Third thread for ttc!

[NicoleR14]

Third thread for us ladies!
@ArjaD
@dizzy85
@sungirl11
@donnat89
@shelly10111
@Bbutterfly

Sorry if I missed anyone lol x

@dizzy85 I agree with a glass of wine is what you need right now! If you want one have one. I'd have done the same for sure @ArjaD xx

@dizzy85 I'm so so sorry to hear that hun❤️ if there's anything we can do for you please let us know I'm heartbroken for you xx

@dizzy85 that’s totally understandable. Hopefully they figure out what’s going on.

@Hogrider - it’s horrible just wish by body cycle was ‘normal’ as if this whole thing isn’t hard enough

@Hogrider Thankyou ❤️xxx

@ArjaD @Bbutterfly @NicoleR14 thanks girls it really means a lot❤️ I have infact just gone and got a cold beer from the fridge and gonna have this and then a nap coz I'm exhausted. And the wine will for sure be coming out tonight! Honestly what a fucked up journey this ttc really is!! Xxx

@dizzy85 it's the most stressful thing I think women go through, whatever happens. Go for it xxx

@ArjaD it really is, no matter the outcome even just the whole process of the monthly cycles and timing it all etc etc it's so draining. Us women are amazing what we go through!
I'm gonna demand every test under the sun now. I was thinking earlier I wonder if years of taking the pill when I was younger might of messed things up I stopped taking it about 5 years ago but I told them ages ago after I stopped it I don't think my hormones are right I've been saying it for years but they've not listened but it could be the case. Xxx

@dizzy85 I do recall hearing from a friend she got a hormone treatment in order for her to carry babies full term. Can't remember the details of it though. But yes we are being put through the wringer, and you got a particularly crappy time with it all 😢 I'd just bang your fists on the table (blame the hormones for the rage) and demand everything you can get. I took the pill from age 13 till I was in my late 20s, but I'm glad i stopped when I did. It just can't be good for you.

@Jaylou7 any luck yet???? X

@Donnat89 you received them yet?? Xxxx

I'm so so sorry @dizzy85 sending all my love to you, such a horrible experience. I hope now the doctors do everything they can to help.
And I really hope you get some proper answers soon @NicoleR14 what a journey of frustration you have been through!

Keeping all you ladies in my thoughts xx

Also to add to the 'where I'm from' posts, I'm from Northern Ireland!

Hi @Bbutterfly thank you so much for adding me. 😘

@ArjaD I wouldn't be surprised if the pill is to blame I was young and naive and didn't really know much about it when I took it just that everyone was on it so it must be safe, I took it from age 14/15 to age 29 and I have said to my OH for years my hormones are fucked. I'd never take it now I've read so much bad stuff about it that I wish I knew when I was younger. I 100% will be demanding of everything, I don't feel like I can carry on trying until I've got some answers and I did plan on having more than one baby so I'm gonna push it massively as times not on my side.
Anyway the beer has helped calm me down so that's something lol.
Hope your doing ok? Xx

@Bbutterfly no they haven't ! It's actually typical the day I'm sat waiting for them they are late delivery is now saying by 9pm !!!!

Whenever I've ordered them before it's been here by midday !!

Soo annoying I'm just trying to put it to the back of my mind until they arrive

On the plus side no more cramps today and no back ache so hoping it's a good sign ! Will find out soon I'm sure if they come too late il have to test on the morning .

Xxx

@Jaylou7 no problem glad you made it! 😊♥️

Hello everyone thank you to the lovely @Bbutterflyfor adding me. I have read all 39 pages of your last thread I am drawn to so many of your stories. @dizzy85i I am so sorry for your recent loss. I had my second miscarriage at the beginning of this month and also had one last July. I am waiting to see if I am pregnant at the end of this month. (Yes we tried again straight away) although only once but was peak fertility day on my clear blue. My boobs are aches and I am feeling hormonal but have to wait and see. I want to wish @NicoleR14 and @Donnat89 all the luck with your positives! Also everyone else that’s trying that I have not mentioned. I am new to mums net but loving it.
I am 40 and have 2 sons ages 14 and 3. Xx

@Nmew Thankyou ❤️ it's absolutely shit. I really hope I get some answers too. Just waiting for the crap to happen then I can move on and get hassling my drs.
Hope your doing well still.
Ooh Northern Ireland we are all so spread out. I've not been to Ireland or Scotland yet where lots of the others are from but they're definitely on my list of places to visit at some point in life. Xx

@dizzy85

@dizzy85 my heart is breaking for you 😢❤️ sending lots of love your way xxxx

@Jaylou7 Thankyou ❤️ and welcome to the thread. Sorry for your losses too it's so hard isn't it. I had one last July too and one a few months back and now this one starting today. I'd have never imagined I'd even ever have the one let alone all this! Anyway just wishing you lots of luck I hope this is your month xx

Sorry @dizzy85 I mentioned you in my first post but accidentally but an i next you your name. Thinking of you. It’s very fresh for me. Stay positive xxx

@Carol1980 Thankyou that means a lot ❤️ just want it all over and done with now so I can move on and focus on fixing the problem. Hope you are good xxx

@Jaylou7 I'm sorry for the problems you have faced too. I really hope you get your healthy bfp this month! @dizzy85 I am exactly the same as you on pill from 15-29 and feel the same about my hormones! It's stressful. @Donnat89 I'm becoming so impatient for you lol what a wait! Xxx

@Bbutterfly it's like the longest wait of my life if it gets too late I may just wait until tomorrow and use FMU , also gives AF more time to show if she's going to as I hate wasting by tests for AF to show straight after taking them !

@dizzy85 you may be on to something I got given the pill because my periods were so irregular and I bled a lot so the doc put me on a light pill from age 13. I have also always felt like it was just putting unnatural crap in me though and I came off when I was maybe 26 or 27. Didn't start trying for a baby till I was 33 so I suppose I had a good while to get rid of all the crap out of my system. I really hope you get your answers and that it turns out to be something they can correct quickly xx I'm ok thanks. Boobs getting a bit sore, still the odd cramp here and there. Waiting for my appointment letter to come through. Feeling bad talking about it actually, it can't be easy 😞

How are you doing at @Nmew? Northern Ireland is one we haven't had yet xx