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Still no AF...!

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StopCallingMe · 21/05/2020 11:47

I posted a few days ago. I’m not 100% sure how late I am. Definitely over a week now.
I’m on the pill, not missed any that I can remember and I’m always like clockwork with af. I’ve taken a few IC tests and they look pretty negative. I had very slight brown spotting about 4 days ago but it lasted about 2 hours and was only when I wiped.
Today, I feel gross. Tired, the dishwasher made me gag and so did my coffee. The coffee is always a sign for me. What’s going on?! Attached the latest test for reference

Still no AF...!
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brads88 · 21/05/2020 12:09

I'm in a very similar boat... my period is 5 days late - I took a pregnancy test yesterday which was negative (digital so no second guessing!)

I've been 2/3 days late maybe once in the last year but never this long (I track my cycle).
I've been extremely tired the last few weeks but have put that down to corona-fatigue (working full time at home with two kids aged under 4).

Also...my husband had a vasectomy a few months ago which would make it even more unlikely! However because of corona virus we haven't been able to drop his sample off at the hospital to get checked...

I can't think what else would be causing me to be this late? I've had no spotting - no cramps, nothing. I will test again on the weekend if still no AF! Hmm

StopCallingMe · 21/05/2020 12:24

Hi, sorry you’re in limbo too.
I haven’t had any cramps. I tend to get them about 20mins before af. My boobs are bigger, but they always get a bit bigger before I’m due. Been big for about a week now. So frustrating

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ria85 · 21/05/2020 12:35

Mine is late by 6 days also :( My last period in April was so light and barely last compared to my normal period, I wondered if it was implantation bleeding?

My boobs are big, my nipples are massive and getting weird bumps around them, cramps on and off, I'm exhausted all the time. Home pregnancy test and blood test both negative so have no idea what is up with my body.. Just putting it down to stress for now!

StopCallingMe · 21/05/2020 12:39

What a nightmare. I could cheerfully go to bed now and sleep until Saturday!

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brads88 · 21/05/2020 16:15

I had a 2 hour nap today Confused the longer it goes on the more I wonder...
With my previous two pregnancies now that I come to think of it I didn't get positive tests until a bit later (ie period more than a week late).

I've also just googled "vasectomy failure rates" and according to some sites it's up to 9% Shock

I don't mind the outcome but I do mind the not knowing! I'm hoping the more we talk about it the more we tempt an outcome!

StopCallingMe · 21/05/2020 16:35

I just woke up. Fell asleep on the sofa while the DC watched a film. Think I was out for 2 hours! Have barely eaten today. Just feel crap.
If I was PG it wouldn’t be the best news. DH would be a mess!

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emmaluggs · 21/05/2020 16:39

I just stumbled across this thread my AF is also late, by 10 days waiting for a test to arrive id be extremely surprised to find I was pregnant, but I’m exhausted, off food today but think it’s just the stress of thinking I could be 😱. This is only my 2nd period after I’ve stopped breastfeeding so I’m hoping it’s things taking time to get back to normal

StopCallingMe · 21/05/2020 23:28

Hi, hope youre all ok.
If af hasn’t arrived in the morning, I’m going to buy a frer. I’d be shocked(and terrified) if I was pregnant. I’m assuming the ICs would have shown something by now if I was?
I’m panicking though, incase that slight spotting I had last week was implantation...

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brads88 · 22/05/2020 08:00

Any change for anyone this morning...? Still no period still Bfn over here...

I'm starting to think I'm not pregnant and delayed period is just down to the stress over the last few weeks. I've been going at 100mph so it's probably staying to catch up with me.

StopCallingMe · 22/05/2020 08:42

AF just arrived!! God knows where she’s been?! Booked herself a little holiday and clearly I missed the memo!
Yes, I think a lot of people’s cycles are haywire due to all this lockdown malarkey.

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brads88 · 24/05/2020 07:48

I got a bfp this morning.

Told dh and he is freaking out (I guess understandably - not what you expect after a vasectomy).

Really not sure what I'm going to do - I don't want a termination and dh is very worried about his mental health if we have a third. Equally the prospect of 3 kids aged 4 and under at home is terrifying (my ds doesn't start school until next year).

StopCallingMe · 25/05/2020 11:45

Oh congratulations(I think?!)

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