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50 shades darker #pumpanddump (June Bus 3)

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SmileyT · 27/05/2020 22:23

On to a new bus... hopefully loads of BFPs to come 🙌🏾

@TheGirlWhoLived - May 28th 🤞
@Skip86 - June 1st
@RiverRoo - June 1st
@Runnergirl1 - June 2nd
@slimshadycousin - June 2nd
@LittleRa - June 3rd
@Amy00 - June 3rd
@lucyrp - June 4th
@Ltay2 - June 4th
@KateColx - June 4th
@katao - June 4th
@OnNaturesCourse - June 5th
@blodyn91 - June 6th
@Vil10 - June 6th
@KRK05 - June 7th
@TTCgee - June 8th
@Cocoblue22 - June 9th
@watermelonwizard - June 9th
@Juno231 - June 9th
@Minster2012 - June 10th
@33Carr - June 10th
@notyetamumbuttrying - June 11th
@Pixielou16 - June 11th
@smileyT - June 11th
@Bear127 - June 11th
@unluckyducky - June 11th
@sarahttc2020 - June 11th
@notyetanumbuttrying - June 12th
@Noble89 - June 12th
@Mococo1 - June 13th
@Franklydear - June 15th
@J0DI3 - June 15th
@DontgoJasonWaterfalls - June 21st
@LV1987 - June 21st
@firsttimetry
@Sausage1990

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SmileyT · 30/05/2020 06:19

@Sydgal22 erm it's very hard and kinda a personal choice as I don't think the evidence is very clear cut but everyone I know has continued to work out until the point they got pregnant but I worked out very intensely in my last pregnancy and it did make me wonder if that contributed to my MC so I'd personally calm it down if I got pregnant again, but probably not until pregnancy was confirmed. I know a lot of people that train all the way through pregnancy and have healthy babies so I dunno 🤷🏾‍♀️

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SmileyT · 30/05/2020 06:39

@kate890 - May 30th
@kirsty0028 - May 30th
@RiverRoo - May 31st
@Skip86 - June 1st
@thegirlwholived - June 1st
@fashu - June 2nd
@Runnergirl1 - June 2nd
@slimshadycousin - June 2nd
@LKSF - June 2nd

Just a reminder of those that are testing in the next 4 days (or at least what my list says)... hope you are all staying positive🤞 for you all xx

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lucyrp · 30/05/2020 07:02

@Mococo1 yeah I definitely wasn't given any support and I'm not even sure if it was a CP from my weeks worked out it would have been a miscarriage so unsure why I was just poo pood 🤷🏼‍♀️☹️ and in regards to OH I feel like I'm the opposite to you I'm more positive than OH he thinks we're never going to get pregnant 🙈 I'm like come on we've got a chance and he's like no I don't think we will my sperm are broken etc but we've been pregnant twice together before but obviously haven't had the baby but I though that was just a men thing to think that their swimmers don't work.

@SmileyT yeah it definitely is when something's broken in your brain, you get it before you have a stroke or a heart attack etc 😬😬😬 i mean its gone now so I'm hoping thete was actually something even tho OH couldn't smell it 😳

@RiverRoo fingers crossed for you that line gets darker and we'll be able to congrats you soon. Keep us updated 🤞🏼💗

@Sydgal22 me and @blodyn91 we're talking about this on here the other day she said that it is recommended that you do HIIT and any other intense exercise in the two weeks between the start of your cycle and ovulation and in the time period after that you calm it down a bit I believe. Makes sense as before ovulation I'm very motivated etc and after ovulation I find mySelf to be more tired and "fragile" ??

lucyrp · 30/05/2020 07:03

Morning girls 🥰🥰

I thought my spotting had eased up last night and just popped to the loo now and nothing so I'm hoping that's it done, had some dull aches/cramping around my ovaries last night so 🤞🏼 what's everyone up to today??xxx

Vil10 · 30/05/2020 07:06

@lucyrp I’m feel so positive for you!! I’m going to get the food shop done this morning, go for a nice walk then going to the OH uncles for a bbq, naughty I know but it’s only us 2 and his uncle and aunty, and their garden is plenty big enough for us not to be right next to each other! What have you got planned for today?xx

lucyrp · 30/05/2020 07:10

@Vil10 🤞🏼🤞🏼 I really need to go food shopping actually there's literally nothing in the house l, my fruit bowl and veg draw are completely empty apart from a few limes 😂 I might go for a small walk but have to wear flip flops because of my blisters 🙈 me and OH and my friend (naughty too but she lives by herself 30 secs away) we're going to have burritos tonight from a local cafe who are doing takeaways at the moment but they cancelled so probably end up having a bbq too😍 I think my FRERS are arriving today so they're going to be burning a hole in my bathroom cupboard all day 😂xx

Vil10 · 30/05/2020 07:19

@lucyrp hahaha that’s me too, I have a bag of limes and a few onions! It’s so easy to get out of routine though with everything that’s going on! Well we’re allowed from Monday so a few days before won’t hurt will it! That sounds lovely though!! Hahaha I think you should test tomorrow for all of us so we don’t have to wait for the result! What cycle are you in?xx

lucyrp · 30/05/2020 07:23

@Vil10 😂😂I have limes and garlic 😂 yeah I definitely avoid the supermarket as much as I can at the moment and I like dragging OH in with me so he can push the trolley while I chuck things in😂 technically this is my first cycle tracking, we've been trying since August last year but didn't track xx

Franklydear · 30/05/2020 07:41

Morning
I don’t know if I updated yesterday, as it was quite a hectic day for me, went to the doctors office, in person, I know, sorry, shielding so don’t get much excitement... my mysterious disabling headache seems to have been cause by my blood pressure, so we are going to monitor that for a bit, and hopefully that is what pinned me down, I used to walk a lot, everywhere and obviously for the last 10 weeks haven’t really used the front door...

Franklydear · 30/05/2020 07:41

@lucyrp I got shopping coming tomorrow, but I am afraid there is a lot more I recreated and biscuits than veg

lucyrp · 30/05/2020 07:50

@Franklydear I can't get a delivery slot from a supermarket anywhere on line at the moment so have to go myself 😂

Vil10 · 30/05/2020 07:58

@lucyrp I can’t get my OH anywhere near a supermarket!! He hates it, he’s so impatient so hates the waiting and hates that I have to get look for the best dates so take longer than what he usually would if he went on his own😂 that’s the same as me, I came off the pill 31st Jan but had an operation in Feb so feb and beginning of March he couldn’t even touch me let alone DTD, and then the rest of March and April I was all over the place so had no idea when I was ovulating and I weren’t tracking either, so classing May as our first cycle!xx

lucyrp · 30/05/2020 08:08

@Vil10 mine isn't the biggest fan of them but he comes along to make sure I remember everything for his lunch box for work 😂😂 I never knew tracking was so complicated! Xx

Cocoblue22 · 30/05/2020 08:31

Morning all!!

@lucyrp I wouldn’t be able to wait if I were you! I’m completely convinced you’re PG! If you don’t get BFP I’d be very disappointed after your shagathon!! 🤣 I agree with @Vil10 test test test! Haha nothing like a bit of peer pressure....only joking of course you do it when you’re ready we’re just all so excited for you!! X

@Franklydear oh no that doesn’t sound too good make sure you look after yourself! X

Just catching up on all the posts from last night and this morning....really sorry to hear all the stories about losses. I have been lucky not to experience it myself but know lots of women who have and it’s just awful. Hoping you all get your BFPs this month and have healthy happy babies x

Cocoblue22 · 30/05/2020 08:32

@RiverRoo really excited for you! Let us know how it goes when you re test!! X

firsttimetry · 30/05/2020 08:35

Hi everyone!
Just trying to catch up on everything.

Can I please have some help?

It's my first month of measuring BBT. I've read up on it all but I'm still not 100%. What am I looking for for ovulation? A dip or a peak in temp?

Thank you!

LittleRa · 30/05/2020 08:38

So exciting that people are starting to test from this bus!!!
@RiverRoo did you have symptoms before you tested? Good luck!
I’m 10dpo (AF due 3rd June) and have zero symptoms. First month off the pill so not holding out too much hope this time.

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 30/05/2020 08:41

I'm so excited to start hearing test results 😁😁😁 get peeing on them sticks!

I'm still waiting for fertile week to arrive 🙄 I'm very excited about TTC this month, I'm sure the novelty will wear off very quickly

lucyrp · 30/05/2020 08:50

@Cocoblue22 I know I think I'm scared to get the negative or a faint positive because I still don't think I'm going to get overly excited until I have a scan this time 🙈 think I'm going to book a private 6-8 week scan if and when I get my BFP so OH can come too and a bit of reassurance. Shagathon!😂😂x

Minster2012 · 30/05/2020 09:02

Morning!

Where’s @Skip86 this morning 🤔I hope you are ok and looking forwards to your birthday BBQ party this evening sister??

@Sydgal22 I’ll give you the advice we got from IVF (which don’t forget is aimed at ppl who have had lots of problems) they said after embryo transfer (which would be when the sperm meets egg) they advise no twisting or pulling exercises so I was told no boxercise for TWW to lay off core for that first week just to give it the best shot possible. Everything else was fair game if you usually do it. But honestly when first trying you can stay as you are Cos you are prob v healthy ppl tend to ease off if they’ve not conceived for a while

@Kate890 good luck if you are testing

& @kirsty0028 everything crossed too you mentioned some good signs!!

@RiverRoo yay 💕🥳🙌🏻First faint positive!! We need a pic for the first one!! Congrats!

@lucyrp I think everyone’s very invested in your weeing on a stick too when you do after your marathon shagging!!

@LittleRa I feel the same, very excited for ppl too

@Dontgojasonwaterfalls I feel like that, this month has been great, but I think the fun will wear off pretty quickly whenAF arrives fo me

We had our first instance of “oh love I don’t think I can finish” last night luckily he perserved as I turned over & shoved my ass in the arm for doggy & went “what not even like this??” & wiggled it (I had already orgasmed! It might have been due to the bottle of red wine he had been consuming saying “have you drunk any of this it’s nearly empty?” No love I’m drinking rose & sparkling water 🤦🏼‍♀️

Cocoblue22 · 30/05/2020 09:22

@LittleRa I’m like you not holding too much hope since it’s CD19 still not LH surge so thinking my monitor either missed it or it’s not happening this month! Did you have your LH surge/peak? I’ll probs be on the July bus! X

@lucyrp I will deffo be booking a 6-8 week scan for reassurance I didn’t last time we found out before AF and waited until the 12 week scan but it felt like forever. I think as well given the situation it would be nice just to check all is going okay. After 12 weeks we had them every 3-4 weeks had a 16week gender scan then the 20 week then I’m ‘high risk’ so had to have them every 4 weeks. It was lovely getting to see him so much. We also paid for a 4d scan at 28weeks so our parents could come and see too our mums both cried x

I’ve just had a chocolate orange muffin for breakfast.....starting the day off right 🙄 xx

Sydgal22 · 30/05/2020 09:28

@minster2012 thanks for the advice, that makes sense to me, so hard to know isn’t it! My partner (who as I mentioned previously) is quite overweight but used to be huge into cycling is considering getting back into it to lose weight but is worried about swimmers but I think if you asked any doc they would chose losing weight over being worried about swimmers at this point!

I am very excited for people to poas I feel like the more positives we have the more lucky I feel is that weird?! @lucyrp I’ve been reading for signs and I’m so hopeful for you!

@DontGoJasonWaterfalls I’m also so excited for FW but feel the exact same about novelty wearing off 😂 what are your dates this month? According to flo my FW starts tomorrow but this is my first time tracking with CB OPKs so will see!

I’m here enjoying a class of red, my last for awhile, will probably hold off on the booze in front of OH for the next couple of weeks, he is quite opinionated that it’s bad for potential future baby, but if we do get preg it’s a long road ahead for me without a wine 😂

Hope everyone’s having a great weekend :)

slimshadyscousin · 30/05/2020 09:28

Morning everyone, 10DPO today and tested this morning. I have a proper squinter! What do you all think?

50 shades darker #pumpanddump (June Bus 3)
akuma08 · 30/05/2020 09:30

What is BFP?

lucyrp · 30/05/2020 09:31

@Minster2012 hopefully il have some good news for everyone soon 🤞🏼🥰

@Cocoblue22 yeah it will literally feel like forever if I have to wait 8 weeks for scan I can't wait that long and I know OH won't fully believe it until he sees it on the screen either so will be good for both of us🥰

@slimshadyscousin I can definitely see a very faint line there!

@Sydgal22 yay I can't believe I'm near the end of this cycle already 🙈🙈

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