50 shades darker #pumpanddump (June Bus 3)

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On to a new bus... hopefully loads of BFPs to come 🙌🏾

@TheGirlWhoLived - May 28th 🤞
@Skip86 - June 1st
@RiverRoo - June 1st
@Runnergirl1 - June 2nd
@slimshadycousin - June 2nd
@LittleRa - June 3rd
@Amy00 - June 3rd
@lucyrp - June 4th
@Ltay2 - June 4th
@KateColx - June 4th
@katao - June 4th
@OnNaturesCourse - June 5th
@blodyn91 - June 6th
@Vil10 - June 6th
@KRK05 - June 7th
@TTCgee - June 8th
@Cocoblue22 - June 9th
@watermelonwizard - June 9th
@Juno231 - June 9th
@Minster2012 - June 10th
@33Carr - June 10th
@notyetamumbuttrying - June 11th
@Pixielou16 - June 11th
@smileyT - June 11th
@Bear127 - June 11th
@unluckyducky - June 11th
@sarahttc2020 - June 11th
@notyetanumbuttrying - June 12th
@Noble89 - June 12th
@Mococo1 - June 13th
@Franklydear - June 15th
@J0DI3 - June 15th
@DontgoJasonWaterfalls - June 21st
@LV1987 - June 21st
@firsttimetry
@Sausage1990

@unluckyducky, I did catch that thread, I don't think I would like it, maybe 10/12 weeks along only, I want to enjoy the pregnancy, rather than get panic ready

@lucyrp That all sounds v.positive for you! Good luck!! 🤞🏻

@SmileyT My OH is the same, I just put my feet up on the sofa and get foot rubs 🤷🏼‍♀️ I think we’ve got good’ns 😂

@Minster2012 Fingers crossed for you too with the CM! Your body’s obviously trying to do something 😊

@Bear127 @SmileyT if I put my feet on OH I'd get "get your feet off me" screamed ag me and a funny look on his face 😂 and thank you trying not to think about it too much 🙈

Oh my god i saw that thread @unluckyducky !! I can't even imagine that. I am very pregnant when pregnant. Like no way that could happen.

@unluckyducky aw no sorry to hear about your CP 😔 so sad for it to be taken away so quickly. It's crazy until I joined MN id really never given much thought to pregnancies not running smoothly, it's probably not something people talk about day to day very often. I think when I do eventually fall pregnant the first few weeks will be scary. Fingers crossed this month is a lucky one for you 🤞🏻 x

@lucyrp these are the ones I got, I'm not sure how good they are but they definitely help my POAS addiction to not end in bankruptcy 😂 x

@katao I just looked like a put a bit of weight untill 7 months, then looked 9 months until the end
I also didn't have any asthma symptoms at all, so I enjoyed normal life, that was the last time I could run without ugly consequences

Hello all, I’ve not read all so going to go back through now but please may I join? 30, TTC#2, due to test 7th June.

Wow ladies. One day off the phone and I have to spend over a hour catching up with you all lol

Happy Birthday Skip - hope you've had a fabulous day, and even better bonking!

Lucy - that sounds like everything I read about implantation bleeding so fingers crossed!

I wish I had to worry about spit and sperm... OP hates receiving it, he's super sensitive! So just kinda jumps to jump! He does have magic fingers though so I really can't complain.

DPO 6 here, boobs not sore anymore but left nipple ultra sensative but I am super bloated and crampy. I really hope its not AF because either this cycle is going to be super short, or I'm in for another 8 days of feeling crap.

@Franklydear I struggle to hide my bump until 12 weeks 🙈
Also suffer hyperemesis so no way I wouldn't know l was pregnant. And extremely active babies, especially my first he never stopped dancing in their 😂

@KateColx I’m the same, I’d never even heard of a chemical pregnancy or missed miscarriage until I joined these threads because it’s just not something people talk about. I’m so glad there are these forums for people to share their experiences and get support when they need it. Sending lots of love and luck to anyone who’s been through it!

Sorry girls got lots to catch up on, been busy giving the OH a lockdown haircut 😂😂🙈

@KateColx Everyone always seems to recommend every 2nd day for sperm quality & quantity. Even trying get hubs on board for every other day for FW & just normal for before or after. Orrrrr if u know your average peak day u can use your woman ways to seduce him & he wont know 😝 but everything crossed & it's a BFP 🙏🏼 I haven't had any symptoms tbh, had cramping feelings & like tugging for 2 days but nothing today, I'm hoping it wasnt ovulation pains cause I have not been in the mood for anything so if it is then missed our chance at ovulation 🙈

PS YAY TO THE EARLY TESTERS 🙌🏼🙌🏼 @KateColx @lucyrp @unluckyducky who's going first 🙄😂 just to add I totally promised myself I wouldnt do it this cycle but I need to POAS 🤷🏼‍♀️

Did anyone see the thread about a woman feeling something roll in her tummy and found out she was 6 months pregnant? THAT is what I want!

Absolute GOALS @unluckyducky. I loved labour and birth but hated pregnancy.

Ahhhh... I'm just using this space as a sounding board, so apologies in advance for the self-indulgent post but I got my peak tonight - exact same cycle day as last month (so not a shock at all) and OH is again too tired/ stressed/ cycled too much/whatever other BS excuse he wants to use, so we've not been able to get it done tonight. Yes I love him and he is a great partner and treats me like a princess but I can't get pregnant with foot rubs ffs. I'm now fuming and I know it's not fair because realistically if I cba I can just lay there and he has to actually produce the goods but I just feel so frustrated. I reckon I'll ovulate today and if I had read this post from one of you ladies I'd be saying it only takes one swimmer but I just don't feel like we've done everything we can which is so frustrating. RANT OVER. I'll feel better in the morning after 4hrs sleep I'm sure 😩😩😩

Oh @SmileyT that sucks, I completely understand why you'd be feeling upset. Yeah it takes one swimmer and all that blah blah, but science and reason aside, this is more an emotional upset about your OH not understanding the anxiety of sex/ov/TTC in general, and how the effect that his complacency (this one time at least) has on you. I hope you're getting a good sleep now and you can make up (and make up sex) in the morning xx

Thanks for all the bday love girl!! I think I got more well wishes here than in real life! Haha.

10DPO and, at risk of sounding like a complete defeatist, I'm pretty sure AF is on the way for me. I have been pregnant many times (I am a fertile bitch, but not so great at being an incubator), and I know the preg feeling vs AF for me, and this is not my month! She's a-comin in the next few days! My cycles are 26-8 days though so I could hold on and have another June cycle!

Good morning/or still night... I woke up, DH let me go to bed early and he stayed up with the insomniac, even know he'll get up at 4.30 for work, cos I'm poorly.
The neighbors are having a row, so can't get back to sleep, they are noisy buggers
On the plus side, I checked the bank and it looks like I got a bonus, totally not expecting it as being off sick since mid march.

@Franklydear I'm sorry you are still feeling poorly but great news about the bonus 💸

@Skip86 doesn't sound defeatist I think in general we do know our bodies best but AF isn't here yet so you never know, our bodies change over time and every pregnancy is different so there is always hope 🙏

And yeah no making up or make up sex this morning, he was up and out of bed getting ready for work before 5.30am 😴 my temp rose this morning and no idea if that's because of bad sleep but could indicate that I've actually ovulated already, oh well I've got two weeks before I know anything so I guess there is no point being down that whole time, so trying to put my positive pants on this morning xx

@SmileyT your time between messages was not long darling - I do hope you managed to get at least a bit of sleep. Good to try and pull those positive pants up but also ok to have a moan when you feel crap too x

@Franklydear wooo for the bonus! I got a message from my work yesterday sayingall eligible employees will receive the maximum colleague reward in julys pay so yay for that too 💵

@SmileyT oh crap your message reminded me that I haven't temped yet 🙄

@KateColx I shall invest in some cheapies I think also to fulfil my POAS obsession 😂 and I'm the same. Didn't realise so many women got pregnant but didn't make it past the first few weeks its not something I'd ever worried about before but now experienced it myself so I too will he stressed even if I get my BFP☹️

@OnNaturesCourse 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼
@KRK05 who's going first 😂😂🙈

@SmileyT oh no I totally get why you're frustrated ☹️ out those positive pants on and try to think the best. You can't do anything now so no point dwelling on it. Hopefully somethings caught and you'll get a sticky bean 💪🏼💪🏼

@Skip86 did you have a nice day ??🥳

Also OH asked to bend me over the bed this morning but then remembered I had brown stuff inside my vag and decided he wasn't up for it anymore 😂😂 I'm not even bothered 😂

@lucyrp had pretty good day! I only saw my kids and mum and had coffee/cake in the morning, but did get a few flower and present deliveries from friends, and OH got me diamond earrings 😱😍 I wasn't expecting anything because I bought myself some super expensive ugg boots online a few weeks ago and told him they were my bday present from him!

But... I am having a little bday drinks party Saturday night (we are nearly covid free and can have gatherings up to 20 people). I haven't told you girls this but that's my big motivation for not testing early 🙈 if I get a bfp I won't want to drink, and if I get a bfn I'll feel too sad and not want to hang out with friends!!
So I'll just hold out and enjoy my cocktails on Saturday 🍸🍹🥂

@Vil10 haha 🤣 I knew it! No such thing as an accident! A quick nip slip will do it every time 🤣x

@TheGirlWhoLived that t shirt comment made me laugh!!! X

@notyetamumbuttrying @TTCgee I’m still sore nipped but still no peak 😩 @unluckyducky I’m not sure how a let down feels I never got to BF my DS they just feel all tingly and sore to touch!! My husband was like well you got sore boobs last time you got preg and I was like yeah but I don’t think it’s that as I don’t seem to have even ovulated yet.

Ladies could I have ovulated already? It’s CD19 and just still reading high? I keep thinking but you hear of women missing the pill once and getting pregnant so would it be out of the ordinary to have ovulated early and not picked it up? I have no idea what is going on! I also had the tiniest pink tinge like maybe two drops of blood yesterday. So confused!?!

(Btw please don't judge me drinking in the TWW, I don't get out much and need this night out sooo bad!!)