50 shades of TTC (June bus part 2)

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Let's all intro ourselves again...so people can use the top of the thread as a quick reference to where we are at and maybe find some cycle buddies - everyone welcome to join the madhouse of the June 2020 bus x

@lucyrp I think that can be normal after ovulation as your egg will have popped out of its follicle. So a good sign!

Im not planning on telling anybody that we are TTC, I have an Ironman race in September - in my mind its cancelled anyway because of Covid, but if anybody asks me about drinking and babies I can say Im training hard.

I have 2 hair cuts a year 🙈🙈so definitely dont spend a lot on beauty stuff! I do like to wax my foof though! atm doing it myself at home.

@Minster2012 yasss I am just into the TWW i had my static on Sunday so taking yesterday as ov day so actually I'm only 1dpo but it's so confusing lol I'm CD17 at the moment!
Omg I absolutely love hearing these little snippets about everyone trying to picture what you all look like!

@blodyn91 I did wonder, thank you🤞🏼 I've always wanted to get a bikini wax but don't even know where to look. I hate shaving but do it for poor OH😂 does it hurt ?🙈 I have 3 close friends that know I'm TTC and most of my work friends know but its a very close environment so they know most of my life's ins and outs 😂what's said in work stays in work 🤞🏼 people do keep prodding me tho sayint oo come on time you two popped one out and in my head in like yes I'm trying! 🙈

I'm 5dpo. Af due around the 4th

Can't wait until all the testing starts, it will be very exciting! @Minster2012 you are doing well to yo organize all this info, it's very busy.

@Minster2012 I'm on cd10 which is usually ov day for me but with the agnus castus it's pushed it bk so I'm guessing I'll be a regular cd14 for ov day but we'll see!
@rathernotshare aww so good of you to wait for all the other weddings before honeymooning. Luckily we were the last out of 4 last year (inc my sisters wedding) so we got to honeymoon straight away. Came off the pill once we got bk, wish I'd done it before the wedding now but was worried about being on for it!

@LittleRa I’ll be testing about the 1st June also although not holding out much hope as we didn’t DTD around ovulation but there’s always hope as I think it was 3days before so not out until af arrives (as someone on here reminded me) x

@MrsDubz I feel your pain haha!! Don’t ask @lucyrp she’s a sex machine haha in a good way tho! She deffo never gets tired! X

@slimshadyscousin I literally told one friend via whasapp who is having her baby this week! I wanted to tell someone but haven’t told anyone else so it’s a secret for now! X

@LV1987 Olive c oil? Do you just rub it on? How often? I bought that rapid lash from boots a few years back which did work but cost about £50 so I’m reluctant to buy it again! Did you pluck your brows to within and inch of their life? Tiny little line! That’s what mine were like in the 00s haha x

@Minster2012 you missed me 😭 AF due 9th June same as @watermelonwizard on CD15 and waiting for Ov to happen....impatiently! X

@Skip86 @LittleRa @slimshadyscousin had a few days off this and all these messages, love it! I noticed though that you 3 are due af beginning of June?? How many dpo are you all? I’m 3dpo, af due around 7th/8th

@watermelonwizard @lucyrp another Welsh person here 🙋‍♀️ not far from Swansea

@Vil10 my AF is due 7/8!! wahhh

@blodyn91 ahhhh! When are you going to test?? For some reason I’m not feeling very positive for this cycle, I think I’m trying not to get my hopes up but I can’t see myself getting that BFP!

@Katao I'm 4dpo also got AF due on 4th June. When are you planning on testing? I want to hold off until day of AF and test on 4 June as I read that link someone posted that said the vast majority of women don't get a positive result until 13dpo... so don't want to stress myself out unnecessarily with a false negative ... but then might be equally stressed out not knowing if it's a positive!!

I had a CP over a year ago (due to various factors have waited this long to try again) and got a positive on 11dpo then lost it a week later - super common apparently but at the time it was awful - had planned to tell my mum on Mother's Day and everything.

So once I get to 11dpo I'm going to find it really hard to hold off on the testing!!! The frers are ready sitting in the bathroom cupboard... eek

@Amy00 sorry to hear about you CP it must be awful to get so excited about it and then have it all taken away. I feel for all the ladies on here that have been through a loss :( 🤞🏻 For a BFP for you on 4th June! I got a positive 11DPO last time with FR and 12DPO with CB. I’d tested from 8DPO but got negatives but they were with cheap boots tests that aren’t as sensitive maybe if my FR had arrived earlier and I’d of used that I’d of found out a few day’s before 🤷🏼‍♀️ Who knows! I’m excited I don’t think I’d be able to hold off and I’m still waiting for Ov and already thinking about which day I can test! X

@Vil10 I'm not feeling very positive this cycle either although I'm not sure why as I've covered all possible days of conceiving and my AF is due 8th June I believe!

@Amy00 I had a CP at the beginning of this month so I know how you feel

@Vil10 I haven't bought any tests yet- so plan is not to even buy one until the 9th of June! So from what I hear on this I'll be a late tester 🙈 but just want to give AF a chance first.
Its my first proper cycle off the pill so also not 100% sure what my body is up to, but we have hopefully covered all basis with DTD. Im just concious that I have been a bit more stressed lately and that can affect fertility but will see. Might try one more cycle if this is unsuccessful, but then I'll have to give up for a whole 12 months which will be hard. But don't want to give birth to close to my re scheduled wedding date, spent so much on my dress and it looks amazing so I'm determined to wear it! Only 29 so feel I can wait if needs be, but 🤞 I dont need to

Guys I know this is silly but is there any way to tell the different between EWCM and left over sperm? Swore I had some this morning but so confused now xx

@blodyn91 🤞🏻For you it would be hard to stop I imagine once you’ve started x

@lucyrp you have deffo covered all bases! More than covered! You couldn’t of done any more! I would be shocked if you didn’t get a BFP this month! I’m sure you will 🤞🏻 X

@Amy00 so sorry to hear about your CP, I can’t even imagine the excitement for it to then be ruined, things are cruel sometimes!!

@lucyrp yes I’m the same! I think we’ve done enough but sometimes it just doesn’t stick which is so frustrating especially when you feel like you’ve gone above and beyond what you need to do! I really hope this is our month and we’re surprises but if not, there’s always next🤞🏼

@blodyn91 I wish I was like you!! I ordered an frer on zoom baby during my fertile week!! But I’m going to try and not test until the day af is due, probs won’t happen but god loves a trier! If you’ve done everything you can then don’t worry, you can’t have do anything more! I can imagine it being hard at first but at least you have a lovely wedding and amazing dress to look forward to and to keep your mind off it, and then you know after the wedding you’ve got all the fun baby making coming up!! I’ll have my fingers crossed for you this cycle, hopefully we’ll all get that BFP!!x

@Mococo1 I believe the answer is no! I remember some of the other ladies talking about this earlier in the thread or on the previous one! I think it looks pretty much the same! X

@cocoblue22 It will be 😬 I think we will plan a pre wedding honey moon if so. So I can obsess over something else.

@Cocoblue22 I know I keep worrying because I think we only DTD 2 times on ov day but then I compare myself to some people who haven't actually done it on that day and they get BFP so surely there's hope 😂🙈

@Vil10 fingers crossed!

@LV1987 I am 33 too and most definitely have 90s brows!! Well, perhaps more like very early 00s brows. What I wouldn't do to be able to travel back in time and smack those tweezers out of my obnoxious little 16 year old hand!

Not sure who was asking, but you can't get any form of tattoos when pregnant, even brow micro blading etc (though I only know that it's not allowed in Australia, might be different in UK)

@Mococo1 I always thought sperm was cloudy and EWCM clear, but I def can't tell the difference when it's coming out of me and trying to decipher which is which!