New thread for the crazy gang - Part 5!

[Mumofboys17]

Not sure if anyone else has made one yet, hoping we haven’t got lost!! So made a new thread just in case 😊

@Beau20
@LV1987
@Danni2019
@Missgoldilocks
@WaitingOnThePositive
@Boo2020

Our BFP’s
@Sunflower2019
@Katie1109
@Fredthespider
@Quiffy

If I’ve missed anyone please add in!
Lucky thread number 5.... hopefully 🤞🏻🤞🏻

@Missgoldilocks haven't booked anything yet as I feel it's a bit early, I'm only 5 weeks, I want to make sure I can see something and definitely a heartbeat! I'd ideally like to wait til around 12 weeks again as we could see so much on the screen last time. We'll see.. maybe I can convince DH to do it slightly earlier 😂 xx

@Mumofboys17 😂 I think I'd want one at 8 weeks then 12 weeks hehe xx

How's everyone doing? I guess its gonna be quiet here now 😢. I'm only 4 dpo but absolutely obsessing and desperate for a bfp. I was looking up studies done about people who were on long term copper coil and it's mad but basically if you're on it for 6 years plus it's known to be difficult to concieve after 😑 the reason I got it in the first place was because there was no hormones how the effff does that make sense.

@Missgoldilocks I'm still here!! I know what you mean, I was googling like mad as always and just figured I was out as o had zero cm, boobs weren't sore and cp was low and very hard at around 7/8dpo.. but then obviously it was completely irrelevant, this one cycle I had hardly any symptoms at all! Try and stay positive lovely, keep going ❤️ xxx

@Missgoldilocks I'm still here and about the same spot as you , 5DPO ( based on my temp which I did for the first time this month), don't do opks. This was later than I'd usually expect so just a waiting game now. When is AF due? X

@Missgoldilocks I'm still here too I'm mostly online while at work so i can chat away. What cycle is this now?
I'm the opposite then to @Mumofboys17 I had backache and my boobs were ridiculously sore so everyone is different. xx I feel like I know exactly how you feel I was dissapointed for so many months but if I can get a BFP you can too I have everything crossed that this is your month!!! xx

@LAnna20 how are you what cycle is this for you are you TTC no one sorry you have probably said but there is way too many messages to go through. x

@BFP2020 @Mumofboys17 thanks so much for the support!! I know it can go either way having symptoms or not having symptoms just a waiting game lol but I guess I'm thinking wow what if we try till january and then have to go for ivf?! That's mental. Anyway it's cycle 13 for me but been off contraception since April 2019.

Just a minute ago I was making a coffee and got weird feelings in my belly 😂😂 I was like ohhhh please be implantation 🤣🤣🤣 crazy gang (secretly hope it is tho all jokes aside 😂😂)

@LAnna20 hey! How are you?? How long have you been trying? Bbt is great I was thinking of trying it again if I have to next month instead of opks! Really gives you insight to your cycle x

@Missgoldilocks my only advice is just try and take each cycle as it comes. I know it sounds easy for me to say this now, but just remember we have ALL been in your position! We're all in this together, you've just got to keep as positive as you can. Even if (and that's a BIG if!) it gets to the IVF stage, then it's still a second option. I'm confident it will happen for you!! Xxx

@Mumofboys17 thanks lovely xxx I hope you don't dissappear on me keep checking in xx how are you feeling? Xx

@Missgoldilocks Obviously I'm staying positive that this will be your month but would you go straight for IVF would you not try IUI first?
What was the feeling like? At 9 DPO I was driving to the beach and had pinching feeling which I never had before low down in the middle last for about 10 mins!! I'm convinced that was my implantation!!

@BFP2020 it felt like implantation that I had on a previous pregnancy but on a lower scale and not for as long, it was fleeting so I don't think I should hold onto it lol plus I've been working out alot it may be a muscle there having a twitching episode and I'm only 4dpo sooo I need to just stop being crazy haha

Oh sorry to answer your question @BFP2020 because iui has a lower rate I read that you might as well go straight for ivf because you have a higher chance of it working but I guess if it came to it I'd get professional advise first

Hi @Missgoldilocks & @BFP2020 . I'm ok thank you , despite being in the craziness of the TWW! On cycle 10 now of TTC. First month of doing BBT and definitely preferring it to OPKs so do recommend.
These BFP are certainly helping and giving me hope xx

@Missgoldilocks Fingers crossed it implantation. It may be too early tho but who knows!! In the fertility clinic I went to they advised if they can find nothing wrong a medicated IUI cycle has a great chance that why i was opting or that. Do what I did book it and you prob get pregnant just before you go in
Are you working at the moment? I always used try keep busy during TWW but I'm in front of a computer all day and have quiet times so I found I used keep googling things!!x

@LAnna20 I tried BBT but found it hard as my DD used wake during the night at the time and felt it was never accurate. x

@Mumofboys17 How you feeling? x

@Missgoldilocks I'm doing alright, cramps have near enough stopped now if I really think about it I can still feel a bit of cramping but definitely less so gives me some hope 😂 I just feel so different than I did with DS, I've got food aversions to pretty much everything despite being hungry 24/7, with DS I just wanted to eat everything 😂 xx

@BFP2020 how are you feeling? Has it sunk in yet? I haven't told family yet planning to by the weekend though so hoping when I have it'll start to feel real!! X

@Mumofboys17 Still don't think it has properly sunk in think it might when I see those 2-3 week on the digital next week. I'm already nauseous(but not complaining) was eating my cereal there awhile ago and literally felt while I was chewing it I was going to puke but I'm also hungry so trying to make myself eat if I don't I get Heartburn and that make me feel sick! Drinking a camomile tea there now find that helps! I told my parent and his and my sister but no one else until maybe the 8 week scan just need to see that heartbeat might tell my close friend and his sister then but will wait to tell DD until 12 week scan. Did my other FRER this morning it def got darker! x

Why is it everytime I write a message its like an essay haha

Girls I'm really worried 😭 I think this could all be ending before it's even started. My boobs aren't sore at all anymore, I've been crampy for a few days, I don't have any sickness and I (very carefully) checked my cp this morning and it's VERY low and firm like before AF. I haven't had any bleeding but I know that doesn't have to happen.

I don't know what to do. I just really feel like I'm not pregnant anymore. We've just told family as well. I tried to ring the community midwives office for advice but I don't think they're in on weekends.
I know nothing can be done if this really is the end but I just feel a massive sense of impending doom. 😭

What the frig, I disappear for a couple of weeks and come back to not one but two BFPs?! Congrats @Mumofboys17 and @BFP2020 ❤️

@missgoldilocks I'm still here... Just been awol while waiting for FW to come around because I find myself wishing away the days otherwise! CD18 now so let the shagging commence 😂

@Mumofboys17 nooooo noooo 😩😩😩🙏🙏🙏 I really really hope that isn't the case!!! Please try stay positive!! Have you taken another pregnancy test?? The thing is the pregnancy feelings can go up and down can't they so please try to think positive and don't stress your body and mind xxxxx ❤️❤️❤️🤗🤗

@LV1987 hahaha the shagging week what an absolute drag 😩💕💕 enjoy it though haha and good luck! I'm 6dpo and not a damn thing happening

@Missgoldilocks I've got 2 CB blue dye tests left but if I was miscarrying then it could still be positive anyway couldn't it? I'm really hoping it's just my anxiety but I really can't shake the feeling 🙁 I'm not in pain and don't have any bleeding, but I've been googling like mad this morning and even in that case it could go either way. Just hope my symptoms are fluctuating although that never happened with DS 😕 fml 😫
Hope you're doing OK though? Xxx
@LV1987 glad to see you back!! I know what you mean about waiting for FW that's always the same with me too! X

@Mumofboys17 no honestly I'm going to say I think you're okay, the feelings can come and go I've experienced that before. I guess it would be still positive but with some people I think on a first response the line fades? But I guess that depends on how far along it is. How many weeks are you now? You might get blown in the face by symptoms at week 7 or something, there's no clear way for everyone and every pregnancy so just stop googling madam first of all and second take it easy.
I'm fine, feel normal only 6dpo xx

@Mumofboys17 can you get ur hands on a digital because that should say 2-3 weeks by now and if it does it may help ur anxiety levels. Xxx

@LV1987 thank you xx get busy so and u can be another Aug BFP

@Missgoldilocks no symptoms are good too 🤞🏼🤞🏼

@Mumofboys17 please don't worry im sure all is fine . I have heard that symptoms can change in the early weeks, your body is DOI some amazing thing! How many weeks are you? Maybe wait a week and then test if you are still unsure. In the meantime take it easy 😘

@Missgoldilocks @LAnna20 I'm only 5 weeks so it's still so early.. I mentioned to DH yesterday about potentially going for an early scan privately sooner than 12 weeks. I'm a worrier anyway but this is ridiculous!
I burst into tears earlier and my poor DS didn't know what to do, he brought me his tablet and one of his sweeties and said 'it's ok mummy, don't be sad' and cuddled me, which evidently made me cry more!! He's only 2 bless him 😭😭
I've had more cramps this afternoon and feel quite wet down below, quite a bit of white creamy cm. I'm not checking cp anymore x

Thank you for listening to my ramblings anyway ladies it really does mean a lot to me ❤️