Sex while ttc

[letloz]

Is it ok that it sucks? (Or, at the best, does nothing for me at all while I think about what's for dinner?) Sex the rest of the time is good, and we tend to have one 'fun' one per well-timed window, but otherwise, it's just business like. I don't mind really, but kinda feel we should be putting in more effort to make it enjoyable. Would be interested to hear others' experiences?

Hi,it can sometimes sucks...maybe because you have to do it even though you are not in the mood, or because you do it more often or just the fact that you know you are doing it for conceiving and that means stress.
I've been there a few times in my TTC journey but I try to spice things up a bit and this lockdown helps because we have plenty of time to spend together.
I m very open minded when it comes to sex so I try to add some sexy stuffs in bedroom.Dress up sexy and surprise him,try a role play if you are into it, or just drink a bottle of wine with him and see how it goes.Most important try not to think about it as just business(I know it's difficult)this really kills the mood and if he feels that he might not give his best performance.This really helped both of us to enjoy this but of course sometimes it is what it is...