

Hubby's just said he doesn't mind doing an at home sperm test. Anyone know if these are worth it?!

@SmileyT thank you I had no idea that was even possible! My period was on time and lasted 7 days rather than my usual 5 days! I’ve had no bleeding since and now I’m like 2 days away from my expected ovulation and started bleeding again 😩 I had my first baby at the same time as her and so I knew it would be neck and neck as to who had the second baby and didn’t want to be pregnant together again so maybe it is all for a reason. 😪🤷🏻‍♀️
Thank you so much @notyetamumbuttrying I really appreciate you taking the time to reply I hope everything works out for you soon ❤️
@Minster2012 Shit of a shitter just gave me a good giggle! 😆 I’m definitely cracking open the gin tonight!
I love all the encouragement and being able to confide in you all thank you so much! 💞🙌🏼

Cheers girls 😘💞

Wow I think this is a new record... I've not checked in for maybe 36hrs and we've got from page 5 to 27!!!! Wow!!! Haha 😂😂

I apologise for all the stuff I have clearly missed but just wanted to pop on an say hi.
It's cd4 for me in cycle #5. Its been a humdinger of an af this time around hence taking a step back from MN for a few days. I tend to have longer cycles but I'm hoping for a more normal 35days rather than the hefty 62days this time.

So it's not strictly TTC related but I've been signed off sick from work for the next few weeks, due to anxiety and stress. I've not really wanted to admit the issues but now I have and I'm taking a step back (on GP's advice)... As an aside, I'm really hoping this will also help my cycles settle down again... Maybe this was mother nature telling me that the stressful environment wasn't the one to grow a baby in... Let's hope that after some time off my mind and body gets back into a healthier rhythm 🤞🏻

Anyone else had experience of anything like this? X

Cheers ladies 🍸🍸 just sitting down to catch up now

Hi ladies, cheers to the weekend, I’m having a pint of orange squash with lots of ice

Anyone testing tomorrow (or re-testing for a darker line)? I’m hoping to make it to Monday, but might crack and try a cheeky one tomorrow (will be 11dpo tomorrow).

I still don’t really have any symptoms, expect I’ve been a bit emotional! I went supermarket with DP earlier and he decided to get a new knife bloke for the kitchen and when we got to the till, the guy asked for ID! I hadn’t thought anything of it and didn’t have any on me, I’m 34! I am quite young looking and get asked often for ID for alcohol. DP had his and showed it but he said we both needed it! I was shocked and said, “oh I’m sorry I didn’t think, I’m 34!” and then the guy said “well do you want to see what that police man over there has to say about it!!” I looked behind me and there was a police officer in uniform but he was doing his shopping lol, going through a self service till buying a greetings card! I was like whaaaattt 😱 you can’t be serious?! And burst into tears! The guy was like “erm ok ok, just remember it next time” and quickly moved on!
I actually remember having a cutlery related meltdown in the supermarket last time I was pregnant with my DD too, where I needed some plastic knives for work and they only had bags that had knives, forks AND spoons in and I was crying to my now ex-h “but I don’t neeeeed the forks and spoons, I just need knives!!!” 😂😂
So it would be so funny if my indicating symptom was “cries in the supermarket about knives”!!

@LittleRa omg that made me giggle 😂😂 I'm 11dpo/6dpo tomorrow and im trying my best not to test tomorrow!😂🙈

I have caught up with everyone now but there's too much to @ everyone! Currently sat in the garden enjoying a cold drink with OH its lovely🥰

@lucyrp your drink looks lush!

So wifey is getting soooooomany symptoms and has only had them whenever she’s been pregnant before! This will still be our first live baby though if she is...... MASSIVE boobs, veiny boobs, tender boobs, big nipples, metallic taste in the mouth, REALLY tired, farting for Britain, sore back, low cramping (around 6/7DPO so thinking implantation potentially), spot break and so glad I can put this one but super hormonal and whinging!! Really hoping this one works!! We are due to test on Monday 8th June if I can be added to the header 🤩

Anyone else having similar symptoms or at the same place as us??

@TheGirlWhoLived yep to drink till it’s pink! I’m
Deffo not pg atm so enjoying some wine today! Sat out now in our garden with wood burner on yay! X

@Ltay2 woohoo 🎉 so glad your OH is feeling better hopefully you will get plenty of 🍆🍆🍆 maybe bang him gently to start with but hopefully his swimmers will be on top form after a good rest!! X

@Minster2012 she sounds like a dick! I would have left too! X

@LV1987 boo to Sainsbury’s x

Haha that really made me lol @LittleRa!
All sounds promising @TTCmummy2021! I'm only 2dpo so not gonna look into my symptoms yet. I always have twinges tho so I'm always thrown whenever af shows as I'm always shocked that I'm not pregnant!