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TTC after MC - May 2020 Part3

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Ejb86 · 25/05/2020 09:16

Almost filled the last thread, so thought we'd better start another one. Ladies feel free to tag everyone in.

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Re6ecc4 · 27/05/2020 07:11

Thanks @VP91x and @SmileyT!
My temp yesterday was 37.4 but obviously I dont know my baseline so we'll have to see!

VP91x · 27/05/2020 07:15

@Re6ecc4 oh I think that's a high temp in general though! What was it today?

Re6ecc4 · 27/05/2020 07:26

@VP91x I actually took my temp at about 10am yesterday so it will probably be around then

SmileyT · 27/05/2020 10:01

@Re6ecc4 how did you take your temp? And was it before you got out of bed? Your temp will fluctuate a lot over the day but that does seem high, I think 37.5 and above is classed as a fever x

@VP91x blank ⭕️ again 😐 I'm feeling okay although last month I got a bit anxious at this point aswell so just trying to accept it's okay to feel this way. Yeah I think there is no picture perfect chart or symptoms so best to just wait for the test and not guess too much x

VP91x · 27/05/2020 10:12

@SmileyT ah, those tests are infuriating - they should have a disclaimer 😂

You might go blank to peak again though, but I can imagine you're getting frustrated. Is it a SMEP day for you? X

Re6ecc4 · 27/05/2020 11:01

@SmileyT vaginally but I am quite a warm person I think.

Re6ecc4 · 27/05/2020 11:10

Still at 37.4 today by the way!

WellHurrahAndHuzzah · 27/05/2020 12:38

Hi, just wanting to keep checking in with you all.

I'm now on TWW and I'll be honest I'm really relieved to have a break from DTD Grin

AF due on Wed 10th June according to Flo, but my cycles are quite irregular so I never put too much faith in it!! Anyone else due around then? I'm determined that if I'm late I won't test until the weekend after Shock

Hope you're all doing okay, and enjoying the sunshine.

SmileyT · 27/05/2020 15:03

@VP91x yes it's a SMEP day but me and OH had a bit of an argument this morning so I don't know if it will happen, so just a bit fed up today but it's all good we'll sort it out when I get home from work though xx

@Re6ecc4 yeah vaginally is a bit warmer aswell so just keep track of it first thing and then hopefully you see a pattern 🤞

@WellHurrahAndHuzzah come join us on the June thread for all of us testing in a few weeks time x

Jazper · 27/05/2020 15:40

@WellHurrahAndHuzzah
I'm due 8th June! I love keeping up with everyone's journeys on here but it's nice to find someone so close in dates to me.
Let's wait it out together! How's the tww going for you so far?

@SmileyT
I didn't realise there was a June thread. I'll come find it ☺️

Rainbowhope11 · 27/05/2020 17:11

@VP91x how are you feeling today? Fingers crossed for you that your temps are on their way back up Xx

I just had my blood test done, hopefully I'll get the results tomorrow morning.

I've been on an emotional roller coaster 😫 I tested with a cheap cvs brand test and got a faint positive, this was yesterday afternoon. I then repeated after a few hours and could see some kind of a line. Couldn't see anything on the IC. I then started reading about lots of people getting false positives on the cvs brand tests😫 I tested this morning with fmu on a frer and got a negative. I'm so frustrated.

VP91x · 27/05/2020 17:23

@Rainbowhope11 hey, I'm feeling okay actually. Thank you, it stayed the same from yesterdays so hoping it shoots up tomorrow.

Oh no!! That's so frustrating. Your bloods will also tell you if you're pregnant right? Xx

Rainbowhope11 · 27/05/2020 17:33

@VP91x yeah my blood should indicate whether or not I've had a rise in Hcg. I was feeling so hopeful yesterday, but now I don't know. I don't feel pregnant at all. Been having some changes in cm, the other day I had thick creamy white discharge that was very stretchy. And then this morning I had really thin milky cm. My body seems to just be all over the place.

VP91x · 27/05/2020 19:01

@SmileyT oh no way - I hope everything is okay and you manage to sort things out? Are you feeling any better? Xx

SmileyT · 27/05/2020 19:13

@VP91x yeah all sorted now... came in the door and he was like let's make it up to you ☺️ dinner cooked, foot massages and DTD 🙈 so all sorted. So excited for you to test on Friday xx

VP91x · 27/05/2020 19:17

@SmileyT ah thats so nice!! My partner is the worst cook ever, he would probably only cook for me if he was still angry and wanted to spite me 😂😂. Glad you have had a nice afternoon.

Ah I'm so nervous!! Also interested at what happens because AF is due saturday if my cycle is the same as last month so no idea if I will be officially late by the weekend considering I OVd late!xx

SmileyT · 27/05/2020 19:55

@VP91x I'd say base whether you are late on length of LP last 3 months mine has been 13 days so if I get further than that it'd be a good sign, once you get to 12dpo if temp stays high I think that's a really good sign. Only one more morning of having to get rid of your FMU 😂And my OH used to work in a kitchen and his dream would be to open a restaurant of his own as he loves food and cooking, I'm pretty sure I've forgotten how to cook since I met him 🙈

VP91x · 27/05/2020 20:07

@SmileyT literally I have been doing my wee before I've had a chance to change my mind 😂😂 I wish I had tracked my last few cycles better but they were so irregular anyway. So absolutely not a clue.

Ahh, that's so so good. Do you think he would do it? X

SmileyT · 27/05/2020 20:34

@VP91x yeah just get that first wee out the way tomorrow then you won't want to waste a FRER on a SMU... erm he can open a restaurant after we have a couple kids and I'm back at work, can't have both of us off work at the same time 😂

Niisa · 27/05/2020 20:39

Hey ladies! Just caught up with all the messages - I’ve taken a 2 week break from Mumsnet to focus on Ramadan & Eid. Congrats to all the BFPs!!!!!!! I knew there’d be more! Sorry to everyone who’s joined us!

I’m on CD7 today and according to my app, my ovulating window starts today. Will start to DTD every other night starting tonight and then do a few nights in a row from CD12 onwards as that’s when I’ve supposedly been ovulating. We’ve not DTD in 6 weeks - I’ve given him blue balls!!! 😂

Re6ecc4 · 27/05/2020 21:54

@SmileyT I will do!!
I've been having little twinges and cramps and keep feeling like I started my period, but its just wind

MrsLLister · 27/05/2020 22:06

So I came off the pill in March and been TTC since. I was on cerazette for 5 years before. I’ve felt horrendous since coming off the pill and really struggling to track my cycles and know when ovulation is and I’m getting disheartened with it.

SmileyT · 28/05/2020 04:11

@Re6ecc4 fingers crossed your period stays away and it's just your body doing it's work x

VP91x · 28/05/2020 05:56

Hey @Rainbowhope11 how are you feeling today? Xx

Re6ecc4 · 28/05/2020 11:11

@SmileyT I certainly hope so!!
Well today was period day and guess what... no period yet! Sigh. Hope it's not just my body messing with me. Sore boobs haven't gone yet though... usually they go on the day it comes.