Hello, I am new to this so please forgive my lack of savvy-ness....
We have two beautiful boys age 5 and nearly 4 and have been without contraception since January. My husband’s philosophy is, “if it hapens it will happen....” however I am wondering why it is not happening. I am 36 and my husband is 35. I guess I am quite ignorant as to whether we are hoping for something to happen realistically or just need to count our blessings as we have them now. I guess i am just wondering if anyone with 2+ children already has battled the same quandaries as far as the guilt of being greedy, the practical element and any physiological advice?
This is in no way meant to cause offence to anyone as I know we are incredibly lucky already. I almost feel ashamed to ask ....